WHY? I've been to jack off clubs many times, and they're always awesome. I've also had plenty of experiences jacking off with guys at the gym, in the sauna/steamroom. These things actually do happen in places and they're great. If all guys would ease up and jerk off with their buds, the world would be a better place.
That said, I agree that jerking off with guys doesn't necessarily mean you're gay. Of course, I think labels like "gay" aren't particularly helpful; it's all a continuum, and I consider such "pigeon-holing" harmful.
No I think you miss my point. I could care less if a bunch of guys want to jerk off.
I think it is sort of fucked up that it has to become kind of synchronized event like a track meet or a softball game.
How does it go "hey Ted, you want to meet up with Pete, Joe, Chuck and bob , burgers and a handjob"?...or do you take out an add for The Portland Penis-pullers to take on the Jersey Jerkers at the Metro dome for Pud Pounding March Madness?
I actually tried the full blown organized group sex thing quite some time back with some other couples & singles once and ultimately it broke down to people going off in little sub groups of twosomes and threesomes. Honestly it was so risky, just stuck to swapping and threesomes after.
IMHO no not a fan of organized and scheduled sex of any type; feels awkward.