Is it gay to jack off a friend, or even suck him?

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  1. BlackRod10Plus

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    Would this be a gay feat? I have absouletly zero interest in men except for my friend, and from time to time we jack each other off, and are beginning to suck.
     
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    in a word, yes
     
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    I don't think it's necessarily gay to jack off with another guy or group of guys. Lots of straight guys do that, especially in high school and college. It seems to taper off a lot after that.

    But to jack off the other guy, yeah.

    And what difference does it make if other people think it's gay or not anyway? Do what makes YOU happy.
     
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    Depends on your motives for doing it. Which are what exactly?
     
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    just to do it
     
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    If you like to have sex with the ladies and also with your male friend, then you may be bi. Could just be the curious thing and will pass but my money is on bi. Enjoy it
     
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    Uhhhh. Last time I checked, yeah. :banana:
     
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    :rolleyes: Im giving up on this one
     
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    Is it straight to eat a girl out? Or stick a dildo in her and make her cum?
     
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    Actually, no. That's the straightest thing on earth to do. :rolleyes:
     
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    Sexuality isnt determined by our actions alone. I could physically have sex with a woman but Im not straight. To do something "just to do it" sounds lame to me. Why dont you have sex with a dog, sheep, pig or guinea pig then? Ya know, just to do it.
     
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    Here's the gayometer for actions performed by men....

    Looking at other guy's dicks = gay

    Jerking off with other guys = gay

    Jerking off other guys = gay

    Sucking other guy's dicks = gay

    Swallowing other guy's cum after sucking dick = Gay

    Sucking spooge from one dick
    while being fucked by another dick= GAY

    any questions?
     
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    the reason being i like seeing his dick size in comparison to mine
     
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    To be with a friend while jacking off to some hot babes is one thing. To jack each other off to some hot babes is something else. And to begin sucking is definitely moving towards gay.

    Now, is that a bad thing? Depends of what you consider "bad". Are you enjoying it? Is he? Is it hurting anyone? As long as it's just you and your friend and no one else knows, what's the harm?

    The big question is: how do you feel about it?
     
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    Gay porn is full of straight guys who do all of the above and much more. OK, some are more straight than others but there are definitely completely straight guys doing it purely for cash. The OP isnt giving reasons for doing it which doesnt help matters here.
     
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    nah im gonna say thats a bit on the gay side
     
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    Ok firstly don't listen to all the guys on here going yes... look at them there on a website dedicated to large cock..... if every man who ever had an interest in cock was gay.... then every man who ever lived would be gay........

    Depsite what all the sexually repressed morons may think the term gay actually means gay identifying...... a better question qould be

    "Is it considered a homosexual act to jerk off or give oral to my friend" Then the answer would be yes... that is a homosexual act.......

    Does having homosexual intercourse make you a gay man....... NO
    Does it make you a Bisexual man..... NO

    Why not?

    The terms Gay and Bisexual are term used to classify people who identify themselves with a section of a community...... I am a GAY man not because i enjoy homosexual sex but because I identify myself with the GAY LIFESTYLE and GAY PEOPLE

    A good example of this is a friend of mine lives with an exclusively gay monastery for a few years.... now you might ask yourself how could Celibate men be GAY if Gay = Homosexual sex..... It doesn't... these men were gay because they Identified themselves with the GAY COMMUNITY and for that reason alone there were GAY MEN.

    Now all yez dun hillbillies needs ta do is git sum lernin inya an reelize sexuality aint wot a man duz its wot he rekons of himself
     
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    Personally, I'd just chalk it up to being "mighty neighborly".:rolleyes:
     
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    Sex is really confusing as it is without adding all these labels to it, so just enjoy what ever it is you do for what it is and don't try to overanalyse it to death. It felt good, you both helped each other alleviate some sexual tension and stress and you both can still fuck chicks if you so desire. You had an itch and you scratched it. End of story.
     
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    Because the guinea pig would explode...
    Everybody knows that. LOL.