My girlfriend thinks her ex is bigger

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  1. marshall84

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    I have a 7.5 to 8 inch penis on a good day (monstercockland.com - same name). I asked my gf if I was the biggest she's had and she said that her ex boyfriend was bigger. She could never really give me a good answer because she said that it was very close but today she decided that his was bigger. She said that he was a little bit longer but a little bit thinner than mine. I can't see why mine being more girthy wouldn't put me at the number one spot. Do girls think longer means bigger? Is it a visual thing? Is she lying? Its confusing and is also bothering me because I don't like thinking that she has been with a bigger guy.
     
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    there will allways be a guy bigger than you. get on with life!Anyway she is with you now?
     
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    yeah she's with me.
     
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    so it means she prefers you.
     
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    We measure in length, rarely girth. A penis is "thick" or "normal" or "thin". But length...it's 6, 7, 8, 9 inches. Numbers.

    That said, don't worry. You're the one having sex with her now...as long as she's enjoying sex with you, why worry? He could be big, but that doesn't mean he can necessarily perform as well as you can!
     
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    i understand, but is a 8.25x5.5 bigger than 8x5.75?
     
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    to her obviously it is
     
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    good grief!

    i'm amazed the poor girl hasn't dumped you. i certainly would.
    obsessing over her ex's cock isn't attractive in the slightest.
     
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    it is for a lot of girls... trust me :)
     
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    I've said something similar to this on past threads so I'll keep it brief: Doesn't sound like she is saying it to purposely be lying to you, but since you asked in the first place she might just say he is bigger as a 'keep her man's ego in check' kinda thing.

    Personally, I think that if a girl really likes you and you know you have a decently big penis... even if she had an ex that was bigger she will still say you are the biggest. Why? Because it's easy to do and positive, rather than kind of down you by saying that you are big but her ex was bigger.

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    Also, slightly longer and thinner would not qualify as bigger imo. Maybe if he was longer and thicker, but as it stands he has you on length supposedly and you have him on girth so it evens out since you guys are close in size anyway.
     
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    who the fuck cares
     
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    Marshy, baby...you do obsess, but many men do, hence LPSG.org.

    As to your question, it is a matter of math. In overall volume, a cylinder that is 8" x 5.75" IS larger than one that is 8.25" x 5.5". 21.04 cubic inches for the former, 19.86 cubic inches for the latter. A quarter inch of girth is worth considerably more than a quarter inch of length when it comes to total volume. And, within reason, when considering dicks, most woman would prefer more girth than length.

    Proportionality is important. A 10" dick that is only 5" in girth may both long and big in volume, but it's lack of girth relative to length would make it somewhat of a pencil dick. Likewise, a very girthy dick that lacks proportional length is usually not attractive.

    Finally, one may review my gallery to see the *perfect* penis if they so choose.

    ;-)~
     
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    Really you dont want to start thinking about ex girlfriends and crap like that..

    Whos got the bigger dick??

    Whos the bigger bad boy...??

    The chic I am seeing at the moment usto go out with a guy who was in jail for a big, full hard ass would fucked the shit out of her soo hard haha does it worry me..But really i dont think about that crap...

    Just think about present time been now and what I can do now to please her...
     
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    So what if she had bigger, does that really matter. Just fuck her and prove your the perfect lover and great in sex.
     
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    My wife has admitted that her ex-husband had a bigger cock than I do. It just make me work more on my technique. We can never eliminate completely what has happened to us before we met. I have to deal with the fact that he probably fucked her at least a thousand times, and she must remember some really great fucks with him.

    And guess what? I'm glad he fucked her good, and that she probably has some good memories of fucking with him. At least, I hope so.
     
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    Get over yourself.
     
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    why do u care? isnt she with you now?
     
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    thanks for the replies, sometimes its nice to hear it from your peers. I think I'm over it already, honestly. it is really stupid.
     
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    If you dont like it tell her you dont have a go at her for even considering a ex could be bigger than yours and question her about what gives about her suddenly deciding that she thinks for some reason her ex was slightly larger. Ask her is she trying to be funny with you for spouting this bs and im sure that will shock her into reconsidering. It sounds to me like she is doing it on purpose to try and gain a pyscological advantage in the relationship over you.
     
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    Never ask a women if she's had bigger :banghead2:
    Chances are she has, so just ask if she likes what u got. If shes happy just let her complement you on YOUR size :smile:

    O and some women will lie and just say they have had bigger so your head won't get too big. Some women can't stand "cocky" guys.
     
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