First of all, I'm a little nonplussed by the anger some of the posters expressed toward each other. After all, different strokes for different folks, double entendre fully intended. Second, I have encountered men masturbating in urinals all over the world. It doesn't bother me personally, I've had a lot of sex at urinals and I find it interesting. I don't do it when people who DON'T want to see it are present. I'll throw something new into the mix though: what bothers me the most is that these guys who show themselves off without knowing for sure the other guy is interested (and believe me, there are ways to know, and I know) often get reported and then there's a crackdown on that particular place and people who've been using it for "innocent" cruising lose a perfectly good place. Most of the good cruising places where I live have been closed down because people who weren't interested reported them. If people were just a little more discreet (please, please, please -- it's discreet, not discrete) we could live and let live.