My girlfriend thinks her ex is bigger

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Unless your girlfriend measured her ex's dick and has those dimension committed to memory or down on paper, there is no way for her to be accurate.

I mean Jesus, can you tell exactly how longer and thick a penis is just look at it for a while?

She probably didn't pay any attention to know and just said that to get you to shut up.
 
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I had a similar situation when I became online friends again with my ex. She'd dated and married her husband a few months after we broke up. Got drunk one night after she told me she'd been drinking too and she told me outright he was longer and thicker. She'd told me before I was a good size and stuck with it but she said yes, her husband was bigger. When she describe it to me (after prodding) I was humbled, LOL (near 9" and too thick for his fingers to touch when he holds it). I'm 6"1/2-7" and my fingers just touch when I hold it.
 

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Look dude, I know my ex gf had had bigger than me (she willingly told me that there was one guy who was like 9"), however she told me that I was hands down the best she's ever had then. So while a larger size is great, it may not always seem to be the engine of sexual destruction thatmany people assume.
 
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Look dude, I know my ex gf had had bigger than me (she willingly told me that there was one guy who was like 9"), however she told me that I was hands down the best she's ever had then. So while a larger size is great, it may not always seem to be the engine of sexual destruction thatmany people assume.
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Don't take your girlfriend's word for it, especially if she is young. A girlfriend generally doesn't want a guy to know what he has, they'll try to minimize your ego so you never have to confidence to venture out (subconsciously, I assume).


Always go off the word of the girl who is emotionally unattached to you, she'll give a more accurate assessment.

Chances are if you are on this site, you are probably the "guy" the female will compare the rest of her lovers to.

If a chick says her ex had a nine incher, she is either humbling you or measuring in guesstimate porn inches. Legit 9s are well below .5 of the population.
 

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I know this is an OLDE thread but, he probably wasn't bigger; the OP asking IF he was (his arrogant insecurities) begged her to humble him. NEVER, NEVER, NEVER ask a girl if you're the biggest. First it shows lack of character on your part. And secondly she'll never tell you the truth - that you are, when you're not so as to not hurt your feelings, or NOT like in this case just to screw with you head, and/or humble you, depending on her demeanor/personality. Just watch her reactions to it, her little comments she makes, and if you don't EVER indicate it matters to you, you'll be able to hear the truth without her actually saying it. Just asking that question will almost never result in the truth being told, or at least you can't be sure that it is the truth.
 
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As long as you get up and leave her laying in a quivering, sweaty, speechless heap I would say you have nothing to worry about.


Most guys by the age of 25 figure a few things out. In fact I have a list that I have shared on lpsg several times. One of the items on this list is,"your girl fucked someone with a bigger dick than you and she liked it." It is just a fact brother. You and I are the same size pretty much. I have never lacked the tools needed for getting the job done. Another thing that I tell younger guys is that, "like it or not she enjoyed sex before you came along." If she did not like sex she would have quit long ago, also that little thing she does with her tongue.....she has been doing that for a while; shoulda seen how happy she was the first time it worked! Guess what though? You have fucked other girls and I bet at least one of them had an amazing pussy. You know what I mean, cannot type enough to describe it in this space; but some pussy is amazing, my wife has one.


You are worried about something here, but I am not so sure you are worried about being inadequate. I think you may come to realize what bothers you is that you like thinking of her fucking someone else. You just wish it did not turn you on. I may be wrong, but if I am not relax. You are in a good company. Lots of guys feel that way and try to fight it.
 
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I have a 7.5 to 8 inch penis on a good day (monstercockland.com - same name). I asked my gf if I was the biggest she's had and she said that her ex boyfriend was bigger. She could never really give me a good answer because she said that it was very close but today she decided that his was bigger. She said that he was a little bit longer but a little bit thinner than mine. I can't see why mine being more girthy wouldn't put me at the number one spot. Do girls think longer means bigger? Is it a visual thing? Is she lying? Its confusing and is also bothering me because I don't like thinking that she has been with a bigger guy.
Only one thing for it, therapy.
 

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i understand, but is a 8.25x5.5 bigger than 8x5.75?

First, stop worrying about it. I sort of figured out ages ago when I started having to take communal showers in school that no matter how big I was, there'd always be some guy whose schlong was longer or fatter than mine, or possibly both. Quite possibly your assumption that he was only a quarter of an inch longer than you is way off; perhaps the ex had an extraordinarily long cock, maybe near 10". But why waste your efforts worrying about it? Didn't at least one of your exes have bigger breasts, a smaller waist, or longer legs than your current girlfriend? You're not aching to leave this one for a previous gf because of those attributes, are you?