Age old question: Why is it when men and women are dating, in most cases, women are very liberal with the BJ's ?
Before we were married, my wifes face was buried between my legs, swallowing and all, never complained, never said a word, and 95% of the times she initiated the act.
Now...zero BJ's, and she makes no bones about her dislike for my cock in her mouth. And that is what is common place for couples who have been together numerous years.
Why...Tell me Why ????
Your not alone avg-dick.
My wife was always giving me blow jobs when we were dating and first married. After the baby was born NOTHING, almost 2 years now without a blow job. My wife loves me to do her orally and wants it all the time which I'm more then HAPPY to do. I just wish there was someway to get her back into the sucking action. I keep asking her to do it, but she just says not now, but soon. If you find an answer let me know.
It's easy in the short term to give a lot, even more than you get back, but over time there needs to be equal give and take. Maybe the wife doesn't feel like she gets enough in return from giving BJs. (Sounds like they are not the type of women that truly enjoy doing it.)
And shaved_and_trimmed, what would happen if you stopped going down on her? an oral sex strike. Seems only fair that if you give, then she should give back.