Men with large penis vs. average/small penis'

[D_Barney Blomee]

k i would like to start a intelletual debate about penis size. All are welcome to participate and add their input based on experience or their opinion on things. There are alot of guys here who brag or are so proud about their penis, but yet are single and have trouble getting girls/women to accomadate them. And they constantly brag how they ex-girlfriend said they were the biggest...yet u no longer are with that person, so i can assume it really did not matter what u had in your pants. It seems like the average or smaller guys all have the girls or are in relationships. I wonder if i had a smaller penis if i would be able to sleep with more females. It seems a big penis is great for self confidence, not for sleeping with women who reject based on pain. Then i think which is better off?

 

[D_Randy_N_Handy]

small pee here, still a virgin and i'm 25 next week:biggrin1:

 

[Pendlum]

k i would like to start a intelletual debate about penis size. All are welcome to participate and add their input based on experience or their opinion on things. There are alot of guys here who brag or are so proud about their penis, but yet are single and have trouble getting girls/women to accomadate them. And they constantly brag how they ex-girlfriend said they were the biggest...yet u no longer are with that person, so i can assume it really did not matter what u had in your pants. It seems like the average or smaller guys all have the girls or are in relationships. I wonder if i had a smaller penis if i would be able to sleep with more females. It seems a big penis is great for self confidence, not for sleeping with women who reject based on pain. Then i think which is better off?

If they stay with women longer, how would you sleep with more women? And ex doesn't automatically mean they got dumped. Now I'm not sure if you have certain incidents in mind, but I can't say I've seen the guys who brag also claim they have trouble with women. It seems, to me at least, that there is group A, who brags, and group B, guys who have trouble with women, and you are kind of mish mashing them together when you mention it.

 

[sunnyside4lyfe]

Average size here (a little over 7 in.) my gf loves it and we've been together off and on for 2 or 3 yrs; but only been having sex for since early this year.

 

[wallyj84]

I'm willing to bet that during the initial stages of dating penis size has a negligible effect on attracting a woman. After the couple start having sex, a big penis might help to keep a woman in the relationship, but I bet that it's still a pretty small part of the whole equation.

Things like confidence and a fun, outgoing personality have a lot more to do with getting a woman, and keeping her, than penis size.

Now having said that, I think that guys, even if they are confident and have great personalities, if they have a small penis they are much more likely to be cheated on than men with large penises. Now that does not mean that the woman will run off with her lover. It just means that she will have sex with her lover behind her husband's back and all that entails.

 

[D_Barney Blomee]

If they stay with women longer, how would you sleep with more women? And ex doesn't automatically mean they got dumped. Now I'm not sure if you have certain incidents in mind, but I can't say I've seen the guys who brag also claim they have trouble with women. It seems, to me at least, that there is group A, who brags, and group B, guys who have trouble with women, and you are kind of mish mashing them together when you mention it.

I am not saying that they should not sleep with other women, but it seems like its more like objectivation..women grow up seeing porn and thinking that its the in-thing to have, like having a mercedes or having a gucci bag.. But when women experience men with a larger penis, they realize that its not what it was cracked up to me. Cause its not pratical to alot of women due to pain, ALoT of foreplay, soreness...this is why i am eluting that this endowed individuals find themselves having trouble finding women who can accomadate them....thus the amount of ex's or one night stands.

 

[D_Barney Blomee]

I'm willing to bet that during the initial stages of dating penis size has a negligible effect on attracting a woman. After the couple start having sex, a big penis might help to keep a woman in the relationship, but I bet that it's still a pretty small part of the whole equation.

Things like confidence and a fun, outgoing personality have a lot more to do with getting a woman, and keeping her, than penis size.

Now having said that, I think that guys, even if they are confident and have great personalities, if they have a small penis they are much more likely to be cheated on than men with large penises. Now that does not mean that the woman will run off with her lover. It just means that she will have sex with her lover behind her husband's back and all that entails.

Really wow, where did u get your research ...i've known girls who have cheated on guys who have been will endowed, but was not happy with the sexual relationship and known girls who cheated cause they were tired of having to do hours of foreplay to get him to enter her...so i don;t know where u been getting your info, but i think u are sadly mistaken

 

[D_Barney Blomee]

small pee here, still a virgin and i'm 25 next week:biggrin1:

u know i really don;t know what u are trying to say by this statement, but i really hope u are not missing out on the best part of your young viral years cause are self-conscious about your penis cause u are too worried about what a women might think. Cause if thats true i would feel sorry for you when u finally have sex and realize that you penis was perfect for the person u were with and missed out on some illusion u had on what size a penis needed to be to satifsy a women:frown1:

 

[parchissi]

Here we go again boys!! Its not the size of your dick - its what you do with it that counts.

 

[wallyj84]

Really wow, where did u get your research ...i've known girls who have cheated on guys who have been will endowed, but was not happy with the sexual relationship and known girls who cheated cause they were tired of having to do hours of foreplay to get him to enter her...so i don;t know where u been getting your info, but i think u are sadly mistaken

From my personal experience I've known more girls who cheated on guys because they were too small, than women who have cheated on a guy because he was too big. But honestly, this seems like a silly argument, because every woman is different and they all have their own opinions on what they find comfortable and pleasing.

 

[Tristessa]

I am not saying that they should not sleep with other women, but it seems like its more like objectivation..women grow up seeing porn and thinking that its the in-thing to have, like having a mercedes or having a gucci bag.. But when women experience men with a larger penis, they realize that its not what it was cracked up to me. Cause its not pratical to alot of women due to pain, ALoT of foreplay, soreness...this is why i am eluting that this endowed individuals find themselves having trouble finding women who can accomadate them....thus the amount of ex's or one night stands.

I never grew up seeing porn (I still haven't really seen anything except solo-female), and I still like large penises. It's not objectification, it just happens to feel nice. It's definitely not a fashion statement, it's not like I collar my man and lead him around town with his cock out or display him for my friends (well, not for most of them :tongue. It is everything it's cracked up to be, for a man that knows how to use it. For a man that doesn't, it doesn't matter what size he is. I think you'll find many women go into a relationship because they like/love the person, and size is secondary.

 

[vince]

If you're lousy in the sack, don't be surprised if you get dumped. Lousy in bed probably means lazy in other areas of your life as well. Penis size is only part of being a good lover and everyone knows that. In fact for some, it doesn't have any bearing at all.

As far as your theory about big guys being rejected "cause its not pratical to alot of women due to pain" or women are "tired of having to do hours of foreplay to get him to enter her".... LOL. I think you either don't have much experience using a large tool, or are believing too much the bullshit stories you read on LPSG.

 

[B_bi_mmf]

See #3505 and #3508 on the following page of the Penis Size Debate site for two interesting male perspectives on this issue.

Penis Size: Comments 3501 to 3550

 

[Captain Elephant]

I've never had to use the size of my penis to attract women. It's not a marketing tool, in my opinion. Only once did a mate try to pick up a girl for me by indicating my size, and I don't think that had anything to do with us hooking up later.

My wife appreciates what I have, but there's a lot more behind it. Personally, it never helped my self-esteem one whit. In fact, for a long time it had quite the opposite effect, and I was made to feel ashamed of it. As a little guy in high school I was called a freak of nature and certainly felt that way.

If your dick is your personality then face it - you're a dick.

 

[superman25]

OK well i throw in my two cents here, I am 7.5 x 6.2 mid shaft. So as you can see not small not extremely large by any means, girth is normally what gets them. I decided to run my own little experiment while i was at the beach. My friend and I met a total of 22 girls. Most were pretty good looking according to most peoples standards. We were here for two weeks I mind you and usually met the girls in twos. We would take them out do something fun on the strip and then usually go drink or go clubbing. My experiment was to find out with each of the girls at some point through out the night which was more appealing the size or orgasms. More then not we played a truth or dare card game and it always ended up being about sex lol. So i would start by hinting at some point that i had probably had a bigger penis then any ex of theirs. So get this, yes most of them were like oooo, but only two wanted to see it. Then later that night how many orgasms have you had questions would always come up. Only one girl had ever had one. Her boyfriend was extremly small. I would consider myself really good hands or penis wise. I have never not made a girl orgasm, ususally they get quite a few in one sitting. When i told them all this after the question, they would all wait till they were out of the room and would txt or call me later saying they wanted to try one. Now I am not a guy that is going to bang everything in sight. I actually only played around with one girl, and that was because she was my type and could have potentially have been a girlfriend at some point. The total count came to 18 of the girls contacted me later that night. So boys its how you use it.

 

[D_Chaumbrelayne_Copprehead]

Look.

LPSG is not the real world.

Very few women (or even men) choose a guy based totally on the size of his cock.

A few more, but not many, pick a guy based on sex alone.

Most potential partners are looking at the whole package ... YOU! Personality ... the ability to handle an intimate relationship ... similar goals and desires ... attraction ... etc etc etc.

Let's face it. Guys who are egotistical about and obsessed with the size of their unit may be hung, but they are still ... EGOTISTICAL and OBSESSIVE.

Who the hell wants to hang out with someone like that? Especially if, like most people, cock size is not that important to you!

So, the size of a dude's dick is, generally, not going to go far towards creating a long-term relationship, unless you luck into a size queen who doesn't care how you treat her/him.

 

[D_Prudence_Admonition_Drightits]

Look.

LPSG is not the real world.

Very few women (or even men) choose a guy based totally on the size of his cock.

A few more, but not many, pick a guy based on sex alone.

Most potential partners are looking at the whole package ... YOU! Personality ... the ability to handle an intimate relationship ... similar goals and desires ... attraction ... etc etc etc.

Let's face it. Guys who are egotistical about and obsessed with the size of their unit may be hung, but they are still ... EGOTISTICAL and OBSESSIVE.

Who the hell wants to hang out with someone like that? Especially if, like most people, cock size is not that important to you!

So, the size of a dude's dick is, generally, not going to go far towards creating a long-term relationship, unless you luck into a size queen who doesn't care how you treat her/him.

Well said!!!! Maybe this fact is learned with age.

 

[2322]

Look.

LPSG is not the real world.

Very few women (or even men) choose a guy based totally on the size of his cock.

A few more, but not many, pick a guy based on sex alone.

Most potential partners are looking at the whole package ... YOU! Personality ... the ability to handle an intimate relationship ... similar goals and desires ... attraction ... etc etc etc.

Let's face it. Guys who are egotistical about and obsessed with the size of their unit may be hung, but they are still ... EGOTISTICAL and OBSESSIVE.

Who the hell wants to hang out with someone like that? Especially if, like most people, cock size is not that important to you!

So, the size of a dude's dick is, generally, not going to go far towards creating a long-term relationship, unless you luck into a size queen who doesn't care how you treat her/him.

Well said!!!! Maybe this fact is learned with age.

Sometimes I love Southerners!

 

[jakeryder]

Well

I am above average. I had a lot of sexual experiances at a young age. Then in my twenties met a womand and was with her for six years. I dumped her because she fucked around on me. I was not perfect but my work at that time took me away a lot at a moments notice and she couldn't handle it. Newly single I became a real slut for a few years. Now I have been with my wife for nine years.

So I don't think it is fair to generalize with the "Big guys can't keep a girl" concept. In my research the women I have known both as partners and as friends agree that all things being equal bigger is better. It is one of the first things they tell their girlfriends about a guy. Right after "what does he do"

 

[Silvertip]

... It seems a big penis is great for self confidence, not for sleeping with women ...

I have picked up, and had sex with, a number of women (and men, for that matter) based principally on my penis size. That, by hanging out at clothing optional hot springs and nude beaches, where if you've got it you can flaunt it. But that has been mostly for NSA recreational sex, not an enduring relationship.

The two gals that I met that way where I pursued a relationship it just didn't work out, I believe because they were more interested in my dick size than they were in me as a person. So I have to agree with Krispdx that, if you're looking for any kind of a meaningful relationship, it's the whole package that counts.