Lactation fetish

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  1. D_Kay_Sarah_Sarah

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    A friend of mine the other day mentioned he and i sleeping together but the strange thing was that he has a boob 'thing' and he asked me if before hand could i take some medication (never heard of it before) that makes you lactate.

    Now i have no probelms with a man trying a womans breatsmilk if she is breast feeding , but to actually ask if i could bring it on with medication was a bit to much for me.

    So ladies what would you think if a man that you didnt even know very well asked to to do this and men would you consider asking a woman to do such a thing?


    I havent looked into if this medication actually exsists, i am just going by what he said
     
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    No Lee, it would never occur to me to ask such a thing. I must say that as a young man I was turned on by porn pictures of lactating women squeezing their nipples and spraying milk, but there again I was turned on by almost anything. When my wife became pregnant with our son I did taste her breast milk, but I felt inhibited. The more heavily pergnant she became the less I found her sexually attractive. We had to stop having sex because I didn't feel right about poking around our baby with my cock. Even after she gave birth I felt that her body was out of bounds, and her tits and milk definitely belonged to the baby. It took a very long time for us both to start feeling that her tits were for sexual pleasure again.

    I'd definitely say that the guy you describe has a major lactation fetish. I don't think you should contemplate taking any drug that messes with your hormones without considering the possible long term side effects.
     
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    :yikes: :scared2: :eek22: :bling1: :wtf2: :shocked: :wtf1: :rocketwhore: :Flush: :sad6:

    Yeah, seems perfectly normal to me, especially for a first date.
     
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    Nope. If I have a fetish, I'll mention it when I'm at the point where I feel comfortable doing so. If she's into it, great. If not, we'll find something else to do. But generally speaking, I'm not into body modification or use of non-recreational drugs (I suppose in a way this is recreational... but I mean recreational in the traditional sense :wink: ) - so I would be a little freaked out if I found out a girlfriend was taking lactation drugs for kicks.

    If neither of us are into any of the other's little kinks, of course, the relationship probably won't last long.
     
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    haha.. that is unusual.. but everyone has different tastes I guess!

    I would be a lil weirded out at first.. but if that's what really gets him going I would at least give it a go.. even if it wasn't my cup of tea...

    you can always ask for something in return too, so milk it for all it's worth.. :tongue:
     
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    I myself have been with about 5 women that were currently lactating (from having babies, not medications), and I maybe in the minority, but sucking on their boobs and drinking their milk was a tremendous turnon !! ALL of the women enjoyed it very much as well. So, if both parties involved enjoy it, then I say go for it.

    Now, on the other hand, if one person has a serious fetish, but the other person can't and won't really get into it at all, if probably won't become a part of their sex life.

    The medication that was probably mentioned, is a medicine called Domperidone. It does induce the lactation cascade effect, but only accompanied with constant stimulation to the breasts as well. In other words....the women either has to have her breasts "suckled" for about 20 minutes at a time, for about 4 or 5 times a day. Just like a baby would. Or, they would have to use a breast-pump for the same amount of time. So, that's some serious time devotion to make a fetish "happen". But, like I said, if both parties are seriously into it, it would work. It even works without the medication, just the constant stimulation, but the medicines help speed up the lactation a little quicker. It still usually takes on average about 4-6 weeks on the constant stimulation to get the milk producing.
     
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    I am glad i am not the only one who found it weird.. Firstly i have serious worries about taking medication like this, playing around with hormones & mother nature cant be good.

    Also if it was a bf or husband i would consider it as i know they would be around to help with the prep work leading up, but his guy asked knowing it would be a one night only thing

    Just seems rude for him to ask me to go through so much for him to get off for what would have been 1 night only
     
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    I always wanted to milk them :boobies2: for all they were worth :baby: :jumping38: :tongue2:
     
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    I am not weirded out by lactation fetish. When I have children, I plan to breast feed for a long time, for many reasons. So I expect to keep using them for sexual pleasure (in a limited capacity since the more milk you use, the lower the fat content, and I want the baby to get the right amount of fat) so if my husband wants to drink it, or squeeze it out or do something with it i haven't considered, it's well with me. I would even consider, once I begin lactating, to keep lactating for longer than I breast feed if my husband wanted me to. It wouldn't be too difficult. As long as a large enough quantity is being used, I think a woman keeps making milk. However, I wouldn't artificially maintain or initiate lactating. No way.
     
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    I used to have a kind of fetish, or more like strange curiosity with lactation. After seeing it in video though its really not hot...especially if its crusty and all sorts of off putting things.

    I like big boobs though!

    I wouldn't take any medication just for a guy, it could have really far-reaching and negative consequences. I feel sorry for him, can't he get hard to a hot girl with a nice rack?

    I'm glad I don't have one particular fetish at the exclusion of others...although I think that's what a fetish is; one particular thing and one thing only that gets you off.
     
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    I had a couple of men mentioned this to me. I was not in a long term relationship with either one of them.
    One common med is reglan but the dose was above the recommended daily amount. I was very leary of taking medication to induce that.
     
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    Nah..I dont like drugs and you never know the side effects of it even when they list some in the package already..I would not try it...

    But I can pretend playing mommy to someone who fancies that and he will suck an imaginary milking flow from me and make baby naughty faces...and etc...:cool: :biggrin1: but at some point in the play he must play grown up...
     
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    Just say no, to him and drugs.
     
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    My wife and I played with this during both of her pregnancies.She produced allot of milk, pumping did not keep up and she hurt.So at night when we had sex I'd nurse on her.When the last child was weaned though it was over,I could not touch her breasts for three months so the milk would finaly dry up.This guy is not a friend if he's asking you to play with your hormone levels just to get him off.He's a freak run ,run now!!!!!
     
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    wow soulds kinda odd to me id like it if it was my woman and she had my baby but other then that ehh but i wouldnt take/ask someone to take a pill to bring it on
     
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    I totally say the same as My husband here. Yes while I was nursing I was always producing more than my children could hand and since he was willing to try and enjoyed the flavor it was a win win situation but as soon as I said I couldn't do it any more. He was hands off to let me dry up and than He had his boobies back just milk free. He never dreamt of asking me to continue. Any guy asking to do take a drug to lactate for him is totally wrong and I would get away from him fast.
     
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    Eww, that is just too wierd! If you were already breast-feeding and he wanted to try it, that's different, but to ask you to take some chemicals just so he can get off and live out some weird fantasy is very odd.
     
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    I'm with Lord Pendragon on this one. He may be your friend, but he should not be your lover.

    He sounds like a freak!

    The fetish itself isn’t what sets off warning bells for me. It’s that he is comfortable offering you a medication to induce lactation for a one night stand. That’s just creepy.

    njqt466

     
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    hello,

    The medication you are referring to is called domperidone or moitilium. Prolactin stimulation can be achieved through suckling of the breasts 4 times a day 20 minutes on each breast. Medication is not necessary to induce a woman to lactate, just a very eager partner who enjoys suckling on breasts.

    If you were to use medication to induce lactation you would have to take domperidone 3 pills x 10 mg each x 3 times a day 1 1/2 hours after each meal hence 80-90 mg.

    I tend to agree with njgt since this is a long term bond/ relationship and takes two really willing partners who are committed to each other... for a man to ask this of you who doesn't know you well is quite creepy especially asking you to go on meds when you can induce without them. Creepy is right.

    The correct term for this fetish is called adult nursing relationships, or adult breast feeding relationships. I have included a link for you to look at.

    Adult Nursing Relationships ~ Main

    cheers
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    WOW, id actually forgotten about this.

    Anyway to let you all know it didnt happen and i never would let it happen. Im all for trying new things but that was too much. Also i do talk to him still but very very rarely and only on a casual friends basis.

    I thought to myself if he is prepared to ask for this so easily then what next ? :shocked: and that was enough to make me run