Mutual Masterbation

[KT9]

wow - it surprises us that there aren't more positive replies here..

of ALL the new things we've done in the last few years, mutual masturbation is definitely one of the hottest!!!

maybe it is an age thing - because this is more of a long slow enjoy each other approach, as opposed to banging away (nothing wrong with a good hard bang though!&#33.

we started entirely by accident - a few years ago, i was in bed, waiting for my wife, and started stroking myself, usinng some almond massage oil..

i had closed my eyes and was really enjoying myself, so i didn't hear or see her come out of the bathroom. she watched me for a couple of minutes before she made her presence known...

after nearly 30 years together, this was the first time she had ever seen me stroke - and she really enjoyed it - so much so that she requested that I finish myself off. wellll, lol - that wasn't a tough request to fulfill, with her watching me - REAL turn on...

after a few repeat performances over the next few weeks, I asked her to reciprocate - and damn, that was just as hot for us.

from that, we moved into mutual masturbation - both watching the other and doing the other - all variations are great for us.

if you haven't tried it - we'd urge you to get with it!!

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[PussyWellington]

Bump.

Lot's of interesting stuff going on.....

 

[D_Elijah_MorganWood]

This thread is too straight. I love mutual JO. First of all, no worries about diseases. I love it when my partner is laying down and I stand over and shoot my load all over him. Vice versa is amazing too.

 

[Garth33]

I've tried to get my girlfriend to masturbate while i watch but she won't do it...although she's walked in on me in the shower and asked "what are you doing?" ...and wouldn't leave! (and neither would my hard-on I've done it in front of her - why won't she do it in front of me?

 

[D_Elijah_MorganWood]

I'm sorry, I just noticed this is in "Women's Issues" and here I am posting about gay sex. My bad.

 

[D_Hermippos_Meattassel]

mutual masturbation is such a delight, because it can be foreplay, substitute or a bonus to intercourse...it certainly does bring you closer together, knowing that your partner wants to watch you, wants to be watched by you, or both!

I think it shows that you can take things slow...not just to get your hits and run, so to speak...a nice sunday afternoon pursuit....its like an unspoken understanding that it's ok to watch...but it still feels naughty.....

my last partner would often reach down and hold me while inside her..i mean really grab me...from the top and squeeze, working on the bottom few inches only , meanwhile with the other hand she would masturbate herself too.....it was a total high for her....that always gives me the most pleasure. It is a good way to start things off......she would get going, and we found she could have several more orgasms from intercourse if we moved onto that....but it also really gets the blood flowing to your bits early on...and each orgasm seemed to grow better....we would often get upto 5 or more during an afternoon.

these moments were always almost surreal in someway...so much so, that looking back always gets things going again...its like creating a fantasy you can look back on..it was so hot.

but i think as a guy, I see it, that we guys like to see what's going on...so watching each other is so very intimate....but i noticed that my partner would often ask me to just watch her masturbate..and when doing so would close her eyes several moments before orgasm. So I think knowing you are being watched is also a great form of mutual masturbation and a great turn on, but for me...I love to watch her....sharing that moment of self induced orgasm with someone else has to be one of the best things in anyone's book. I see it as healthy brain excercise for actual intercourse if you like!

socute121

 

[naughty]

Hmmmm,

This isnt something I talk about that often, but it is fascinating. The brain is the largest sex organ we possess, so it would stand to reason that the element of imagination plus aural. oral or manual stimulation would be a great turn on.
I didnt realize until I was in my early 30's that I could be so aroused just by the sound of someone's voice. him telling me what he was doing or better yet what he wanted to do to me was amazing. Later, it only made it easier to know exactly how to pleasure him when I did actually have my hands on the merchandise, so to speak.
By the way, Socute121, I really liked the way you put that.I think you gave such an insightful and sensitive view of the way mutual stimulation affects you as a man .

naughty

 

[D_Hermippos_Meattassel]

My pleasure naughty,
only too happy if I can help .....mmm.so would telling me would you are doing over the phone help me to know what to do when I get my hands on the goods...as it were?...

just a thought......mmmmmmm

socute121

 

[SurferGirlCA]

I think some guys don't realize that the idea of your partner using your vibrator or sex toy on you is a huge turn-on for lots of girls. That's why I posted in the "sex toys" thread that guys shouldn't think of vibrators/rabbits as either/or situations ("she either plays with her toy or she plays with me"). Get in there, fellas!

In terms of reciprocation, I've stroked an ex-bf, sure, but I love the idea of sitting on a guy's lap and stroking him all the way to orgasm, while we kiss and he works his hands over my body. I think this idea is really hot, but I haven't experienced it. Hmmm, thinking about it, maybe I have a subconscious fantasy to be a lap dancer.

 

[naughty]

So cute,

Since the brain is the largest sex organ I am sure that anything I might tell you would only be step down from what you imagine yourself! LOL! Just remember my moniker that might give you a starting place..... or perhaps a rise to your .....LOL!

NAughty

 

[ErikHanson1973]

My girlfriend and I love watchin geach other masterbate ... I have some of the best orgasms while we were doing this

 

[bigdalten]

In my high school and college days, I enjoyed mutual masturbation with several other guys who were close friends, some with larger and some with smaller dicks. During those same years, I also mutually masturbated with several ladies as well as having fucked them.

Over the years I have masturbated with several women and it has always been enjoyable, providing a good variety of sex. I like to mutually masturbate with a woman before fucking while watching porno movies.

 

[bakardi420]

Wow, old thread! One with Brucester, Knight and jonb in it! Coincidentally enough, they all left on pretty much the same day! Maybe DMW had a lot more personalities than first thought lol But anyways...

I did this for the first time with my current girlfriend earlier on in the relationship. I was surprised I was so turned on doing it for her, and even more turned on watching her do it. Most sexual stuff is together, touching, etc, so to see a person in exxxtasy while you are also but to not be touching is soooo hot! Talking dirty while doing it can also be quite stimulating!

 

[subi_sue]

Hey

I only came into this thread late, but it is soooo hot. I have always loved mutual masturbation, but I have so many more ideas for the next time! Have done the phone and cyber thing with partners, and have played the game of me touching him in a certain place and he touches me in the same place. But I always thought of mirroring as me touching myself a certain way and him mirroring me until we watch each other cum, but without touching each other. It ALWAYS leads to lots more.

Sue

 

[bobbaxkan]

Yeah this rocks

 

[Honey_Grrrl83]

Mutual masturbation is great fun:tongue: I've noticed that men are really fascinated by female masturbation,my fiance has just sit back and watched go to town on myself using either my fingers or my vibrator