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Does this happen to anyone else often? Its been happening to me for the past couple of days, i cum like the first jack-off of the day, then for the rest of the day i might cum then i might not. Like I've jacked twice today and orgasmed both times without cumming.
 

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When you cum without orgasming, how do women react to that?
Some of them think your faking the orgasm. Google it HairTX. It's not many guys who can do it. I had to practice it, but it sounds like you're a natural! Having a few orgasms before cumming feels great and the final one when you do cum is a mutha.
 

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Congrats, HairyTXDude.... you are on the road to male multiple orgasm ! We're all capable of it, but it does take some practice for most of us to learn to seperate an orgasm from ejaculation. There is a HUGE difference between them, but our minds are programmed that one equates to the other, which is not true. Google Tantric male orgasms, male multiple orgasms, edging, and see what you find. And keep practicing at it ! You'll be cumming like a pornstar, and your partners will thank you....
 

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Congrats, HairyTXDude.... you are on the road to male multiple orgasm ! We're all capable of it, but it does take some practice for most of us to learn to seperate an orgasm from ejaculation. There is a HUGE difference between them, but our minds are programmed that one equates to the other, which is not true. Google Tantric male orgasms, male multiple orgasms, edging, and see what you find. And keep practicing at it ! You'll be cumming like a pornstar, and your partners will thank you....

Wow and here is thought that my problem was kinda a bad thing, now all i got to do is find a way to maintain the erection after i have a orgasm :biggrin1:
 

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Wow and here is thought that my problem was kinda a bad thing, now all i got to do is find a way to maintain the erection after i have a orgasm :biggrin1:

Nooooooo... it's definitely not a bad thing ! Given the right amount of time, I can have 6 to 8 orgasms, THEN squirt a nice big load. The idea behind learning to seperate your orgasm and your ejaculation, is that you get the intense feeling of the orgasm, but you don't squirt, and you won't lose your erection. You'll be able to "float" from orgasm to orgasm. Now, I don't know about you, but I'm a HEAVY precummer... and when I do this, it just drools out, and on occasion, I get a little twinge and can squirt precum.... it's only 1 spasm, but it's intense and the precum usually lands somewhere on my chest...lol LOVE this topic, BTW....
 

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Nooooooo... it's definitely not a bad thing ! Given the right amount of time, I can have 6 to 8 orgasms, THEN squirt a nice big load. The idea behind learning to seperate your orgasm and your ejaculation, is that you get the intense feeling of the orgasm, but you don't squirt, and you won't lose your erection. You'll be able to "float" from orgasm to orgasm. Now, I don't know about you, but I'm a HEAVY precummer... and when I do this, it just drools out, and on occasion, I get a little twinge and can squirt precum.... it's only 1 spasm, but it's intense and the precum usually lands somewhere on my chest...lol LOVE this topic, BTW....

Damn, i need to practice more then! :wink: How are you not drained after 8 orgasms one take a hell of a tole on me lol. Any suggestion on how to maintain my erection after a orgasm? if i can do that i think ill be set! Fuck lucky you, I never pre-cum I wish so bad that i could pre-cum!

TY, im glad i started a topic, that someone likes ^_^
 

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Well, my multiple orgasms are intense and pleasureable, but ever so slightly less so than a full blown, mind bending, cum shooting orgasm. I find that they have jsut the opposite effect, rather than exhaust me, they seem to give more energy and leave me wanting more. You shouldn't lose your erection by having these orgasms, because the physiological part of an orgasm isn't happening to trigger erection loss and the refractory period. As far as the precum, some guys do, some don't. HOWEVER... you'll probably find that when you get into the edging and master the technique or multiple orgasms, you may start precumming. I've taught a few people these techniques, and some said they never had precum until I showed them the techniques. Stay well hydrated, that seems to be a big factor. My BF and I were together last night for a lil "knockin boots",and I must have leaked like 3 tablespoons of it before we got to the main event...lol Shoot me an email if you want to talk more or have any questions...