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  1. ali55

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    what are the disadvantages for those girls who masturbates alot and lost virginity cause of fingering...the meat came from pussy is due to masturbating alot?
     
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    The hymen can break when you're very active and into sports. I've been into horse riding from an early age... that broke my hymen but I didn't consider myself not to be a virgin!
     
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    Is it too mean of me to say that's surprising with loads of sarcasm? :tongue:

    Anyways, the concept of losing one's virginity here in the US means that you've actually had sexual intercourse. A girl who masturbates, whether she penetrates herself or not, and a girl who does not masturbate, are both 'virgins' until such time as they actually have real sex.

    "Virginity" is just some human concept anyways, so of course it varies from place to place and in some countries men consider a woman to have lost her virginity if she rides a bicycle, wears pants, or any other action from a list of stupid activities.

    As for "meat came from pussy", not sure what you're talking about there. Are you talking about the hymen, or women with pronounced labia, or something else?
     
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    My first penetration was with a vibrator and im glad of that. It took me a few times to be able to take it comfortably so it made my first 'real sex' much easier and less painful.
     
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    im talking about labia minora
     
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    What about it?

    Virgins have labia minora as well
     
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    Labia have nothing to do with virginity and a woman who has never had a penis inside her is still a virgin regardless if she has broken her hymen through masturbation or doing anything else.
     
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    That's genetics and has nothing to do with masturbation.
     
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    sweet gubbityfuck! i was virgin until i was 23 years old!!! :eek:

    kinda explains my truly epic HALO ranking. :biggrin1:

    virginity - lesbian usage of the term may vary :rolleyes:
     
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    LOL!

    I actually have a few friends who didn't lose their virginities (gay or straight) until their early twenties. It's not so unusual.

    I really didn't want to go this far into answering the question. The OP doesn't appear to be very progressive in his attitudes regarding sexual equality and the empowerment of women as sexual beings and I didn't want to add any more weapons to his arsenal.
     
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    i was just being silly... this is a silly thread, opened by a silly OP, who likes opening silly threads to hate on labia minora.

    my guess is his porn choices are limited by location, airbrushing to meet the censors' or audiences' standards have prevented him from seeing very many women with larger/visible/unaltered labia. all that repressions is terrible on both genders.

    with some cultures (where the hymen or lacking of a hymen can get you killed or ostracized) i can see why PIV would a be a definer of virginity. :frown:

    yes!! exactly what Mr. Savage said!! if you cum with/with the help of another person, you have cashed in the V-card.

    thank you for the link. so never dawned on me to search youtube for Dan Savage videos. too busy watching SPN and Glee clips :redface: <~~~~ omg... this virginity thing continues to haunt me :eek:
     
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    I actually edited it out.

    There are different definitions of "lost virginity" depending on who is using it and what context. Dan Savage means "the moment a person has had a new variety of sexual experience." A person who sees the world through "virgn/whore" glasses might view the definition of "lost virginity" as "the moment a woman becomes a slut" which to me changes the definition significantly and what sexual experiences a woman must have to fit the defintion.

    The way that the OP asked the question implied a virgin/whore attitude. After I put the video up, I thought, oh great, now he's going to have lots more reasons to think a woman is a slut than just whether she's had PIV. Now she's going to be a slut if she mutual masturbates with someone, or has oral sex, or finger fucks, or has anal sex... maybe more. That's why I chose to take it down. That's what I meant by "adding weapons to his arsenal." I suspect the video would simply make him think lots more things count as "bad behavior for women" instead of clarifying a sexually progressive attitude about the wonderful buffet of sexual experiences an innocent person could become introduced to and consider herself initiated.
     
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    I'm totally confused as to what the OP wanted to know! It's really sad when men consider a woman to have lost her virginity before having ever had a penis inside her... e.g. through horse riding (like myself) or riding a bike.

    More and more women are having the operation to restore the hymen in some cultures in order to avoid honour killings and to make sure they 'pass the test' on their wedding night
     
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    As far the the small meat comment (apparently meaning labia minora), could this be in reference to women who have been circumcised? (barbaric practice!)
     
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    Yikes! That hadn't ocurred to me!
     
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    I grew up in the middle east and it was common practice. It's common in muslim cultures but is not in the quran. That would be like christions religiously doing something that was never in the bible.. strange.

    Anyway, people still do it and dont want to change. Girls are circumcised when very young (babies or toddlers, maybe older). They are cut.... sometimes lips removed, sometimes clitoris too... they are tidied up then stitched together. On their wedding night they are cut open
     
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    Based on what he posted in another thread, he's talking about plain, old exposed labia minora.
     
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    Yup.
     
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    Can you give more context to why he asked about it or what he means?

    What was his question in the other thread?
     
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