My girlfriend is a transsexual

Discussion in 'Relationships, Discrimination, and Jealousy' started by savageburnup, Nov 18, 2008.

  1. savageburnup

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    I have had many 'real' girlfriends, but recently i met a beautiful transsexual girl and we hit it off. At first when i met her, i had no idea she was a transsexual. I just thought this is a very cute girl. We have been together for about 7months now, and i love her like crazy. I would not trade her for anyone else. Personally im not attracted to guys, I love the ladies, but there is something about transsexuals that really attracts me, I don't consider myself gay at all. Not many people have the opportunity to meet just an ordinary girl next door type transsexual, one that is totally passable as a girl. Many guys treat transsexuals like dirt, like sluts assuming that that they are all nothing more than prostitutes. Well i have to admit i have a real beautiful woman, a classy lady, she looks better than any of my exes and she has such a sweet personality. I read on another post some guy thinks they are disturbing and a lot of people are generalizing and discriminating against transsexuals, and that kinda upset me. So that's why Im telling my story. U can find love in odd places, even when you are not even looking for it, that's just life. Our love is no lesser than any other straight couple or even gay couple for that matter.
    Im glad i did find the girl of my dreams, and im proud of what she is: a confident, beautiful, smart, elegant woman. I know im the envy of many guys.

    For my very special, sweetnicole
     
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    congrats on finding someone that you care about and that cares about you
     
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    It's great you found love :)

    Lots of luck to you and Nicole
     
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    If you can find someone to love the way it sounds like you did in your post I say CONGRATS!!!!! Hope the two of you have a long and loving relationship.
     
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    Thanks babe. I love you so much. :kiss::heart:
     
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    Pre-op?
     
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    Buddy, you bring such class to LPSG... Third Class :biggrin1:

    Congrats on your happiness, regardless of the anatomical details. :wink:
     
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    Thanks for noticing the class. I think my question had to do more with the status of his girlfriend and his 'not being gay' and my evil curiosity. I'm happy for him and the fact he has found someone. I'm sure with the vast population of this board the question would have been asked sooner or later. If I've offended you or the OP... I'm sorry, please accept my apology.
     
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    I thought that was a beautiful expression of love. Good for you. Fuck what anyone else thinks!
     
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    :veryhappy:
     
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    My partner and I have gotten to know many men and women at various stages of transition. Trans women are no more less women than someone with XX chromosomes. Gender and sex are two different things.

    Congratulations on finding love. Life would be bland if it didn't come in so many different colors and flavors!
     
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    :smile:OMG! That is so sweet and your right she is very beautiful. All the best to you both.
     
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    LOL ... I read your answer question a few times and couldn't decide if it was a teasing zinger or a real question. Either way, my own little devil sat on my shoulder and he said "type this..." I wasn't being serious either.
     
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    great story, good for you, you are so right, love is so unexpected and can happen any time, gender is not so important, love is.
     
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    Love is about the two people wanting each other for who they are and not necessarily about what happens between the sheets and it is a fragile flower that needs nurturing which you both seem to be doing :)
     
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    Thank u guys for the support and nice words!
    Me and Nicole both apreciate it :smile:
     
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    You two are beautiful! Congrats on finding one another.
     
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    I always felt bad that transsexuals get treated like sexual objects. I know the idea of a transsexual women would turn me on but, I wouldn't seek to meet one just to use them for sex. Congrats on finding love no matter if she is different we all are unique and different. And anyone who looks down on your love can fuck off.
     
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    Those are really nice words guys. Thanks.
     
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    She is very beautiful. You are lucky to have found her. If only everyone here could be as lucky.