Massage table erections

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  1. Randyvoorburg

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    I always get erections whether it's a male or female masseuse but then again i'm bi so that doesn't say anything. Do you get erections on the massage table? Is that normal or accepted? What do you do? Does it make any difference if you're massaged by a male or a female?
     
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    Always. I finally decided to just tell the guy before he starts, making a joke, that it always happens to me. 9 times out of 10 they tell me that nearly every guy gets one at some point which relaxed me enough so that sometimes I didn't but if I did I wasnt embarassed. So chill, dude. It's a guy thing!
     
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    Cool! So it's so normal it doesn't even make a guy like you, who's straight, think he's gay. That's interesting. I would've thought predominantly str8 men would freak out at this "phenomenon" and vow never to be massaged by a dude again. So female massueses don't get offended by this at all?
     
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    I get one every time. It feels so good especially when my buttocks are being rubbed and my masseuse reaches so tantalizingly close to my anus. She told me she views it as a compliment and has given me a happy ending on more than one occasion.
     
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    Do gay men also get erections when massaged by a woman?
     
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    Wow a great question!!!!!!! My str8 dudes won't get a message from a dude because they know they will get a boner and can't explain it! Everybody gets a boner you would be dead if you didn't. Guys know they will get wood so they think someone will find out their underlying fantasys when in reality it's just a natural thing.Ever hear of angel lust? You get a hardon when you die!
     
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    I understand from someone in the industry that this is fairly common. They don't think much of it. But most of his clients are gay. Seems to me though if you are getting a great massage for an extended period, you are going to get relaxed and your mind will wander.

    This will be tough to explain, but at a former office, when things got busy, volunteers would come in to help out. One lady volunteer used to like to do shoulder massages and I was cool with it. No, never boned up as a result.
     
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    I don't want to sound like a pedant, but I hear this mistake so often (outside of this site, in everday life), I just want to mention that a "masseuse" is a female and a male is referred to as a "masseur" --- these are just the feminine and masculine French endings for the word.:smile:
     
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    If a "masseuse" gives a man an erection, I assume she would take it as a compliment.

    Why must some guys continue to be ashamed of their bodies?
     
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    I get wood all the time when I am being massaged by my masseur, but he is blind, so it does not really matter.

    Does he know? Sometimes my erection is in the path of his hands and he accidentally brushes against it so there is no way he doesn't know.

    We both ignore it and do not mention it at all.
     
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    I got my first professional massage when I was around eighteen or nineteen at my health club. I was in college and was really stressed out over my final exams and thought it would help. I was pretty nervous and tense but after fifteen minutes of him working on my back I soon relaxed. The thought of becoming aroused never entered my mind till he started working on the back of my legs and buttocks. He kept a small towel over my ass but that didn’t conceal my swollen cock. When I did have to roll over he placed the small towel on my crotch but I was sticking straight in the air. He continued the massage and never mentioned my boner.

    Later, I mentioned it to a friend and he said it was very common and it happens all the time. I started making a point to jack off before a massage so I wouldn’t get so easily aroused and that seemed to work but you don’t always have the opportunity.

    I must say there have been occasions where a masseur has massaged my cock and balls. I’ve even received blow jobs.

    One of my most memorable massages was from a business trip to Manila at a five-star hotel. Two Pilipino girls gave me a great massage and finished me off by eating my ass hole and sucking me dry.

    I don’t think it’s a common practice among professionals but if you got a naked guy lying on a table with a big cock sticking straight in the air, the temptation could outweigh ethics. I say, go for it.

     
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    The same thing happened to me a few weeks ago while I was in Europe. The guy had two good strong arms (the guy is a bodybuilder). As he started to massage my buttocks, my cock became erect. A few minutes later, he asked me to turn over-- my cock was still hard. Was I embarrassed? Not at all! :biggrin1:

     
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    At least once a month, my bf and I treat ourselves to an in-home massage.
    We have this really awesome Brazilian masseur comes to the house and we just melt.
    I get home earlier on Fridays, so I usually get mine first. I get hard with the slightest breeze going by, so Paulo (the masseur) is so used to it. He started our sessions with the little towel covering first my butt and then my crotch, but we don't even bother with that now. There is about a half hour before my bf comes home, so while Paulo relaxes, sometimes he'll take a shower or just watch some sports program, I'll go and give my self a happy ending. By the time Michael has his massage and is over and done with we are both ready to jump all over each other.
    Paulo is awesome and he doesn't seem to mind our hard-ons. This has been going on for I would just over two years now...and it is all good! :cool:
     
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    My Manila trips were always memorable but India seems to be the epicenter of spiritual healing.

    I’m a frequent business traveler and if you are too, you’d know that even a first class seat gets very uncomfortable after 15 to 20 hours. I’ve made several trips to India and it not only throws your mind out of wack but your body too. Crossing time zones, you often land very early in the morning, around 3 or 4 AM literally dazed and confused. The luxury hotels at the airport are outstanding and cater to the wary business traveler.

    After checking in, it was too early to order breakfast so I looked over what the Spa had to offer. There was page after page of spa treatments claiming to revitalize you so when the spa opened I booked a complete 4 hour treatment.

    Three Indian guys met me at the desk and escorted me to the spa where I stripped down and waited. Two of them did not speak English but the other did, but not well.

    The four hour treatment consisted of a series of baths, rubs and massages. The three of them washed me from head to toe including my cock and balls. It was the most outrageous feeling and I became erect immediately. None of them seemed to mind and if they did, it didn’t show. I was so relaxed; often nodding off.

    I think I slept through most of the last massage. The room was dark and they played this very cool Indian music. When they finished they wrapped me in a large blanket, dimmed the lights and left.

    I don’t know how long I was asleep but I woke up after one of them returned to the room. He removed the blanket and poured more warm oils on my chest. He then took my cock in his well oiled hands and gave me one of the best hand jobs I’ve ever had.

    Every massage I had in India was out of this world and inexpensive.
     
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    I've never had a massage in my life, although I'd really like to. But I've never really know 1) what I was supposed to do, and 2) I was afraid I'd get a boner. I guess I thought a guy would be more understanding, but I don't know how I'd explain asking specifically for a dude. So I never have. This forum helps. Maybe I'll try it. Of course, I'd like to think if I get a hardon someone would take advantage of it. The question for you experts is, if they do, how much do you tip?

    Gabe
     
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    Bare minimum requirements (no pun intended): 1) just lie there; 2) turn over when requested; and 3) relax and enjoy

    (tip equivalent to the quality of the service)

    If a guy knows what he's doing, it's one of the best experiences in life. Don't miss out.
     
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    I have always had the same feelings about getting a professional massage. A Massage is kind of sexual to me and so I rarely have it done. I was always afraid of what might happen and not know the professional ettiquette or the proper way to respond. This has helped.
     
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    The same guy has been massaging me weekly for the last three or four years. Sometimes I bone --sometimes I don't.
    A few weeks ago I flipped over and was sporting a major woody. He mumbled something like
    "Great, I am happy to see you too."
    I cracked up (my massuer is a straight family man) and my erection went down.
     
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    I went to massage school when I was 19 years old. There was an entire lesson erections during massage. Essentially, they happen. It's not always a sexual thing--men get hard when they feel good, be it sexually or otherwise.

    I've done bodywork on all sorts of people. I get moaners, sighers, completely comatose corpses, chatty chattertons, etc. All of 'em get hard at one point or another. (Women's nipples also get hard during massage.) Unless the man actually draws attention to the fact that he's got an erection, I don't really even notice. It's not my focus while I'm doing the massage so it's not an area I really pay attention to.

    I've known a few women who quit the business altogether because of the erection factor and I think that's rather unfortunate. Unless a man tries to actually get frisky with me while he's on my table, it's just not an issue.

    And as far as massage being a sexual thing--if you ever go to massage school, that will kill any link of sex and massage you had. I find it incredibly non-sexual now, just a feel-good experience.