My GF wants me to cum in her mouth, but I can't!

[galaxus]

OK, usually I take control in bed because she likes it hard and fast and I'm the one who can do it like that.

She likes it when I take control. I like whatever she likes. What turns me on is making her wet, squirt and holla. She cums, I cum.

But she feels like she is a lazy lover. But she's not. its just better when I take her for a ride. But because of this she wants to suck my dick all night!

I like getting head, but I'll know that I'll never cum from just head. She wants to go down on me for like 5 min....

I say: " Oooo I'm ready to fuck the shit outta you".

Her: "No wait, let me suck some more."

Me: ?..........but..... ok....

5 more min....

Me: "OK LETS DO THIS!

Her: "Just a lil bit more....

ME: .... Why? do you just not want to have sex?

Her: No,I just like sucking your dick. I want you to cum in my mouth.

so we try and try.... and nothin...

She wants me to cum in her mouth but I can't. I can't cum from head..... HELP!!

 

[Bluebiss01]

Same mate, same.

 

[Gnothiseauton]

It's rare that I can... and I feel so guilty when I can't! Bad feeling...

 

[StraightDave]

I have a suggestion.

Flint, MI isn't TOO far of a drive from where I live. How bout I come up there, we have ourselves a nice fun little weekend, just the three of us. You can fuck your girl's sweet poon, while she sucks my big straight cock. I'll blow my load in her mouth, and you can just enjoy what you do downstairs. Let me know if you're interested bro.

 

[B_Nick4444]

what is the fudging problem?!?!?

I have the opposite problem, unless I work hard at preventing it, I'll usually cum in someone's mouth in about a minute or two

 

[Bolt Upright]

Maybe you need the right fantasy going on in your head (mind) or maybe you need to give her a real skull fuck.....don't just lay there and take it....maybe she wants you to use her mouth...and squirt down her gullet........

 

[galaxus]

I like when my dick is in the back of her throat, but sometimes she gags and i don't want to hurt her or make her feel uncomfortable...

I kinda skull fuck her..... but not that hard.... not like you see in porn....

 

[galaxus]

I have a suggestion.

Flint, MI isn't TOO far of a drive from where I live. How bout I come up there, we have ourselves a nice fun little weekend, just the three of us. You can fuck your girl's sweet poon, while she sucks my big straight cock. I'll blow my load in her mouth, and you can just enjoy what you do downstairs. Let me know if you're interested bro.

Alabama seems pretty far.

Thanks but no thanks man. My bed has a one dick maximum :biggrin1:.

 

[grumpyguy]

You're not alone, man. I've always found it difficult to cum in the mouth. I'm surprised the number of women that like that. I've been at this a lot of years and I never found a good solution. Best was to fuck until you're past the point of no return, that scramble to get it up to her mouth before the first shot. It's not easy, doesn't work all the time, and can have slapstick comedy effects.

 

[D_Parkinsonne Partycocke]

I never cum from a bj either... My wife will suck on me for like a half hour, and I get close, but it doesn't happen... I just take a while to cum regardless of what we are doing, which is not a bad thing! One night we tried for over an hour, and nothin... So you are not alone!

Will she let you jack into her mouth? I've done that a few times. She's not crazy about it... Let her blow you for a bit, then start jacking and when you cum, aim it in her mouth.

I'm also like you in that a few minutes of a blow, and I am ready to fuck... See if she will compromise with you- that is key in a sexual relationship... LOL!

 

[dirk2d]

I used to think I couldn't cum from head when I was younger too, until I met a girl who did it for me. I mean I love head but it is hard, not impossible, to cum from it. If you can orgasm from masturbation you can orgasm from a blow job. You just need to try new things and be very open and vocal with your partner about what works and what doesn't, likes and dislikes.

Keep at it man because the reward is well worth it. I find cumming from head feels amazing, better than sex most times.

 

[eastbaydude]

First, I love oral and have no problem getting off that way.

Your GF may be thinking it's her problem, that she's not doing something right if she can't get you off.

A couple of things you can try...

As she's sucking you take a couple of breaks and stroke your cock in her face. Get yourself real close andthen drop back into her mouth to cum.

Try going from from oral to fucking back to oral. As it says on the shampoo bottle, "Lather rinse, repeat" until you'r ready to drop your load in her mouth.

And lastly, don't worry about her gagging. Relax and enjoy it! If it bothers her, she can back off. My guess is that she's liking it. Let her enjoy and you will too.

 

[StraightDave]

Alabama seems pretty far.

Thanks but no thanks man. My bed has a one dick maximum :biggrin1:.

I'm not in bama right now, staying with folks in Indiana at the moment.

And who says we have to use the bed?

 

[jdoe86]

I think I have only cum from a blow job maybe twice in my whole life. I'm not sure why, but a mouth just doesn't do it for me. Don't get me wrong, I love to cum in someone's mouth if that's what they want, but I have to stroke it for awhile to get right at the edge and then have them suck on the head while I finish.

 

[D_Parkinsonne Partycocke]

I never cum from a bj either... My wife will suck on me for like a half hour, and I get close, but it doesn't happen... I just take a while to cum regardless of what we are doing, which is not a bad thing! One night we tried for over an hour, and nothin... So you are not alone!

Will she let you jack into her mouth? I've done that a few times. She's not crazy about it... Let her blow you for a bit, then start jacking and when you cum, aim it in her mouth.

I'm also like you in that a few minutes of a blow, and I am ready to fuck... See if she will compromise with you- that is key in a sexual relationship... LOL!

In actuality, for me I think it is a duration thing... I've never had a willing partner that wanted to blow me long enough to finish...

 

[hard2swallow]

First off, you're LUCKY, man! I have the same problem, but rarely get the chance to even try to cum in my wife's throat. I once had a girlfriend who would suck as long as it took--over an hour sometimes--to get the job done. My wife, on the other hand, dated a bunch of two-minute shooters and goes on about how she used to "like" giving head, and when she does it now (technically, just once in the last 8 years or so), she tells me I'd better not take too long ("long" being 5 minutes or more). Great mood setter, right?! Last week she said I'm "lucky" because most of her friends don't even do oral.

(And if you don't like a dick in your mouth and/or the taste of cum, you can't "like" giving head. I'm bi and have gladly given 50+ blowjobs. I would go as long as they wanted, 99% of the time to the delicious end.)

My advice: Don't just sit or lay there. Move around. Enjoy it. Try different positions. Work up to it mentally. Get in the mood before you start. Oral doesn't have to be foreplay to fucking. Get a timer and play a game where you just kiss for 15 minutes or whatever. Once, when I was really in the mood, I came like a horse less than five minutes into what my wife thought was a bit of oral foreplay. Shocked the hell out her! This is 50% mental on your part. Just relax and enjoy that there is a willing woman with an open mouth waiting for you.:147:

You're not doomed to never cum from oral. (Unless you're 95 years old. Then you're screwed.)

fyi: pix of my one:damnit1: blowjob in the last eight years posted in my gallery.

 

[Wish-4-8]

Add me to the list of non-cummers from head. And BJs are like my favorite thing. I have come close, but then my mind kills it because I get excited that it is actually going to happen.

Maybe my penis is like the Sword in the Stone. The woman who could make it cum is the one I will marry. Get in line ladies! (in my dreams!)

I have cum in women's mouths before, with a little help from me. Once I pass the point of no return I let them take over. Also, If they suck my balls while I stroke, I will cum in less then a minute. I wonder if two girls is the solution? Hmmm...

 

[tachyon2008]

Not sure if this helps, but I can't cum in my girlfriend's mouth either sometimes when she's just giving me head. But what always gets me is if she lets me gag her or if she deepthroats. I don't know if you like that or not, but it always gets me off. Especially good to do in the morning, when there's nothing to puke up.

 

[deleted356736]

I've rarely come from a blow job, just twice with blow job experts. At first I thought it was in my head, but what it really took was technique, especially given my length and girth. It was suction, if this helps.

Both times my orgasms were superficial, so I prefer good old-fashioned natural (condom-free) vaginal intercourse.

 

[fivesalive]

I can have the same problem. Sometimes my girl wants to suck me off, and she'll go and go, with no more than a cramped hand and puffy lips for her and a rubbed raw dick for me. It does make me feel bad because I can get her off at will, and word is guys are supposed to be easier but I don't. It sucks because I have great orgasms from head when it happens.

Usually if I feel like I won't be able to cum from oral, I try to turn it into full on sex, which is the majority. If it feels right and she can make me cum orally, I let her even at the expense of sex sometimes to give her the 'win' and keep her trying.