Just too damn big?

[B_munchme]

I'm sure this question has probably been asked in many different ways on this site before, but I'm new here and still a little clumsy at finding threads on some specific topics. So my question is? Are there guys from your past (I was thinking at first of the other ladies but guess the question would be relevant for many of the male members as well) who were just too large for you to have intercourse with at the time, but now you regret not trying harder? And if so what were the guy's dimensions? (approximately). I went out with a guy my sophomore year in college for about 7 weeks who ended up having one of the largest cocks imaginable. I to this day of course am doubly sorry I didn't take pictures of him . But he also never allowed that as far as I can recall and hated being asked since he was always getting propositioned and asked repeatedly to pose for pics or do a video. I remember after we had had several dates and it was pretty clear we might have some form of sex he curiously said something like "Well I guess you've heard people talking about me right?" I honestly had no idea what he meant until one night after we'd been kissing for quite awhile on my couch he suddenly undid his belt, shoving his pants to the floor revealing white underwear being strained by what looked like a football underneath. When the underwear came off I sat there staring at a cock that was easily 11 inches in length. Even more astounding was the width which was about 3 1/4 inches near the head and which got even larger a few more inches back. His cock was actually almost Cobra shaped though and wasn't nearly as thick vertically. It was still impossible to even give him a blowjob, and even though we tried for weeks I just couldn't get the head in me without pain. He even suggested inserting himself before he became fully hard, but I was too afraid he still might really hurt me. Unfortunately for me to this day I still dream about that cock. He was certainly responsible for me being the size-queen I am today. There was just something so viscerally exciting about the sight of that endowment. I've never fully gotten over it, and can't imagine I ever will.

 

[Hung Low in Thiva]

I've been the one who hasnt been able to get it in. One can't tell. Some girls have been able to take all of me, others not at all. One thing is to make sure she is absolutely ready. It's made me get very good at giving oral to a woman so she is relaxed, wet, and ready. Finally from my experience going in soft works because the woman expands with with the cock. Just be careful not to have the guy forcing it to stay all the way in if he is a grower.

 

[B_horribleperson]

^what he said^

 

[Donk]

Well, I haven't directly heard from any girls who turned me down that they later regretted it, but my (longterm) gf's comment when I told her about those incidents is that they just don't know what they were missing. She admitted to me that she found my size (11"x6+") intimidating the first time we had sex, but she didn't say anything about it at the time, and now she can't get enough of it.

 

[B_HappyHammer1977]

Can you still get in contact with him? Find out for yourself now yu know better.

Failing that, I bet there's a dozen or so well-hung Floridians who'd like to help you!

*Books flight to Orlando!*

 

[Chicago_Swimmer]

The first few times you have to take it slow and easy, but in the end you could probably handle it.

My wife and I have troubles the first couple times we have sex after a couple weeks absence. After that though it is lots of fun.

 

[therunningman]

All the advice above I totally agree with. I've found that generally if a guy is really large you just have to go slow and be patient. I've never been with a guy that was too big for me, so I don't have any "regrets" in that department. The first guy I ever had sex with was a bit over 9" and really thick but he was patient and caring. He made sure I enjoyed it. Looking back on it I get a chuckle since he was my first. He totally warped me into thinking all guys were huge. Its kinda funny as the second guy wasn't nearly as big.

 

[LongNights]

Only been with one woman who couldn't fit it inside of her even after some clitoral stimulation. She was very tiny however in the 5'0" range.

LongNights

 

[deleted62]

I've actually had an ex come out and say to me afterwards that a big part of the reason she broke up with me is because she was freaked out by my size. She and I had known each other for quite a long time before getting together, and she made some memorable quotes about my endowment, but we never actually made love. We broke up on good terms, and I moved away for unrelated reasons soon thereafter.

A couple of months after that, we were talking on IM, she was dating someone new, and she says, "you know, whenever I thought about us having sex, I would panic thinking about your . . . size. But now that I'm with him, I really wish I could have tried it out. Now I'm stuck."

Oh well.

-Z

 

[Duo187]

He reminds me alot of myself it seems. I would say what happened was completely normal. If you can get in touch with him at all, I would. but don't mention his penis till later. I know the first thing I wanna hear is "I miss your cock" when I see an ex or anything. but I love hearing that they miss me as the PERSON I was and such. It's never to late to fix a past mistake

 

[D_Roderick Beresford Stiffington IV]

Its perfectly natural to regret not trying something, whether it be a gigantic cock or going on a rollercoaster...the chances of you encountering a cock that big again aren't that good so who knows if you'll get to try it out...I'm sure you'll find some hung guys to have your fun with.

 

[Skizzer]

That's one of the advantages of having a smaller to average sized cock. Going all the way down on it is rarely a problem.

 

[contortionist]

there's nothing wrong with fantasies but at least SAY they are rather than pass them off as true

 

[Sandalman]

It's happened to me twice before...although in both cases I don't think either of us were really that gung-ho about it...

 

[B_HallWildcat]

I have had problems with not fitting either, I am 8 x 6 and my girlfriend is pretty tight, i remember a time when i visited her apartment and we were fooling around and she proceeded to sit on my cock, that it just didnt work, she sat there with her entire weight on my cock and it wouldnt budge, i eventually had to get on top and use my weight to get it in, it felt great because of how tight she is but i didnt feel good because she was almost in tears the deeper i went, she started enjoying it after enough time, and when i bottomed out in her she went through the roof but, afterwards she was numb and i had to get her an icepack and advil. We have learned that we just have to go really slow and i have to warm her up for a long time. She tells me that if we ever break up, the next guy she has sex with will think she was a slut.

 

[D_Salmaine Sharpshlong]

I only had one time when I couldn't physically get in. I was young, as was she, and we tried and tried but it wouldn't work. She was a hottie and incredibly sexual so we had fun in other ways but I would have loved to have got it in there...

 

[Geo]

[COLOR=black...It was still impossible to even give him a blowjob, and even though we tried for weeks I just couldn't get the head in me without pain. He even suggested inserting himself before he became fully hard, but I was too afraid he still might really hurt me. ( [/COLOR]

Interesting and rather lengthy (no pun intended) discourse, but I *do* have to ask a rather pointed question (which is sort of unusual for me ... more GoneA's domain); so if you had all these problems what are you trying to gain by "fitting him in" lol? I mean what's the point, really?

Unless it is like this Adult Novelty Convention I was exhibiting at in CA in July .... this vendor had these enormous dildos far larger than my entire forearm like 24 inches long and 8 inches wide for anal play ... they were like fire hydrants! I asked the vendor who in the hell puts that inside them and do they have to wear a diaper for the rest of their life afterwards and he said "oh come now it's just working your way up to it" ... man I dunno that's CRAZY!

 

[madame_zora]

Gotta agree, Geo. (by the way, that's one hot avatar!) If it ain't fittin', it ain't fittin'. I can't imagine trying to have sex with someone I couldn't even get the first bit in. What's the point? I have no strong desire to be ripped to shreads doing something that is supposed to be fun. Fortunately for me, I haven't met that guy yet, but we all have our limits.

 

[pippi]

well it happened to me one time. during a one night stand. i couldnt get my penis in her, though i tried and tried.... till i was limp again. maybe my 7" dick was too big (though in this case it was about circumference)? hmmm at least for her it seems and i never saw her again.

 

[Paul Vincent]

I'll probably have this problem with my girlfriend when we 'get down, get down'
My finger hurt her lol and that's only 2.5/3". But maybe I cut her...I have no idea. And my finger was the first one she had in her...I'm up to the challenge though and I don't think my dick will be too big for her.

I have a theory that with enough work a girl can take any 8" or 7" penis, provided its not too thick...