Milking the Penis with the Vagina

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Wow you have a very fit pussy by the sound of it. Hehe have you ptacticed shooting out ping pong balls cos thats the next level of pussy training!

Hmm how can I get my gf to do some pussy crunches without making it seem like I'm unhappy with her tightness? I'm really not unhappy with her pussy at all it's a neat little unit but I think it would be great if she trained her pussy muscles.

My pc muscles are strong from doing kegels, I do a kegel squeeze with every instroke when I'm having sex I don't think about it just feels natural. Makes the cock harder and pumps the head up which feels better for both IMO.

Buy her a set of ben wa balls the one's without the string work your muscles more in my opinion. Tell her you want her to wear them out to dinner, etc. It's an amazing feeling to know they are there and she's getting kegel work out's by holding the balls in.:cool:
 

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Hahaha, I was just thinking how funny it might be if we were out for dinner and balls were falling put of her pussy at an inopportune moment.

My gf seems to dislike any type of sex toy in her. She does not mind fingers inside a little during foreplay but mostly all she wants is cock. She don't own any vibs or dildos she claims she never masturbates, but she loves sex. I guess if she was ever horny she could just get sex easily so she needs no accessories.
 

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It's always tricky buying any toys (or jewelry, or clothes for that matter) without consulting your partner first. Think of it like your girlfriend buying you a penis pump and saying, "Enjoy!"

I'd suggest sending her an article or two and see if she's interested in reading/learning more about this stuff. She can practice with you inside her first, and that's a helluva lot of fun.

Something else we do is go to the adult store once in a while and just tell her "I feel like buying you a toy, wanna choose?"
 

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I'd say about 1 in 25 girls can do this milking. But it's really only effective on smaller cocks like mine. They can make me cum in minutes. Of the 4 " milking" girls ive shared with my giant cocked buddy he said he could feel the spasms but they really didn't cause him to erupt any earlier he would just fuck thru the "spasms" until the girls came or there vagina muscles were fatigued.
 

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My experience is that non-athletic girls are rather poor at this due to a lack of strength/muscle awareness throughout the entire pelvic region. My girlfriend, for example, was so weak that she hurt herself trying just a simple squeeze of her PC muscle - needless to say, she never tried it again.
 

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What a great thread; good to hear about the ongoing experiments!

In my experience, it's about 1 in 20 women who does this. However, I think it is something that anyone can learn. One ex-girlfriend tried some exercises with me, but gave up because it was too difficult for her to concentrate on sequentially contracting muscles while she was in the throes of passion.

It always feels out-of-this-world great when a woman knows how to do it though.
 

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a former lover of mine had the ability to repeatedly squirt copious amounts of ejaculate whenever she came...and she came quite a bit. after my first experience with her i began to look for squirting porn and have yet to find any porn star who even comes close to the power,volume and trajectory that she generated. i'm a practitioner of tantric sex, so i have quite a bit of stamina, and we would often fuck for several hours at a time with her coming, and squirting and/or gushing, every few minutes. every time she came her pussy would clamp down and it would feel like a vice grip on my cock. some times it felt like she was bending my rock hard dick into a 90 degree angle. it wasn't uncommon for her to squeeze so hard that my cock would literally pop out of her pussy. when she did that her pussy would be gaped open and i could see her vaginal muscles spasm. kind of freaked me out at first because i could see her cervix pulsing forward and blocking her vaginal opening. some of the craziest sex i have ever had. the kicker is that she grew up in a strict christian family and even attended a prominent christian university. i'm sure she freaked out some innocent church boys in here undergrad days...
 

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I'd say about 1 in 25 girls can do this milking. But it's really only effective on smaller cocks like mine. They can make me cum in minutes. Of the 4 " milking" girls ive shared with my giant cocked buddy he said he could feel the spasms but they really didn't cause him to erupt any earlier he would just fuck thru the "spasms" until the girls came or there vagina muscles were fatigued.

Oh, I disagree! TheBoyfriend enjoys it very much and I don't consider him to be small at all!

My experience is that non-athletic girls are rather poor at this due to a lack of strength/muscle awareness throughout the entire pelvic region. My girlfriend, for example, was so weak that she hurt herself trying just a simple squeeze of her PC muscle - needless to say, she never tried it again.

I do have very fine muscle control and excellent muscle memory with my other muscles also. I have thought about that connection myself. In classes, I was much quicker at attaining muscle memory than anyone else and I was excellent at knowing where I am in space, but I am hindered by my lack of speed. I am not a quick, but I am precise, which makes me good at yoga, but bad at fencing (except for my form, which doesn't matter when you lose all the time).
 

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i have found that women who are dancers and/or practice yoga or pilates are more likely to have the ability to flex their "sex muscles" as a former lover used refer to them.

I have wondered along similar lines, in particular, whether women athletes in general typically have tight vaginas and/or the ability to control the flexing of their vaginal muscles.

This question reminded me of a sexually particularly enjoyable time in my life. Toward the end of my first marriage I had an affair with a very interesting, intelligent, and attractive younger woman (I was 55, and she had just turned 34.). She had been married, and faithful to her (less than faithful) husband, for a period of five years, but both before and after her marriage she had had numerous lovers.

Childless, she had a delightfully tight vagina; it fit like a snug sheath along the full length of my penis, and thanks to regular Kegel exercises, she had wonderful control over her vaginal muscles, able to squeeze me even more tightly whenever she wanted to. She was even able to "milk" my penis, squeezing me from the base of my penis down to the head.

I recall that in one of our sessions of love-making, I cummed after, I would suppose, my usual time of 5 to 6 minutes (I say that because that's been normal for me most of my life since being circumcised at age 24). She indicated her satisfaction and, having been on top, lay down about half on me and half beside me, snuggling close in my arms, with my penis still in her vagina and still firm. We stayed that way long enough for me to doze off and then awaken. I'd happened to notice the time when we started our session, and after waking, I noticed that the time was over an hour later and that—to my surprise—I was still firm inside her.

I remember saying to her, "Wow, I've stayed hard in you for over an hour!" She said something like, "It's been great! I've been squeezing you to keep you hard. Let's do it again." She sat up on top of me, and we started in once more. After cumming this time, I withdrew from her, and we lay side by side till we began once again a half hour or so later. After the third time, I had to leave to get back to my wife. My mistress and I met again 3 days later, and just about the first thing she said to me was, "You're going to have to be very gentle with me today, because I've been quite sore ever since Sunday." Needless to say, I was gentle, and we had another lovely session of multiple couplings.

I'm getting horny now, just thinking about her once again.
 

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Here's a blog I found yesterday with a video claiming the woman was rippling her muscles:

A Woman on Fire - Care and Feeding of a Happy Horny Wife: best female orgasm ever

Frankly, I don't see the rippling (I suppose no video can ever verify that). Although she is definitely squeezing.

Hmm interesting. I didn't really see anything special about it. I do the same thing. I just squeeze as hard as I can and work the upper part of my boyfriends penis and he can cum very quickly. I like the popping feeling I get from it from contracting my muscles as he almost pulls out. Or if I'm on top its easier for me to control and concentrate on the top of his penis. However I don't agree with the pulling out right before I orgasm. I find it's way better to have him inside of me when I cum. It feels amazing especially if he's moving when this happens.
 

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Here's a blog I found yesterday with a video claiming the woman was rippling her muscles:

A Woman on Fire - Care and Feeding of a Happy Horny Wife: best female orgasm ever

Frankly, I don't see the rippling (I suppose no video can ever verify that). Although she is definitely squeezing.

I see a woman squeezing the muscles in her ass as she rides him. I hardly move my gluteus muscles at all. I don't understand how a video from between their legs is supposed to capture what's happening inside her with her vaginal muscles.

Having said that, my stomach moves as I flex and I make the milking motion, not like when I ripple my stomach muscles up and down, bellydancer style, which I can also do, but you can see my stomach moving around as I flex. I think this is just bad isolating of the muscles because I'm not so sure that my vaginal muscles are moving so much that you can see my stomach moving, but who knows?

I tried doing it while keeping my stomach muscles completely relaxed and a hand on my stomach to make sure that I'm not using those muscles. While my stomach moves less when I'm concentrating like that, I don't think I'm flexing as hard and my belly button still sort of moves inwards and upwards a little at the top of the "milking" motion. I can't stop that and complete the motion. I don't know if it's necessary to do it, or if I just can't isolate that properly.
 

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I love doing this! My husband tells me it feels like I'm trying to rip his dick off, in a good way, hahaha. I have very strong muscles, and no kids. So when I think he is close, I start contracting and releasing. I can make him get off, but not ejaculate, so we keep going. Fun times:D
 

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I was with an ex of mine that squeezed her pussy on my dick....i swear this made my dick get longer, in the five years we fucked, damn near everyday
an amazing experience indeed
 

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I'm not talking further in, I'm talking further in terms of sensors up and down the shaft, and a USB port to a computer to give specific areas a push... hmm. I may need to take some time off and develop such a dildo?

Wow, that's a great idea. I am sure that some gynecologists have machines & sensors that measure the strength of a woman's muscles.

The Kegelmaster 2000 uses progressive resistance to obtain lifting strength of almost 8 pounds. It uses several spring settings for each level. Here is a chart with each spring setting and the weight correlation: New Study


And the $64,000 question is how do I instill such a curiosity without being manipulative/creepy? I can't.
Maybe by appealing to her competitive nature (if she has one) by mentioning the Russian woman Tatiata who can lift 30 pounds with her vagina. World

I wonder what it would feel like for a man if a woman held herself closed and he tried to get in? Would that feel good for both of them? Or is it better to let him in and THEN close it?
 

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Hey Petite,
I guess I'm late to this post.
I've been able to do this maybe in the last three years. One guy I was with said it felt like there was an alien in my vagina squeezing and pulling and pushing him. That actually made me cry because I thought it was negative. But, being able to milk and squeeze and control those muscles are essential to having squirting orgasms. Which I have now. And the guys have definitely commented on it in a good way.
 

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Wow, that's a great idea. I am sure that some gynecologists have machines & sensors that measure the strength of a woman's muscles.

I've searched and searched, I still have yet to see anything that isolates the entrance from the middle, from the deep vaginal muscle squeezes.

As a matter of fact, since that post you've quoted, I have been absolutely obsessed with making just that dildo. I've gone through about 7 prototypes and with my wife's help, we've streamlined this thing pretty well. It's a far cry from where I envisioned it, but it's getting closer.

The Kegelmaster 2000 uses progressive resistance to obtain lifting strength of almost 8 pounds. It uses several spring settings for each level. Here is a chart with each spring setting and the weight correlation: New Study

Again, my issue with the KM2000 is that it's simple squeeze, release, squeeze, release. There's no way to really tell if your pussy can really work that shaft up and down and back up.

Maybe by appealing to her competitive nature (if she has one) by mentioning the Russian woman Tatiata who can lift 30 pounds with her vagina. World

My wife's pretty burnt out being my tester for this gizmo we'reworking on, so I'll hold off appealing to her competetive spirit. Although, you though, how much can you lift? ON the KM2000, how hard can you squeeze?

I wonder what it would feel like for a man if a woman held herself closed and he tried to get in? Would that feel good for both of them? Or is it better to let him in and THEN close it?

That one, we've tried and loved it. My cock's got a baseball bat shape to it and the widest part is about 2/3's of the way up the shaft, closer to the head. When my wife cums, her tightest contractions are close to the entrance. This is where I slide my widest part back and forth in and out while she's trying to clamp down as hard as she can, I'm giving her the widest stretch I possibly can.

Pretty sweet stuff.