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WHY? I've been to jack off clubs many times, and they're always awesome. I've also had plenty of experiences jacking off with guys at the gym, in the sauna/steamroom. These things actually do happen in places and they're great. If all guys would ease up and jerk off with their buds, the world would be a better place.

That said, I agree that jerking off with guys doesn't necessarily mean you're gay. Of course, I think labels like "gay" aren't particularly helpful; it's all a continuum, and I consider such "pigeon-holing" harmful.

No I think you miss my point. I could care less if a bunch of guys want to jerk off.

I think it is sort of fucked up that it has to become kind of synchronized event like a track meet or a softball game.

How does it go "hey Ted, you want to meet up with Pete, Joe, Chuck and bob , burgers and a handjob"?...or do you take out an add for The Portland Penis-pullers to take on the Jersey Jerkers at the Metro dome for Pud Pounding March Madness?

I actually tried the full blown organized group sex thing quite some time back with some other couples & singles once and ultimately it broke down to people going off in little sub groups of twosomes and threesomes. Honestly it was so risky, just stuck to swapping and threesomes after.

IMHO no not a fan of organized and scheduled sex of any type; feels awkward.
 
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I agree... I don't see anything wrong into doing it.
Happened to me lot of times times when I was younger. Most of the time drunk or bored with my best bud watching a porn stroking our cocks together and sometimes helping each other. Couple of times happened with other friends and only once we were 4: drunk we played stupid games like "the longest" "the fattest" "the biggest cockhead" "biggest balls" "biggest cum" and so.
Then lost the count of how many times I shared a porn with a frat (sometimes jerking someother times not) at the college.
Well now I'm 27 and is not happening so often anymore... but still like it and don't refuse it when it happens in a spontaneous way with a bud. Never had it with someone unknow or in a scheduled situation: never felt the need of it.
All my buddies admits they had it at least once with a bro. Someone never had it mutual, someone else yes... but I think that showing off, comparing or watching a porn with a bud it's part of the sexual experience of the majority of the guys in their teens. Can't be weird... and can't define someone gay because of it.
 

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No, but it is gay.

You know what I think is gay? Men standing around jacking off in a circle during a gangbang. Don't use the woman as the "heterosexua"l legitimizer.:wink: DP's, DV's. etc...so gay.


I hate to break the news: The only straight porn for a straight man is lesbian porn:eek: Anything with dick in it is SO gay. If you have a dick, you're gay, too, especially when you jack it off.
 
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it's hot...even if u dont stroke another dudes cock that may be next to u..nothing wrong with seeing what they working with...it's like if u play football/baseball...ur butt nakked sin showers and there is lots of ass...cock and balls being shown....lol
 

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Male bonding and helps with equality, even for the straights, who more than likely secretly partake in such activities, at least once in there lives ??
 

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I love watching Porn together! str8 DP and edging for hours....and having a shooting contest!! I always win!! both distance and volume! lol Pumping is cool too! See he gets the biggest gains!

Watching porn and edging with a bud has been my favorite activity for some time now. Not easy to find others into it.
 

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Not easy to find others into it.
I don't think it's a matter of finding others into it. I think it's a matter of finding guys comfortable enough on their sexuality to be willing to admit that it's ok to do it. I don't understand people's hang ups on stuff like this. With sex I'm all about try something until I don't like it and then stop. Jerking with yer bud is an awsome bonding experience. You kick back watch some porn bust one and then pick up right where u left off and everybody has taken the edge off. I mean face it, how much closer can u get to your friend if you just watched him unload all over his chest? There just aren't a lot of secrets after that.
 

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I don't think it's a matter of finding others into it. I think it's a matter of finding guys comfortable enough on their sexuality to be willing to admit that it's ok to do it.

As a gay person, what I keep running into is an insistence that it's not enough or is even borderline weird. Not always, obviously, but there seems to be a lot of "Why would you want to do that?!"
 

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I hate to break the news: The only straight porn for a straight man is lesbian porn :eek: Anything with dick in it is SO gay. If you have a dick, you're gay, too, especially when you jack it off.

I think this is the most intelligent comment in this thread. After all, a real homophobe would say cocks are only meant to be admired / touched by women, so even wanking is "a guy playing with a guy's cock", right. That's not 'straight' sex :wink:

My only confusion with the terms "circle jerk", "group wank", etc is if they refer to wanking [oneself] in a group situation, or wanking the guy next to oneself, which technically isn't a wank :tongue:

Oh if only life were simpler :banana:
 

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Its not a big deal with me if and when it happens. I never plan on it and when it does its very cool and laid back and nothing gay about it. I don't do it often and have been caught by bunkmates or roommies and sometimes they join and sometimes they just go about their business. Being military you have very close quarters and I gave up on trying to hide it or sneak around for a quickie and opted for being open about it and enjoying it when I do. I'm 100% straight and nothing gay about this at all.
 

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I've never done it with more than one guy at a time and only a couple guys that I've done it with more than once. It's the male bonding aspect that I like and the other guys seem to like busting their nut in front of me. Plus there were a few times where I stroked a guy with a foreskin. Now that was fun!
 
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The straight v gay aspect of mutual/group jerking has always been fascinating to me. Some of the best ones I've had have truly been spontaneous. Several years ago a friend and I reached out to about 3 or 4 other buds for an afternoon session. It lasted about 3 hours and most of the guys came twice. There was beer, bud, porn and a fleshlight we passed around. I love the male bonding aspect of it as well. It's very cool watching another dude work his junk. That's just me.