It seems a pretty common male fantasy, so how did it get thrown in the gay bin?
J/O buddy - gay or straight?
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ok here we go.....
1.male
2. another male
3.touching each other's penises until ejaculation
if I have to go to 4., then thats insane....
just because it may be a male fantasy by many males don't make it straight...there are many closet gays out here.
Homosexuality is more an emotional connection mind set than a physical one J/o with a friend maybe more therapeutic though I do not know I have no real experience to use as evidence.
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omg...this thread is so confusing....I believe there has to be some emotion in the equation....if the guy is your buddy, you definitely have emotions towards him....i'll still say g-a-y though
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Not had one to date but don't suppose it would make any difference to me if it was just j/o and no further. As i like to be watched playing find it a good turn on M or F just the situation itself.
I'm glad you brought that up. So it's not one of your fantasies, but I hope you would not sabotage or abandon a friendship if it was one of your friends fantasies. I mean, if you got a big dick, more than likely some of your friends think about you that way at least occasionally.
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"BRAXTON..." Ok. You made your point. Some people don't agree with you. Now drop it!
I myself, would prefer to have a str8 or bi guy. Reason being the "gay" guys I've jo'd with DID NOT RESPECT the limits. They are out for the satisfaction of gettin hold of another guys cock, not staisfied with just looking and satisfying himself. Str8 and bi guys actually respect the limits. These latter guys are more apt to become friends with.
I myself, would prefer to have a str8 or bi guy. Reason being the "gay" guys I've jo'd with DID NOT RESPECT the limits. They are out for the satisfaction of gettin hold of another guys cock, not staisfied with just looking and satisfying himself. Str8 and bi guys actually respect the limits. These latter guys are more apt to become friends with.
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look I am not trying to offend anyone in this thread, let alone this forum....I am fairly understanding in human matters and understanding human behavoir....I am just trying to understand this whole J-O buddy thing because I have never heard off it until this forum and I don't see how some men don't find it gay, thats all....
People should just be straight (no pun) with their orientation and realize when they are gay and/or taking place in gay acts....I am not saying its nothing wrong with it, but damn, at least realize you are gay when you stroke another man's penis (and you get pleasure in doing it)
you got some dudes on here claiming 100% straight, but then they talk albout having jack buddies....i m just sayin
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Like one of the previous posters said -- With str8 guys it's just a bonding thing. That's why some of them won't do it with gay guys - they want it to be a sexual thing.
J/O with another guy doesn't mean there has to be touching involved. And if there is, you'd be jumping to conclusions by assuming they'd have to be at least bi.
If you're not attracted to a guy but your touching his cock then you're not gay. Action and attraction are different things. Touching another guy's cock doesn't make you gay/bi any more than touching your own makes you sexually attracted to yourself.
Some guys like knowing they can make their friends feel good. Some guys like the feel of a hand that's not their own. Some guys like the 'taboo' aspect of it. There are lots of different reasons why guys jack off together. It would be arrogant for you to assume it always has to be a 'gay' reason.
If you don't think you can jack off with another guy without being considered at least bi then you're not very secure in your own sexuality. Going on and on about it in this thread instead of just letting it be is only proving that.
Thanks for being open about your thoughts Braxton. When you get older or more mature or however you want to term it - open is a good word too - you don't feel as much of a need to divide the universe up into gay, straight and maybe "bi" camps. I mean gay and straight are set up as polar opposites, then bi includes both - doesn't really make sense.
Anyway, is it straight if you pleasure a friend, but not because you enjoy it? :mischievous:
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I have never had,or wanted, a male J/O pal.If I was interested I would prefer a gay guy.It just seems a little strange,to me, to be straight and wanna wank with other straight guys.
I can really get into mutual wanking with a lady.
I can really get into mutual wanking with a lady.
Well Braxton, you define straight and gay in guys as polar opposites. I think most people on this site think of sexual identity on a continuum, in addition to changing in terms of life experience and age. You would define jerking off with a buddy as "gay". I would consider it just sexual behavior. It doesn't necessarily have to do with sexual identity. It's the same as if some guy who defines himself as "gay" has sex with a woman. It's just sex. If I'm attracted to a guy and we end up expressing our attraction in a sexual way, it doesn't mean it's straight or gay. It just means it's sex. I think you have some ideas about the word "gay", and it seems to be prejorative, as in, "that's so gay". I think that's why people here aren't understanding what you're saying. In a sense from your POV it would be "gay" for you or anyone to jerk off because it's pretty gay to touch any dick, including your own.
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I only ever did this once... with another gay guy and it really wasn't a j/o buddy sort of situation. 
I thought it might be, we jacked off while talking about some hot stuff..but I never saw him again and that was in 2003. I can't say I have ever had a j/o buddy although it might be fun.
I thought it might be, we jacked off while talking about some hot stuff..but I never saw him again and that was in 2003. I can't say I have ever had a j/o buddy although it might be fun.
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Well I’d like to have a JO buddy. He’d have to be Bi because I want to stroke his cock and he stroke mine ! Also my wife would be watching and she’d want us to fuck her sooner or later .
Anybody in the San Antonio area ?
Anybody in the San Antonio area ?
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I’ve jerked off with a friend before. He was pretty straight like fucked chicks all the time but we had a very open friendship. Nothing weird just popped some porn in and rubbed one out. Went back to playing video games.
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