MFM threesomes -Gals do you keep in mind what the smaller penis guy may think?

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  1. B_superlarge

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    Gals, if you have been in a threesome(s), before the event or during the event did you tell yourself to try and make sure you didn't give the guy with the bigger dick more attention?

    Whether you thought about the above or not, have you afterwards been accused of giving the guy with the bigger penis more attention, or accused of reacting more physically with the bigger penis during the mfm?
     
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    The only concession I make is that if we're DPing I'll have the bigger guy in my pussy and the smaller guy in my ass... but that's just practical, I guess.
     
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    both guys were hung as horses, one was about 1/2 inch shorter than the other one so it really wasn't a big deal.
     
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    I'd like to experience this someday. If I don't, I'm not going to worry about it too much but it is something I'd like to experience.

    I'd want both guys to be big. If not, I would try what BlunderWoman suggested.
     
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    hey, im male and that has def happen to me, poor dude!
     
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    If I was to experience this ... Uh I wouldn't be thinking how I could I could make the smaller guy feel better. I would be thinking ... this is all about me.
     
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    :biggrin1: :biggrin1: :biggrin1:

    I guess I would think of that though. I have so many of my own insecurities (mostly about being shortchanged in the boob department), so I would be as kind to the smaller guy as possible.
     
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    Oh I wouldn't be cruel, at all. It, who was smaller, wouldn't even cross my mind. I would be just thinking ... holy smokes ... i want one of those and please do this and yes that is wonderful, oh you are kidding me, etc. Yea, would be all about what was being done to me and all that I was feeling.
     
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    If a hung guy is putting a working on the woman she may not can help herself.

    I watch amateur porn mostly. I watched one recently where an older couple swapped with a younger couple. The guy of the younger couple had about 7.5" length x about 5.25" girth. The older guy had about 5" length x 4.5" girth. Since it was a swap the young woman was being pumped by the older guy with the small dick and the older woman by the young man with the above average dick.

    I wish they would have at some point swapped so that it was younger guy on younger woman and older woman on older man in front of the camera so that I could have compared reactions, but since they appeared to be couples they could do that anytime so I knew they weren't going to.

    At any rate, the young woman took the small dick with very little reaction.
    The interesting part is the younger man pumping the older woman who is use to the older guy's small dick. She took the long dick fairly quietly for a while. She was always showing signs of being into it, more so than the young one being pumped by the small dick. Eventually when the younger guy with the long dick got to really putting it on her she got this distorted look on her face and one could tell that dick was having a very big effect on her. The older small dick guy never achieved anything close to that with the young woman. One can say, well, it could have been the other way round. Really? Well, it wasn't. Unless a guy is into being cuckolded, why in the world would he want to subject himself to the very real possiblity that some hung guy is going to put an expression on her face, and maybe even produce sounds from her that he never has. (There wasn't sound provided, so I wasn't able to hear.)

    That wasn't exact comparison, as that was couple swapping and I'm talking about threesomes. Still, it was a case where the small guy must witness a hung guy outdo him. Yes, I'm guessing, but it's a good guess.
     
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    That's true. I might not be able to help myself. I'm sure I've been with both of the sizes of the guys you mentioned, too! The 7.5 x 5.25 sounds a lot like the guy I've been involved with in an open relationship for the past 14 years. 5 x 4.5 sounds a lot like one of the other guys I've been with (but only for a short time). I definitely had more reaction to my long-term guy.

    And that's one of the reasons why if I am ever in a MFM threesome, that I hope that both guys are big.
     
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    I've been in a MFM where the other guy was about average (I'll guess 5.5x4.5) and I'm 8.5x6.25. She had no trouble taking him in her mouth but wasn't able to get as much as me. She was more vigorous with my cock but I don't know if that's because she enjoyed it more or just because it's more work. She was much more vocal when I was fucking her, though. I had entered her first and thinking back on it now that was probably a mistake.
     
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    i argue that its not the woman's responsibility to ensure she devotes equal time among the men. its about the men involved, the drive, the alpha in the male. i've seen plenty of smaller men get their full share of attention because they made sure they got it and i've seen many others fade away into the woodwork while the bigger cock operated. the one exception is if the woman has a strong and exclusive predilection for large cocks and simply refuses the smaller guy. in that case, he should just go away.
     
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    The only time it was an issue was a time when it REALLY was an issue -- the "other man" (not my regular bf) was very small and never stopped apologizing (insisting) on his "average" size. I'm not a size queen, but I swear I could barely tell it was in me. It was not a fun experience.

    I now make sure I know something about size before getting into an MFM situation.

    PS: I agree with giving both men equal attention. It's a "sport" and as the woman, you're the "referee" -- be fair to both sides!
     
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    The last time I was in a mfm, as soon I got hard, the other guy lost his erection and left the room. I went looking for him after a while and found him watching TV in the living room. He had a pretty nice dick over six inchs long. He said he didn't want to be humiliated by the woman getting off on my cock. What a bummer. There wasn't anything I could say to convince him to come back. A couple days later he told me that he had jerked off while listening to us go at and imagining that he was fucking her with my dick!

    Other times with other guys it's not been an issue.
     
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    Why would I include a guy with a small dick in my threesome?
     
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    Ooooh, I feel bad. I just read my post again, and the post by Bette above. I do not want to discriminate against smaller dicks. If a guy has the right moves and "games" -- I really wouldn't care what his dick size was as long as it wasn't a "micropenis".

    But in a MFM situation, it's not good to have a big guy and a small guy.

    (And even that statement has a disclaimer: if it's a cuckold type situation and everybody understands it as such, then no problem.)
     
  17. B_Veronica_Divine

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    I have been in this situation once. Smaller guy just couldn't preform...his ego was crushed.

    I'll admit I didn't help given how much fuss I made over the big boy... but he knew what he was getting into before we'd started.

    But even when I've had two guys who were bigger, (I've been in four threesomes, two mfm two fmf) it still wasn't a great experience for me. Either I just suck at threesomes, or they aren't worth all the hype.
     
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    I've only had 1 threesome and it was with another couple. His dick was about 5" X 4". It wasn't a true cuckold thing, they were just looking for another guy for her. Size was never mentioned in the ad but when I brought out my 8" X 6" she wasn't expecting it. She thought her man was big and was stunned. I think she said something like "oh fuck" and looked at him in disbelief. He must not have been expecting it either because he backed off and asked me to fuck her while he watched. She wanted to suck him off at the same time but he made some excuse and sat down in the chair. Sad thing for him is he could never get fully hard and never got off. He jerked off during our first session but finally gave up and put his clothes on. I think seeing her cum on my cock tore his guts out. I fucked her to multiple orgasms 3 times that night and she finally took all of my cock the 3rd time. He sat in the corner getting drunk the whole time. At first she was concerned that he wasn't enjoying it and offered to stop. But after her first multiple she didn't care about him anymore. I didn't cum until the second session because I was nervous about him freaking out. When I finally did cum I shot one of the biggest loads of my life and drenched her from her pussy all the way up to her hair with several shots hitting her face. That was obviously a first for her too cause she started screaming and laughing and rubbing her clit. I remeber him mumbling in the background when I came that first time. The second time I came I had asked her to finger my ass while she sucked me off. She had never done that before and it really turned her on. She came by rubbing her clit while I finished myself off with her finger in my ass. I came quite a bit more all over my chest. It was a great time for me mostly because she was a virgin when it came to big cock and ass play. She wasn't that hot overall so I wasn't sure I would hookup again although I really enjoyed the tightness of her pussy and the way she enjoyed it. When I left them he was practically passed out and she asked me to come back and gave me a deep french kiss. I never called them back and he never emailed me or called me so I'm guessing he was trying to forget what happened. I felt bad for the dude, but I guess he never expected to have those feelings of inferiority.
     
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    This would be my fear of having an mfm. at 6.5x5.5 I'm above average but certainly there isn't a shortage of guys out there that could make me look small. I don't think my poor ego would hold up to well to a 9" cock fucking my girlfriend.
     
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    I have been in this situation once. Looser women just couldn't preform...her ego was crushed.

    I'll admit I didn't help given how much fuss I made over the tight woman... but she knew what she was getting into before we'd started.

    :biggrin1: :tongue: :wink: