I don't think being interested in big dicks or wanting to see them makes you bi or gay.
I found this forum by accident when someone posted it on an unrelated site, and stuck around because I was fascinated by it you might say.
Having only been with my wife sexually, during a period in which we broke up shortly after first having sex, she spent a month and a half going out and sleeping with a friend of hers who she later admitted to me (after some other girl we knew who slept with him brought it up in front of me) that he had a really big dick.
Surprisingly, I enjoyed hearing about her experiences with him as much as she enjoyed reliving them and talking about them (which was a lot). To me, it was a huge turn on to know my (I thought) relative innocent girlfriend whom I had only had sex with once before we broke up had very quickly wound up in bed with some guy with a porn sized dick and spent the next month (plus a couple weeks of overlap where she started seeing us both at the same time just prior to us officially getting back together) getting fucked by him just about every day. It wasn't just a size thing for her though, as he apparently was very good in bed too.
All this even led to us getting a realistic toy that was approximately his size (which we still use to this day), and mutual fantasies about him joining us for a threesome or me watching them (they are still friends 8 years later as they were part of the same group of friends to begin with).
So as its something we've always talked about and has impacted our sex lives in a big way (no pun intended), and as we still see him (seeing her around him is actually a big turn on considering they'll still be a bit flirty) I just was interested in finding out more about the whole subject and see if others may have been in that situation (on his end) you might say.
And for the record, I'm not here for SPH, I'm not even small, but on the larger side of average I'd say.
However, the fact that I'd rather see large guys in straight porn, and would be turned on watching my wife with a larger guy, doesn't mean I want to do anything with another guy or his large dick, lol. The thought of that actually makes me kinda ill, though I have absolutely nothing against homosexuality, I just know it isn't for me personally.
because the phallic symbol has been a source of intrigue for centuries. Most of them siginify power...
I agree with the power thing completely, and whenever we're around her ex-bf, subconsciously I kinda do get that sense as a result of what I know, with him being the largest guy my wife has ever been with and sort of having rocked her world sexually when they were together. Though it helps in his case that physically he is kinda big, and more of an "Alpha" sort as well.
