Is it a problem if the man is truly multi-orgsmic

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  1. thick75

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    Not making a joke. Suppose the man has the very rare ability to have long continuous orgasms that could last minutes or an hour without going to the next orgasm. Just one long session of continuous thrashing, thrusting, moaning.. the full body orgasm that never ends.

    Of course this would be great in the beginning, But would you ever get tire of this and wish he would just stop? Also, are you multi-orgasmic yourself to the point that you could "match" him? In short could you handle or even put up with a man that placed such demands on you?

    I don't think this is a stupid question. I have just become a truly multi-orgasmic man that can do what I just described. I have not had sex with a woman while I have this new ability, but I am getting ready to hit the online dating scene where I have been successful in the past. But I am worried that I might be turning women off. Let me emphasize this... a thrusting, screaming, moaning, in full orgasm for a very long time. Can I assume that the normal woman would like this or have I created a monster with my "re-wiring"? If so, I am not sure how to undo the re-wiring and return to normal. So what do I have in store for me? I promise you that this is a sincere question.
     
  2. MickeyLee

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    i'm thinking of falling out of a plane cartoons..
    where the fall just goes on insanity long...
    long enough to check a watch...
    read an article in a magazine....
    make a phone call....
    check new posts on LPSG :rolleyes:

    *shrug*
    no idea. i've been with partners who were either naturally multi-orgasmic or, by orgasm denial/edging, have achieved marathon orgasms. the pay off for me was being an active participant in the orgasm.

    knowing my man-friend is enjoying himself at a superhuman level = sweet.

    did you discover ya ability during solo flights? like edging for hours/tantric self love?

    cuz... partner sex is way different from self stimulation :smile: no matter how puzzle pieces y'all's perv is, the chances of her/him hitting all your buttons with cheat code precision are pretty slim.

    *ponders* ya probably have no intention of ooky intonation.. but there is kind of a using a partner's various body parts to recreate ya masturbatory exploits thang about ya scenerio. that possible "may i borrow your *orifice of choice goes here* for an hour" vibe seems blechtastic to me.

    not to mention the prospect of some random, flailing away about my vagina in a nonrhythmic fit, isn't going to do much for me.

    if i can leave said dude idling on orgasmic while i pursue other interests? maybe not so bad.

    i still haven't seen the Who Xmas Special! :eek:

    so.. after much rambling... yes, lord of the ring running time orgasms would be a problem for me.
     
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    I agree with Ms Lee on this one. That seems like a long time for a man to be flailing and screaming while I may have moved onto to other things in my mind. This might be something you want to work on with someone special and receptive to the idea. To spring it on a woman might be a little, um, odd.

    As an aside to Ms Lee: truly you haven't seen the Doctor Who Xmas special? Wow...it was really good! Of course, I'm jonesin' for the Winchesters and Feb 10 for my Walkers seems an eternity away. I am truly a girl geek.
     
  4. MickeyLee

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    i have no peeped the seasonal joy that is the Who Xmas special. company and location over the holidays limited my viewing chances. now i am holding out to co-view with my Who Bestie. :biggrin1:

    *fandom squee* bliss starts mid January for me, Ms. Femme.. from SPN to Being Human *Lost Girl guilty pleasure*.. all my otherworldly entertainments/crushes are back.

    *cuddles Dean plushie*
    *cuddles Daryl plushie* Dead and their delayed gratification start times ... uuuggghhhh!!
     
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    If that Dean plushie has a brother, please to send me the matching Sammy plushie! Oh the things I will do to that Sammy :evil:
     
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    Thanks for reply.

    First.. I am not edging. Been there and done that before my re-wiring. I mean the genuine orgasm, without ejaculation, with uncountable spasms with much stronger intensity than a traditional wet orgasm. Whereas the traditional orgasm might have from 4 to 10 spasms, I can have as many as I want if I concentrate and assist with pelvic contractions. It seems it is much like the female orgasm. You can have as many as you really want, just as I can. The difference is that you can have female ejaculation, whereas I have trained myself to not ejaculate. Otherwise I think we are the same. You are able to have long uninterrupted spasms in a one continuous orgasm OR you can have a series of consecutive orgasms with no limits. I understand that your own limits are really set by your male partner. When he is finished you are finished. But if your partner has no limits you have no limits and both of you can fire off mutual orgasms "forever".c

    It gets even better. It is possibles for a couple to have "shared whole body orgasms"where it seems that you are having the same orgasm.

    I want to point out that this is different from tantric concept of managing the man's orgasm by timing one,s orgasm around the point of no return. As a general rule, a man may have from 2 to 15 orgasms Following those practices. What I am experiencing involves re-wiring the brain to have truly unlimited and much more intense orgasms that the Tantric or KSMO systems. There are so few men with this ability I doubt seriously you have encountered such a man. In a population of one million you would be lucky to find ONE man like this.

    But you have confirmed my fears. If the roles were reversed and I was fucking a truly multi-orgasmic woman who had repeated and uninterrupted orgasms, assuming I was able to stay hard (just as I was before my re-wiring) I would probably want to call a halt after sometime. So I think I may be answering my own question. So long las BOTH are experiencing multi-orgasms they will want to kjhcontinue with out stopping even though we may be talking about hours. But when one can not continue with their own orgasm the session will come to an end. As I type this I realize that this is a "DA" comment.. A "no shit dick Tracey" statement.

    But what I am learning is that if I can tone down my convulsions,moaning, gibberish etc. I can be more acceptable to the woman. Last night after posting my first question I tried this. It is like fucking a girl in my parent's house while they are home. You try to go quiet.

    the last thing I got from you replies is that you two really do not understand what I am talking about, if no other reason than you never had a man like this. This is understandable. But you reinforce the obvious. Everybody loves an orgasm and loves to have their partner have them also. In conclusion, I am over analyzing and worried about false concerns. Advice to myself? Go forth and bring joy to myself and my partner. Stop the questioning. I am very unique and I deserve it becaused I really work at it..at least 50 nights of intense re-wiring with more than 100 orgasms each night, worn out in tha AM and deprived of sleep. So I think I am ready to "come out" (not in the homosexual sense). If you know anybody in my area (New Orleans) who might like to try me out, have them call me. Send me a PM.
     
  7. MickeyLee

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    sorry i couldn't support your current porn stylized fantasy :smile:

    continued reading... dude, i can understand why you haven't had sex with a woman since you came into a higher state of being.
    :rofl:
     
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    I had a man like that. It was hot. I never got tired of it. He did not lose his ability to exchange pleasure with me, and though I wasn't having an orgasm like his, I was able to enjoy his orgasm, and what his body did while he was having it. I did sometimes have to verbally tell him that I was done and wanted to stop, but most of the time he could tell when I'd had enough, and he could wrap it up. He seldom ejaculated with me. One complaint I did have, but I never told him, was that after as minute or two, his sounds became too high pitched and effeminate. Sometimes I could get past that, other times, it was a turn off.
     
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    Alterego...
    A great reply for me. I never thought about what or how I was squealing, moaning. When I hear myself I hear the full range. Probably some is this would sound effinate. Great advice and I will work on this. Effeminate I am not. But I might sound like it. Thanks again and you give me encouragement. What is really encouraging is that you have found guys similar to me. Maybe I am not as exceptional as I think. No problem.

    mickeyLee..
    I laugh with you. 60 days ago if I read a post like mine I would also call that a fantasy. Do yourself a favor and google "aneros.com". Go their forum and at least read the Wikipedia link. There are videos showing guys in endless orgasms. There are ways to tell if this is fake. They are NOT fake! I am just trying to share my success with and other guys. If you follow through and acheive the endless orgasm, you should spread the word. Like yourself and me you will run into the doubters. But some will get the word. Call this "pay forward". I can almos.t guarantees that I get a "Thank you for changing my life" mesage from you.

    Small point..for years I have been visiting this site obsessing over dick size
    (Just like everybody else.. Admit it!). Now the last thing I worry about is the size of my dick. As you can gather from just the few posts here, women are more impressed with your staying power, rather than the size of your dick. Everyone can do something about being multi-orgasmic. Other than an inch or two, you are pretty much stuck with your cock. what a great result.

    I suspect you will want to take issue with me. Fine. I enjoy the discussion.

    ALL OTHER WOMEN. Have I misstated anything. You are the final judge. Talk to us.
     
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    If you're using the aneros does this mean a woman needs to use it on you while you're having sex, or how exactly does this work?
     
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    You don't have to do anything. and the man does not even need the device once he is re-wired. Think of the device as a training device. Pretty neat huh? The man will insert the device from time to time to "arouse his prostate". This is no problem because it feels good. But can take out and be capable for a long time. When you re-wire you are telling your brain what you like and what to associate your pleasure with. E.g. Some re-wire their brain to link their nipples with an orgasm. Hence forth, rub you nipple and have an orgasm. When the adolescent goes thru puberty and mssturbates for the first time, he will excite his prostate as well as his penis. Do that a few times and the brain is told that when the boy is going to orgasm a signal should be sent to the prostate to start the emission process..thus the cum. But the buy ( or man) can retrain the brain to say here is the pleasure of your orgasm, but I am not going to sent a signal to your prostate to cum. A good comparison is when a person loses a leg. The brain may tell you that you still have a leg I.e. phantom pain. But over time the brain re-wires to accept fact that the leg is missing. Likewise the male can unhook the ejaculation from the orgasm. Result.. I can fire off many orgasms and never go thru a refractory period. I can, and almost every night have more than a 100 orgasms. and the best part is that they are much more intense. You can decide to take one orgasm and just adjust the level of intensity meaning I am having literally hundreds of spasms rather Utahans the usual 4 to 10 spasms with a traditional wet orgasm. Or you decide to. Have consecutive orgasm..e.g. Say 15 spasms and let it die down for a few seconds and start another one. Obviously this takes a lot of training and not all men will be able to do all. But he will be able to do a lot. What some evidence? Google aneros videos. You will see men writhing in continuous orgasm. A real eye opener. Fake video? No. Go to aneros site and read comments from hundreds of men.

    OK. I have done my job. Either buy into this or blow it off. You have to do your own research. I am an exceptional lover now with a perpetual erection and almost unquenchable desire. Add in my study of Taoist and Tantric sex and the Kama Sutra and I come to bed prepared. If like me in other respects you will get all you can handle. I say this not to hit on you. I am only illustrating what a man can do if he chooses to make this a priority. If I were a woman I would jump at the chance to see what this is like.

    Small point. I used to tell women how big my dick is etc. I now realize a smart woman does not care about dick size, rather the stamina. This is another way to talk about "it's how you rock the boat". Actually women get this, it's the men who need to get this. I spent three years making my dick bigger. I'm glad I did this but I would have spent my time better working on my endless orgasm. OK guys you got the message. Do something about it.
     
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    I think is why a man should do this with a woman who is prepared for it. If I wasn't, then I think I would be confused. I enjoy sexual exploration and growth with someone I'm involved with.

    I wish you all the best!
     
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    thick75, I have not found more than one guy who has this kind of orgasm. Only one. But he wasn't re-wired from using any devices, he just sort of figured it out one day. For him, it was never related to prostate stimulation. It is interesting to me that you two got to the same place, but from different means.
     
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    First, I want to thank you girls for putting in so much time on this forum. I am getting more from it than five years of reading post from men who generally are just making false claims etc. I think you all are trying to say it like it is for you individually. I wish that more women were involved. Keep it up.

    I am interested in your replies to "being filled up". Obviously another attempt by men seeking reassurance that they are big enough to satisfy you. I want to expand my question to bring in a comparison between a man's size to his stamina and passion. So...

    If you had to make a choice between a man who really had the "perfect"size and a man with just an average sized penis but was extremely multi-orgasmic with high stamina, which one would you choose. Assume that the "perfect" dick guy was a one and done guy good for about 10 minutes at most and then rollover etc. restated. What is more important stamina and high sexual drive versus the guy with the dream dick?

    (Just a disclaimer to head off scarcasm etc. I personally have an above average penis that is extremely thick. I do not have a dog in this fight. I can live with any answer. But what excites me is that any man can develop his stamina and passion even though he may not ever be able to get his dream dick. This shoulda be a "YAHOO!" moment for mankind. My goal is to tell billions of males "you too can be a stud irrespective of your size and shape of your dick". Again, I do not get a nickel out of this nor even recognition. So this is not a selfish endeavor. And I think any man would do the same thing for his fellow man. OK band leader myou can tone down the patriotic music in the background, I am finished with the sermon.

    Having said all off this, it is obvious what answer I want. But what is really important here is the truth. So let me have it (I could say between the eyes, but it can be between my balls.. Ouch!).

    So please girls make this comparison and choice. Let us know what we really need to know.
     
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    Ten minutes is not long enough for me to reach orgasm. And I don't know that I have an ideal size. If I did though, I would have to look for someone hung ideally for me, and who could last long enough.
     
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    @alterego

    So you would prefer the perfect dick, if and only he could last long enough for you first orgasm, and pass on a man with just an average dick but was truly multi-orgasmic trying to bring you to your own multiple orgasms? Interesting. You are really saying that the perfect dick size is more important than the man's ability to give you multiples. You want one really intense orgasm from perfect dick man rather than many orgasms from Mr. Multi- O?

    You are teaching me something. I am surprised by your answer.

    Let me take this further. Suppose a truly multi-orgasmic man put on a penis extender or expander to give you the sense of fullness AND the intensity of multi orgasms. I assume that the fact that his dick is "artificial" would be a turn off factor. Nevertheless would his multi ability carry the day so that he would be chosen over Mr. Perfect Dick who is a 10 minute one and done guy? Remember that Mr. Multiple has at least an adequate average dick. But he just fucks like a mink and last as long as you want orgasms. Is he really your second choice?
     
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    @chaotica

    I did not really answer you question. A man can become multi-orgasmic in several ways. In my opinion the best way is to train your brain to only orgasm and not ejaculate. Once trained he does not have to do the balancing act of backing off when reaching the point of no return which is the basis of tantric sex.

    What I have chosen is to use a prostate massager to train myself. You really have to focus and never touch your penis. Learn the subtle differences in the various contractions. Learn the breathing techniques and balance the right contractions with the breathing and the increasing arousal feelings until you have an orgasm without ejaculation. Continue the training and experience additional and varying intensities until you have what is called Super orgasms. Whole body orgasms where you feel the orgasm everywhere e.g. Your shoulders, thighs, chest, even feet. Some even experience out of body experiences with flashing lights and stars. This whole process takes time and the more you do it the better and more advanced you become. If you are a very lucky man, it will take a month or more to the first dry orgasm. It generally can take many months, even a year or month. This is not for the casual student. You have to be committed. But once you get this down your whole world changes. I am told that women go crazy over this. I soon will know about this myself.

    Now for your question. The man does not need to have a prostate massager in place to have sex. I have had great sessions with it in and with no massager. So to answer you question.. You do nothing.. Just lie there and enjoy the ride. Your man will really enjoy you more than you have ever experience. In his eyes you are the best sex he has ever experienced. Remember he may be seeing stars, flashing lights, orgasms that are MUCH more intense than the old obsolete routine orgasms. When the sex is over and the man is alone with his thoughts he will associate you with the wildest ride of his life. Likewise you will be asking "what happened.. What was that? He was almost out of control and he really liked me!. WOW I want more of that!

    So.. Short answer.. You do nothing and get ready for the ride of your life. He will be thrusting, grinding, rotating, screwing, shaking, convulsing, and probably talking you into orgasmic levels you never experienced before. At a minimum it wii be interesting (what an under statement)

    You do not put anything in your ass or his and you just simply fuck. There is one thing that I cab absolutely guarantee.. You will feel that you gave him the best fuck he ever had. You did your job. You know he will really appreciate you. All of that and you didn't have to anything except pick a man who is truly multi-orgasmic and just do your thing. It all happens on automatic pilot. Any questions?
     
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    I have to add another consideration..

    You girls talking about what I am calling the "perfect" cock. Good sex requires powerful PC muscles. I have really worked on this for my re-wiring and the result is that I am constantly applying pressure with a anal sphincter contraction... approximately about 20% of max. I can hold it for hours and do hold it without any thought for the entire session. I do this all day long. I am doing it now writing this post, riding in a car, watching TV etc. I can max out(100%) for a couple of minutes The result is much increased orgasmic intensity.

    Now women do the same thing. I know when a woman is having an orgasm because I can feel her squeezing my cock. ( I know that a woman could fake this, but why.. if she does this she will have the orgasm... so why bother to fake it if she can have the real thing?) A good woman partner will this all during the thrusting and grinding. To do this the woman has to keep her PC muscle in shape through use and exercise. I assume that all of the women on this site do this.

    Now, my question.. Since you can contract your vagina walls around any size penis, why is the perfect cock so important? Of course if you are contracting your vagina around a cock, you should have the feeling that the cock is filling your vagina. Isn't this ability enough to give you that perfect cock feeling? Now I agree that there is the aesthetic or psychological factor of seeing the perfect cock. I certainly feel that way when I see the perfect woman. Since the orgasm is essentially a mental event your visual take on the man's cock is probably a huge turn on. But as far as feeling the difference in cock size, doesn't the PC contraction sought of equalize things? I know that I am over simplifying things. But I would like to be sure I have not misspoke when I assumed that all of your are using your PC muscle to make things better not only for you, but for your partner.

    The reason this is important to me is that I have made the statement that you all have to do to get your multi-orgasmic man going (really cumming) is to just let him go into convulsion mode. Actually not true. I assumed that your vagina feels really good for the man. If so, then i am correct. But if your vagina is really loose, then the man has to concentrate more on his techniques to make sure that he gets a good feeling in his cock. So to that extent things do not really go on autopilot as I suggested. Autopilot if the women has kept her PC muscles toned and uses them. Then it is in autopilot mode.

    SO.. do you keep your PC muscle group fit by doing the required exercises of having very frequent and active sex which should substitute for the exercises?
     
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    *blink*

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    @mickeylee

    *blink* ?? what does that mean? I guess I am not hip enough to know all of the expressions.

    I suppose I could conclude that I am so overwhelming in my logic and view on life that your only possible reaction is to blink since you are breathless in the excitement of my conversation. On second thought why do I think that you mean that this might be the equivalent of a yawn.

    OK .. what do you mean by "blink"?