Large penis and first-time anal

Discussion in 'Sex With a Large Penis' started by Shadowrunner, Oct 18, 2011.

  1. Shadowrunner

    Shadowrunner New Member

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    I'm wondering something... I've been the top during anal sex with another guy (and a couple of girls whenjoy it), but have never taken the bottom position. I've got to be honest, I've wanted to have it done by a man with a large penis, but what's the best way to pull it off without literally ripping myself a new asshole in the process or running into other complications after the fact. I get the idea of lots of lube, but do any of you well-endowed gay or bi men (or straight men who have anal sex with your female partner) have tips to make the job easier? And of course, I wonder what it would feel like. I'm more used to playing the role of the top, so it baffles me a bit.
     
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    Why not use a big dildo and find out about the best position etcetera. And yes, plenty of lube. Take your time, be patient. You will like it!
     
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    I wish I would have know about this type of stuff when I had my first bottom experience... My top was 9x6. if you grab a 12oz can of soda and add 9inches to it, that would be my first cock... honestly I dont even know how i did it. maybe becuz i was thinking about sex for sooo many year and wanted it no matter what. Or i was just super horny... idk. but I would suggest finding a guy with a smaller cock (6-7). and maybe you should buy a 7-8inch dildo to practice with. also maybe try fingering yourself in the shower... 1 finger then 2 then 3... i think that 3 fingers would represent a larger cock in shorter form. Maybe you could get poppers to relax those muscles for the first time.
     
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    I've had a couple guys that size, ironically both were black guys, and it may hurt some at first but once I adjusted and got into it and really got fucked it was so intense and incredible! I admit I am a total size queen, but I think it also helped that they were black, because I am more attracted to black guys (though I like different races too). I kept seeing both these guys a while and was even able to eventually take a really hard fucking. I mean you find something good like that none too often so it's worth riding it out as long as you can. Well worth the effort but take it slow, lots of lube for sure!

    One thing though, with a man that big, in both cases I made them get tested as I did too, because my experience is even magnum condoms are prone to breakage with such a massive specimen of manhood, plus it was so much hotter bare and both of them busted huge nuts and it felt incredible to feel them fill me like that!
     
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    I am a gal and i have been having anal for quite a few years now. The men i am usually with have all been quite large. I discovered early on, i prefer dry anal (aka no lube). I find to achieve this i need to finger myself with as many fingers in the shower a few hours before hand to make sure i am loose enough. I also need to take it slow at first. I need my man to insert his head then take it out and wait for me to relax a bit before going again. I have discovered i can now take a rough pounding by my guy, with a bit of slow build up (with no build up caused me a hospital visit).

    Good luck.:biggrin1:
     
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    Try measuring that can again. A typical 12oz soda can is over 8 inches in circumference.
     
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    Solvejg, when you say no lube........do you at least use saliva or anything? Or does it just work its way in?