Last time I checked, my shaved package was real. My BF's furry package was real also. No silicone, No Max Factor, no wax (unless it's candle wax from sexual trists).
The reality is that everyone has individual tastes for what they like in themselves and other people. I know guys that prefer no clipping below the neck, no deodorant, no cologne. More power to them, I say. If they wanna play, I can always wash off my deodorant reminants and go for it. If they don't (because I am shaved)-their loss, not mine.
An open mind is key.