Ladies, how do you like to be initially penetrated?

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i love the idea and the moment.. the next day just brings a world of ouch and the "duck" walk :redface:

even a frenzied against-the-wall slam fest needs a bit of digital penetration before the festivities commence , kind of a "hello, nice to meet you.. have you met my friend the big ole' penis?"

Agree's also with the idea of the frenzied against-the-wall slam fest....:biggrin1: Thinks this is so very erotic and yummy. And guys you can guarantee if we are into this moment and you go ripping in ... the moment is GONE
 

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It depends on how worked up I am. Generally, I like a slow, steady stroke until I have it all, and lots of eye contact. A few nights ago, my husband had me begging for it, and I was so relaxed, needy and wet, that he practically fell into me. The impact hurt, but nicely. Usually, he just gives me the head, and slowly works in. That hurts too, though, so the pain really isn't the issue for me.
 

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Depends on mood.
Mostly, I love to savor the slowness of initial entry, the feel of being made to fit. You can have such closeness in that first moment, especially if he's on top and looking down while you look straight back into his eyes as he creates a space for himself within you.
Other times though... Without foreplay or warning, fucking ram it in, all of it, as hard and as deep can be, right to the hilt then push with the hips and grind still further. Feels so good to literally have my breath driven out in that way, almost like it has to be gone to make room. No stopping either, make it relentless. No patience in a situation like that, only primal need and a desire to make anyone in hearing distance either very annoyed or very jealous.

Very similar thoughts about it being dependent on mood, although with my girl I couldn't do it without foreplay; that would be both difficult and painful.

But with a long buildup of a couple days without each other, and long exquisite oral foreplay to the point where she's just dripping with eagerness, i sometimes do the ramming deep plunge in one shot. I love watching her expression, the widening of the eyes, the opening of the mouth, the gasp of surprise as the sensations overwhelm her as our pelvises grind together.
 

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My wife's first orgasm is almost always from oral. But one thing my wife and I love is when her second orgasm hits it's almost always during the initial penetrating, "too-tight-to-fit-comdfortably", phase. It's still unclear to me whether it's from reaching all the way in and finally touching bottom being the pinncale of intimacy that drives her over the edge, or my girth stretching a certain area. It almost doesn't matter. What matters is that it works.

The thing I'm finding that gives her the most rapid-fire orgasms is when we do that initial penetration in fast motion. Yeah, I learned it from porn, but it requires almost daredevil like accuracy. We do it from this position:

Folded Deck Chair Sex Position

...making shallow short strokes such that my glans strokes in and out her entrance at first and going deeper and deeper and still extracting my glans at the same speed. I usually don't have to worry about missing the hole unless I extract my cock completely. What I do is withdraw enough so the glans "pops" out, but the rest of the meatus is still somewhat inside her.

The rapid expansion and contraction of her entrance is a pretty wild feeling for boith of us.
 

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As long as I'm really wet (which is most of the time) I love it hard and fast from the start. I hate the inch by inch thing. Drives me nuts because I just want to feel the whole cock inside me . . .
 

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i love the idea and the moment.. the next day just brings a world of ouch and the "duck" walk :redface:

I can't even count the number of times I've sported the "duck" walk. Considering I'm rather small and tight (apparently I'm a "one finger wonder") even if it is rather slow and gentle I end up cursing any times I have to sit down afterward anyway.

At the same token I LOVE to be absolutely destroyed, :rolleyes: it is painful if it is a straight up plunge in but for me that just intensifies the feelings you get. I don't think I'd be able to handle that everyday though.

Otherwise a nice tease with the tongue and/or the head is my favourite way to start off.
 

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For me, it's like going swimming in a lake. You can either take forever getting used to the water by walking in slowly, or you can get it all done and over with and just plunge in. I usually have to catch my breath for a second if I take that approach, though.

it's like 2 am here so maybe I"m a lil thick just now but does that mean you are for it or against it
 

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I can't even count the number of times I've sported the "duck" walk. Considering I'm rather small and tight (apparently I'm a "one finger wonder") even if it is rather slow and gentle I end up cursing any times I have to sit down afterward anyway.

At the same token I LOVE to be absolutely destroyed, :rolleyes: it is painful if it is a straight up plunge in but for me that just intensifies the feelings you get. I don't think I'd be able to handle that everyday though.

Otherwise a nice tease with the tongue and/or the head is my favourite way to start off.

so if you are so tight isn't this an odd site for you : P