Oh, you're so tight!

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  1. ConstantComment

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    When said in the heat of the moment, does the guy mean what he's saying. Or is this akin to saying "I love you" at the same point in the cycle.
     
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    I can't see where it could be taken as an insult in the heat of the moment.
     
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    When I say it I mean it, and its a good thing. :)
     
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    It could just be insincere sex talk, because he thinks that's what he's supposed to say or because he wants you to feel good about yourself. There's a thread on the forums where some people say they tell every man that he has a large cock. It could be that sort of thing, just an ego boost. It could be totally sincere!

    Honestly, the only times men have specifically mentioned it was as a sort of apology for not lasting longer during intercourse before orgasm, and that's after sex. :redface:

    Although one ex-boyfriend supposedly said something extremely crude and truly offensive about what it's like to have sex with me to my new boyfriend, about the pompoir thing I do, and that was sort of about tightness. They hated each other, so I could never figure out if the new boyfriend made it up to make the ex look bad, or if the ex had actually said it in order to rattle the new bf, because either scenario seemed equally likely. They really hated each other.
     
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    I'm not sure. I would assume they mean it. Especially if they say thats one of the reasons why they reach orgasm so fast? I think of it as a good thing. I would rather be told that than the opposite.
     
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    it's about as reliable as when i say, ''you're so big!''

    ie. not very. ha!
     
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    LOL! maybe in the ideal world every cunts are tight and every penis large...
     
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    coming from a guy, i think the concept of being tight has to do with a few factors:
    1. how excited/wet the girl is
    2. how wide her hips are
    3. last time she had sex

    Obviously the vagina stretches, but it does feel different alot of the time. My penis isnt super long, but thick, and she felt very very tight until she came, then lubed up alittle bit. Being super tight, sometimes it was hard for me to last. The new girl im with is alittle wider at the hips and gets extremely wet before sex. It doesnt feel as tight, but the sex is alot better.. and times she isnt excited, and without all the natural lube, it feels alittle tighter.. i dont think it has alot to do with the male, more so the womens body and sexual excitement.
     
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    So you're saying women with wide hips have a big/loose vagina?
    Is that like saying guys with big hands have a big dick?!

     
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    ^^^not very clever.
     
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    Exact translation, yes. :rolleyes: Saying she had wider hips has no bearing at all on the situation.

    Back to the OP, I'm in complete agreement with Dolfette. It's like it's straight from a script.
     
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    I think it totally depends on the guy. If he "throws away" lots of compliments then he's probably just making you feel good. If he usually says nothing then he could mean it.

    I must say, when a girl says "you're so big" I am never sure if she means it.. but it's good to hear regardless!
     
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    Usually it means "wow, you have a really great pussy, I could get used to this."

    But "you're so tight" is a bit more macho and I think its what a woman wants to hear? :confused:
     
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    nope, not this woman.
    it's a cheesy porno line.
     
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    I have told women that they felt so great, but never said your so tight.

    I once also said in the style of Paul McCartney's Maybe I'm Amazed (great song)
    Baby i'm amazed the way i feel inside you
     
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    Me neither. Plus I'd know you were lying. I might not be 'loose' but I couldn't see anyone calling me tight either.
     
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    I know I've heard those words before:rolleyes: Normally though it's more like "ohhh I love the way you feels" or " I love the way it feels inside you" or "your gonna make me come" etc etc
     
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    Like you I'm not loose, but the first time I had sex with my husband I did feel like a virgin again. Poor thing kept apologizing that I was too tight and he might hurt me! Can you be sexy and pitiful at the same time?
     
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    I'd much rather the man compliment me on how my body feels next to his, rather than how my vag may or may not feel.
     
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    I like comments on my behaviour the most. eg. I love how you [insert behaviour here]. It feels so good.