masturbating/edging

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  1. Imported

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    Ullrich: I was just wondering how long you guys can go on when masturbating/edging. The reason I ask is that I went on for 2 1/2 hours yesterday and I would be really interested how long you guys take doing it.
     
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    ---It all depends.

    First, the premise of "edging" (delaying ejaculation) is a learned skill....it takes practice.

    I think the length of time during an "edging" session could hinge upon how recently you last ejaculated.
    For me, anytime longer than 24 to 36 hours, and it's going to be more difficult to "hold off" and achieve edging..."shooting" almost becomes inevitable it seems--and, the sooner the better! --for relief purposes, that is.

    If all "goes well" and I can successfully delay ejaculating, then perhaps an hour to an hour and a half...but, that's pretty much THE limit.

    Often, I have HAD to yet "go another round" to relieve ALL the pent-up tension and I have been known to take an ADDITIONAL one to one and a half hours. --Kinda difficult to "work that in" around a busy workday schedule during the week! --but, it's happened.
    --Lots of mornings when breakfast had to be skipped altogether...and fast excuses made as to why I'm running late!. ;)
     
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    mr17yearold: thanks for explaining what edging was... i was totally in the dark(and i didnt want to be the idiot who asked :-/)

    anyway, there have been times when i go for at least 2 hours before i cum once(all the while hard)... but this only happens if i want it to happen, which isnt often. also, when ive done this, i have to cum again and again, probably between 2 and 4 more times, but i try to get these out quick because it feels really good to cum over and over again in succession(at least for me). this has all been done while jacking off, but id like to see what i can do when i have sex eventually... i hope i can perform near to these numbers, but if not oh well
     
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    tricknc: I don't like to edge, but I do it neway. It seems like I start a quick session and I'm still at it an hour later. Does neone have ne advice?
     
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    tricknc (and Mr17year old)

    If you are experiencing difficulty in achieving climax (which is different than "edging") you may be "over-using" your system--meaning that if you are masturbating excessively and "shooting" as well, too--then you may need time for the body to "rebuild its juices" so to speak. Often, in adolescence, many guys masturbate a number of times during the day ( I remember I did quite often; -- three, four, sometimes even more than that daily!) --It tends to eventually limit your ejaculations and affect the strength of your climax.
    If you "let up" on that repetitive cycle of self-pleasuring on a daily basis, you'll find climaxes return along with more intense ejaculations.

    As to edging...it is an acquired skill. As you near climaxing (to where you are just about to "shoot") simply STOP stroking and stimulating...just abruptly stop. Wait a few seconds...even a minute or so. Let the erection relax just a bit. (Some guys lightly "spank" or tap the penis to get it to calm down) Then resume the stimulation again and as before--as you near climaxing---STOP and repeat the procedure again.
    Begin trying this and you'll gradually develop this skill.(Don't expect too many repeat "stopping" sessions at the outset....it will be difficult to avoid ejaculating right away. But, you'll get the feel of how to do it as you go along.) When you do finally ejaculate, most will find the climax and the ejaculation almost overpowering.

    One other way to learn to "control" ejaculating is to practice Kegel exercises (which is learning to flex the inner muscle that controls your urine and semen flow from your urethra.) You simply practice deliberately stopping the flow of your urination when you void your bladder. Also, you can flex those same muscles during the day while simply sitting or driving. Learn to flex those muscles in increasing "sets" of numerous times; building in the number of flexing sets from day to day.There are numerous threads already existing in the lpsg that go into further detail about kegels. These excercises prove beneficial later on in adulthood especially when men want to avoid ejaculating too early while engaging in intercourse. In fact, men would find kegel exercises of benefit throughout their adult lives.
     
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    mr17yearold: i dont have difficulty in climaxing, it just takes a long time... and i dont j/o that often, maybe once a day if i can fit it in. on the norm, it takes a minimum of 30 mins to cum, even if im trying very hard to get it off, guess its the way im built, and no, i dont practice edging, it just happens... while j/o i dont get those points where im about to cum and i stop, so what i do isnt considered edging. when i do cum though it is alot...though ive never measured it... i think i might sometime
     
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    ORCABOMBER: I think that it probably goes on for about an hour, there's only so far someone can edge before you literally go gaaaaaaawwwwwwggggggghhhhhhhhh! and make a bit of a mess! ;)
     
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    brad2002: Sometimes I can edge for quite a long time. In fact, I have been at it for almost three hours now. I've been reading some posts on this site andlooking at pics of hot guys on other sites. It won't be long now and it will be a big one, that's for sure.
     
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    Finnmark: I masturbate every day.  I just love the feel of my dick, and try out different 'holds' with either or both hands.  Lately I've discovered something that drives me absolutely crazy:  holding my dick half-hard (which is still full length at 8 3/4")  and pushing it down underneath my balls and between my legs so that it's tickling my bum with the tip just touching the anus.  Can't manage the 'ultimate' unfortunately, but it's an unbelievable sensation.
    I could come in seconds, but have learned to 'edge'.  Often I try to hold off for ever, as orgasms have become so strong and violent that I actually don't like them.  That never used to be the case, and I wonder if anybody else has experienced that extreme feeling ?
     
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    Nudist dad here, chronic, addicted, perverted masturbator and edger. I can go for several hours. The longest being 13hrs. A day of masturbating...worshipping, gooning on my big phallus. I can sometimes edge for day's at a time before cumming. Someday's, just do it for a couple of hours. I edge all day long too. every free moment I have to pull my cock out and edge it. Cock worship is the best, and when you have a huge phallus, even better.
     
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    Man you are seriously my hero... sounds like we have a lot in common dude. I can go for hours and hours and hours,, longest was a whole day i think but any free time is spent doing it lately......which is tremendous.
     
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    I don't have that much time now that I'm away from home and have a roommate. But a year or two ago when I lived with my parents I'd have day-long jo sessions when they were away or out of town. I'm not sure if you define it as edging since I'd get myself just to the point of cumming and then let it relax to the point of getting soft, then let it get hard again--over and over. It may have to stay hard the whole time to be considered edging--i dunno.

    Jordy
     
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    i think the longest i've gone is two or three hours. I like it cuz when I shoot, I shoot SO far and so much more than normal, like between 8-12 shots. heh. then like 5 minutes later i still feel like jerkin off so i do it quickly after i edged for a while.
     
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    It depends...sometimes 10 minutes, other times 2 hours...usually about 20-30 minutes though. I take my time with it

    One time I reeeally took my time with it, and jerked off for 4 hours, no lie. I was building myself up to orgasm each time too, so when I finally exploded...I reeeally exploded...was lying down, and it shot up and onto my face, the pillow behind me, just everywhere. I needed toonss of tissues to clean up that mess haha:wank:
     
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    I'm glad you asked...and asked...and asked...and asked.:smile:
     
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    i just did 3 1/2 hours. this is actually either my record, or close to it.
     
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    Depends on my mood. But have done it on and off for a whole Saturday before. Was really bored and had some good porn.:bukkake2:
     
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    The most I did was 3 hr and close to climax for 50 times before I shoot my load:wank:
     
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    It's a Board glitch.