Penis vs Vagina: Competitive Sex

Discussion in 'Sex With a Large Penis' started by B_superlarge, Jul 21, 2007.

  1. B_superlarge

    B_superlarge New Member

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    I recall years ago a woman in a nightclub saying, with an air of arrogance in her voice, that she could step outside with any guy in the place and afterwards walk right back in like nothing had happened because, looking around as she said it, she didn't think any guy in the place was man enough for her. She had a few drinks when she said it. Before then she had been quiet, but the drinks had made her mouthy. I use to party a lot and was use to hearing just about anything when alchocol had kicked in, but that one sort of caught me off guard.

    After a little while longer the band started playing, and there was quite a crowd by then built up. Probably over an hour after I had heard her say that I suddenly noticed her and a guy leaving. About 5 minutes later she comes back in and returns to her table. There was a guy(!) and a woman that had been sitting with her there the entire time. They were sitting there when she had said what she did. The guy who had gone outside with her came back in about minute after she did. He sat back down at a table he had to himself. I thought he appeared a bit bothered about something, but I wasn't sure what to make of it. Her earlier remark had me trying to guess what had occurred. I thought they had probably had sex. He sat there for only about a minute, finished his beer, and left. He didn't look her way, he didn't seem to look at anyone, and just made a beeline for the door.

    I looked her way to see if I could any vibes from her (the place had become quite noisy and I couldn't hear their table anymore from the bar where I was sitting). She wasn't upset or bothered by anything like he appeared to be, that much I thought I could tell.

    I've always had the impression that she took some pleasure in putting down guys that couldn't handle her. I can only imagine what happened in the parking lot at that nightclub, but it must have been sex related.

    I've wondered how many see it as a competition: vagina vs penis. I've heard guys brag (whether it was truth or not I didn't know) about "tearing it up", "knocked her bottom out", etc. And yes, even though it is unusual for me to have heard this, I've heard a few women say a guy they had been with "wasn't man enough" for them and they were taking about penis size at the time. Like I said, at parties and nightclubs it was not too unusual to hear something once in a while. Hell, even in other settings I've heard sex talk stuff at times.

    What jarred my memory and got me to thinking about this was a clip I saw at youporn. The guy with the very long dick jumps up and declares himself the winner. Actually I think she did well to take all of him balls deep, even if he did have her yelping. She apparently took it as a challenge that she could handle him well, but he turned out to be too much for that.
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    What, did he cum first?
     
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    I've never viewed sex as a competition. To me, that kind of takes away from the fun and pleasure of it. Sex is best to me when it's truly experienced, and it seems like it won't be if someone or both are trying to win.

    I tend to believe that most women can hold-out longer than men anyway if they want to. Plus some women seem to get stronger the more they cum, whereas men tend to lose stamina the more they cum.
     
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    What exactly does "guys that couldn't handle her" mean? The concept is bizarre.
     
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    I think that the dude's penis was too small
     
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    So what could she have been saying? That if it's a size small enough that she can handle it, then that means that the guy can't handle her?

    That implies that a guy of a size she can't handle is the only one who can handle her. Which is weird.
     
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    Kind of funny. Maybe her va-j-j was so stretched out she really needed an arm. Hardly something for the ho to brag about. That or her penis was bigger than theirs.
     
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    I think that perhaps it's considered from the viewpoint that a big penis has more control/power. If she could have just layed there without responding then she would have shown he has no power over her with his penis. If he had been only above average she would have easily "handled" him. If you managed to catch a glimpse, he is very long. I would like to have seen the conversation that led to the competition. Maybe some women resent men having any control over them and that includes the penis. Or perhaps they resent what they perceive the penis (especially a big penis) as representing to many men: power over women. Or maybe it's a matter of always wanting to have control of situations. If he has her yelping he displays control. If he gets no response from her she displays control.

    What do you think? Do you know of any comparative instances?
     
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    LOL!

    I know, it reminds me of the Southpark episode where the kids walk up and do a stupid dance and say, "Dayum, you bitches got SERVED!"

    most penises are too small for the ego that watches over them.

    O, I'm quite tired of the obsession with power and the battle of the sexes. It's so... 1970's. Power analyses never ends. Better off masturbating.

    Competition is a shallow level to live life in. It's good for physical exercise. It's not any kind of nurture for the soul. The deepest rewards spring from within, and are shared. with others. Thats it. Love. Hello?
     
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    I agree somewhat, but it sounds like you underrate competition. Hello? :)

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    I've always taken it to mean that the girl was so good at sex that she made him cum too soon.
     
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    Any ideas where this came from? Or who they are? Anyone have/seen the full version?
     
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    i hate to admit this but when i was younger vaginas use to scare me. not anymore though:cool:
     
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    I suppose the two competitive style porn clip links I've provided are rare finds (and one was make believe but still entertaining). If you happen to know of any clips of this type please post the link.
     
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    Never saw anything like that before.