Do you moan during sex, and if so, why? Is it controlled or uncontrollable? I don't make noises because I don't see a reason to, doesn't mean I like sex any less I don't think, but I don't understand why people, women specifically, make so much noise. Halp?
- Lost Young One
If women wouldn't make any noice than men would be even more clueless.
I think it's totally hot to hear a woman or a man moaning naturally during sex. But if it's forced or fake, I don't get that & it's not a turn on, in fact that's distracting. But the natural noises (or increases in breath) women or men make are a major turn on for me.
the louder the better...helps with the entire release of sexual tention...in the right setting
I guess I moan a little, but it's something I can stop if I want to. It's just funner to make a few noises to let your partner know you're enjoying yourself. I bet most people that moan or make nosies can control it if they want to, but most of them just like to make some sounds.
OH! OH! YES! YES! You're the best. Did that seem fake to you?
Not making any noises seems kind of creepy. Like sex with a zombie or an android. You don't have to moan, but say something, be engaged. Sex is intimate, and being silent gives the impression of being distant.
My husband doesn't moan when he is fucking me but he says lots of nasty things that really turn me on and it adds a lot to the pleasure. He DOES moan when I suck him, though.