Man masturbating at urinal....

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  1. Jim12

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    Today as i finished work, i needed a leak after i'd left the store so i went to the public toilets in the shopping center, it was closing time so there was only one guy in there. The guy was an older gentleman at one urinal in a row of around 15 urinals. I picked one about 3 or 4 down from him. As i pulled out my todger and let my stream go, i noticed the man obviously staring at my piece from the corner of my eye, i then noticed his dick was hard and he was vigorously rubbing it. i got freaked out, so left.
    Has anyone else encountered this? What did you do?
    I find it particularly strange.
     
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    i dont understand why you got "freaked out". Did you at least finish peeing? if it bothered you so much, you could call security, if you were offended that he was doing it in a public place.
     
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    should have punch him
     
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    "oh my, I am so offended...That awful, awful man, he's touching himself, just 20 feet aways from me, im gonna need to punch him so hard, because he offends my delicate sensibilities, he might turn me into a homersexual if i see him and become aroused"
     
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    i guess i wouldn't have given it much notice, growing up wifh a bunch of brothers and always around naked guys in every variety of situations it woulnd't have put me off in the least.

    at least he's doing it in the privacy of the bathroom and not exposing himself in the street. i might even have given him a good look at mine to help him along a bit .
     
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    Apparently the old gent was so confused that he didn't know whether he was coming or going. ;^)
     
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    Oh my, you must have been left damaged for the remaining of your days... and besides, the guy was older, too! - The places and ways men express their horniness. :smile::biggrin1::wink:
     
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    Maybe he had become excited after seeing the 36 photos of your dick that you have posted on thse website
     
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    Are you sure he wasn't just giving it a shake? I mean, surely you can't be that surprised that a man was touching himself at a urinal :O
    And how do you know he was hard unless you had a good look yourself?
     
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    :biggrin1: LMFAO
     
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    I think you did the right thing. Pee, finish, button up and leave.
    If it happens again, I would just turn your back more towards him or crouch closer to the urinal.

    If your that upset about it, there are a couple other things you can do.
    1. Use a stall
    2. Notify security of a peculiar man in the restroom
    3. Don't use public bathrooms late at night.

    I don't think punching the guy would do any good other than getting you thrown in jail (Assault).

    Although your photos are nice! :) If I was a urinal user, I may glance, possibly smile and nod if noticed, but I wouldn't/couldn't masturbate on the spot to it. Public sex is not my kinda thing.
     
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    About 6 months ago I was at the mall for a couple hours, and realized I had to piss. I went into a mens rest room which had just 2 urinals. A man about 40 was standing at one urinal so I took the other next to him. There was a short divider screen between the urinals, and I presumed the guy was still pissing. I finished and milked my cock of the last drops, at which time the guy next to me moved toward me slightly, reached down and took my cock in his hand and pumped it a few times. Then letting go, he said "nice!" and walked out. I was startled for a moment, then thought "so what!", and I left too. Never saw the guy again.
     
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    you're the new viagra. visitt a retirement home or two, you might have something here.

    whether the sign of affection is gay or not, this is no different then pulling your dick out and jacking off when a girl walks pass. this doesn't have to do with sexual orientation. its sexual harassment - control yourself people.
     
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    It is inappropriate (and illegal) to touch yourself sexually in a public bathroom regardless of sexual orientation.

    It wouldn't matter to me if I walked into a men's room and female was masturbating openly in there, I would still be "freaked out" and uncomfortable. I don't know that person, their intentions, and have not entered into a sexual trust with them. They are forcing their sexuality upon me.
     
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    I would venture to say his actions were not appropriate but he was set on jacking off there and it likely had nothing to do with you at all. He was hard, he was jacking and didn't care who saw it. What to do??? Don't look, finish your piss, zip up and leave and don't make eye contact again. DO NOT PUNCH HIM!
     
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    I suggest you check out Squirt.org: Gay Sex Cruising Hook Up Site to find out which public toilets are used for cottaging (sex in a public toilet) and give them a miss if your 20% gay is so offended at seeing a man jerk off.

    Personally, I love it

    Brinz
     
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    eerrr no you moron, i aint homophobic if thats what your suggesting, the fact hes commiting a crime, and sexually abusing a random stranger is why i wouldve punched him in self defence, think you'll find punching a perverted flasher isnt illegal, so go take your moronic thought patterns somewhere else
     
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    It's just not cricket.
     
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    I think you will find punching anyone is illegal including in your words 'a perverted flasher' - it's called assault and will be classed as aggravated because you have punched someone because of their sexuality. Additionally, the penalty is much harsher for the perpetrator (you). Even if someone is wanking in a public toilet.

    I'm still not clear why you would need to punch a defencless old man wanking at a urninal who was standing some distance from you.

    The accuracy in your post is that sex in a public toilet (in the UK) is illegal. Acting on your prejudice, would, in my opinion make you homophobic, or a moron, one of the two or maybe both.

    Please grow up, there is enough hatred in the world and mindless violence towards men who have sex with men only serves to breed homophobia.

    Brinz
     
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    While I certainly wouldn't have punched the guy, if I was taking a leak and realized he had a good look at me and was wanking, I'd stop, zip up and leave. I don't care if an old man or young hot guy goes in there to take a leak; that's what public urinals are for. They are not for anybody that wants to taking a gander at my junk and wanking off while I am still in there. I didn't invite it so not appreciated at all!