Penis too thick for blowjobs?

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Hey aussie! You're not to big to have a blow job. As the others have said, and I say it again, you're not too big. Not every girl you go with will be able (or want) to deep-throat you, but being deep-throated is only a part of it. I'm your girth and I've been deep-throated a few times, but –*to be honest – an "ordinary" blow job from an experienced and talented woman who knows how to use her tongue and lips and hands is probably more enjoyable anyway.

Deep-throating is a question of mouth size and also gag reflex. You're right, experience does come into it to an extent, as do nerves: a young, sexually inexperienced woman is more likely to balk at a bigger than average cock than a more experienced one. With your new partner (I think you said that this will be happening soon?) take it gently, take it easy, don't expect great things from her straight off, and above all enjoy what's on offer. :smile:
 

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Hey aussie! You're not to big to have a blow job. As the others have said, and I say it again, you're not too big. Not every girl you go with will be able (or want) to deep-throat you, but being deep-throated is only a part of it. I'm your girth and I've been deep-throated a few times, but –*to be honest – an "ordinary" blow job from an experienced and talented woman who knows how to use her tongue and lips and hands is probably more enjoyable anyway.

Deep-throating is a question of mouth size and also gag reflex. You're right, experience does come into it to an extent, as do nerves: a young, sexually inexperienced woman is more likely to balk at a bigger than average cock than a more experienced one. With your new partner (I think you said that this will be happening soon?) take it gently, take it easy, don't expect great things from her straight off, and above all enjoy what's on offer. :smile:

Thanks, good advice, will do.
 

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I suggest you get blowjobs from men instead. Most guys give better blow jobs than girls and they're not afraid to take it all down their throat. :wink:
 

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Not a problem. I am too big for my wife for her to blow me to completion without her jaw getting sore. The solution is to alternate between a full on blow with her blowing like a flute on the underside of my head. Feels almost as good, and with her playing with my balls, my orgasms are just as good.
 
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Even if the first time you get a bj she is bad at it, don't get worried, you will find one that can give you a blow job sooner or later. The first few times I got blown they couldn't get me off, but I have found a few since them that can and quite well.
 

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thanks for the help guys.

Also while i have this thread up i may as well ask, what size condoms are best for a penis over 2" wide? i have looked up condom sizes and the xtra large's and even the XXLs are only 1.5" wide and the biggest i saw was 1.75" wide but ones with those width were like 8.5" long where as i only need 7.5" or so.

Im guessing it wont matter if its not completely rolled out tho, but also just wondering im guessing those 1.5" stretch out but would it be uncomfortable?
 

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Hi. I have similar issue in that gf is petite and small mouth plus had op on jaw few years back and can only get top of my head in ( tho sometimes we like to start when flaccid as she can fit a tad more in). My wife is the only one ive ever been with!

Would it be nice to have a full bj? Yes

Does she compensate with Tongue and hand as someone else suggested? Yes

Is that good? Yes

Would I swap anything just to get a bj? No. You'll easily come to realise like I did there are more important things!

However sure you'll be fine anyhow.....! :-0
 
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Now I know the last post here happened 10 years ago, but I’m pretty sure a lot of people still find this page when they google girth issue just like I did. And I also never thought that necroposting is such a terrible thing if you have something sensible to say. What really amazes me is how you guys claim to give or receive blowjobs with 6.5 and even 8 (!) inches thick dicks with “NO PROBLEM :emoji_ok_hand:“ lol. I’m exactly 6.0 behind the glans and NO ONE out of 50+ women that I’ve been with was able to give me a perfect head like you see in porn. I’ve never been who hookers though so there is still a hope lol. Seriously, me - and you with 9 inches long fellas who go balls deep with “NO PROBLEM :emoji_ok_hand:“ must be living in different dimensions. I can’t find another explanation :) I think some threads here should require 3D dick scan verification in order to get the permission to post. That might help to provide people the fair information they are looking for, avoiding all this fairytale BS :emoji_relieved:
 
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I'm just about 6in in girth and all the women I've been with have been able to get me in their mouths. For some it's been a real tight fit, even a little teeth on accident. Other have been able to do a good job. They have all said that their jaws were sore and could only suck for a small amount at a time and needed a break, unless I came quick of course lol
 
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Well, my head is a little bit bigger than 6.0 but not by much. And I wasn’t talking about getting it in their mouth which all of them did - I was taking about a decent blowjob. They all struggled and it wasn’t pleasurable at all. Majority of them couldn’t hold it in their mouth for more than 1 minute, they all needed a break. And ironically, face fuck is my biggest turn-on but I get to enjoy it only virtually. I’ve only been with white European women though, I have no idea if ethnicity has anything to do with a mouth size but I’ll have to figure it out lol.