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I think the lack of foreplay/men eating pussy in porn is just because most porn portrays men controlling/dominating/abusing women. I am refering to straight porn, not any of the kink that is out there.

On guy I know was obsessive about some porn stud that reminded me of john claude van dam...anyhow, this guy seemed to take great pleasure in making women feel used.

I personally always romance/kiss/lick a woman as much as possible before entering her...I also make sure to let her know how great she tastes/smells to me. Yummy!
 

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I said it before and I'll say it again. Lesbian porn is way better at showing foreplay and slow "love making". If men want to learn how to kiss, caress breasts, touch and lick pussies, then I think they can learn something from watching lesbian porn. I get way more turned on by this than watching straight fucking. I'm guessing a fair amount of straight men like watching it...or maybe I'm the only one? :confused:

dont fret dude. your not the only one. i also get more aroused by lesbian porn.
 

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Porn today is just to plastic. Most of it anyway. I've seen it getting crazier and crazier the last decade.

Foreplay is play and can take all day. Not only in bed but everywhere doing just about anything. Cooking together could be foreplay. Or just a smile at the right moment.
 

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Why doesnt porn ever show a girl all slimey and wet? I can stretch my wetness far between my fingers.

because the women aren't enjoying their jobs.

There is some porn out there, where they do really get wet (not just spit or lube), but it's very rare. Best chances are authentic amateur porn.
 

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I don't know about lesbian porn because I don't watch it but some of the women I've slept with have been amazing lovers for the reasons you say, they are better at foreplay and slow love making, kissing, caressing my breasts, touch and licking my pussy. Amy I need to see you now !!! That doesn't mean that men can't do this, of course, many can. I just love sex with men and women, I love my big cocked boyfriend but I also love the way my girlfriend makes every inch of my body tingle with pleasure.

I said it before and I'll say it again. Lesbian porn is way better at showing foreplay and slow "love making". If men want to learn how to kiss, caress breasts, touch and lick pussies, then I think they can learn something from watching lesbian porn.
 

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I don't know about lesbian porn because I don't watch it but some of the women I've slept with have been amazing lovers for the reasons you say, they are better at foreplay and slow love making, kissing, caressing my breasts, touch and licking my pussy. Amy I need to see you now !!! That doesn't mean that men can't do this, of course, many can. I just love sex with men and women, I love my big cocked boyfriend but I also love the way my girlfriend makes every inch of my body tingle with pleasure.
And the men that are capable of making love to you just like those women have the added advantage of having a cock to fuck you with. :biggrin1:
 

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I am 34 straight black man from California USA. I read the post you started about men who precum excessively when excited and women who get soppy wet with vaginal sexual fluids. I wanted to respond to the post because I leak a very large amount of precum. One experience that I had that first comes to mind is a situation I was involved in last summer when the woman who I was seeing went to a clothing optional beach. Once we had set up our blanket and taken off her clothes it was really apparent that my female friend was excited to view my penis which is very large even soft. Cock size is why I am on here I guess. Anyway after a while I noticed that she was SOPPING wet. Like her whole inner thighs were slimy with female sexual fluids. At that point I realized that I was getting a semi erection which can be embarassing to me because of my size. Luckily we were in a semi secluded part of the beach. After a while I got more or less hard and when I rolled over and stood up at one point there was a 2 foot long string of precum hanging off my cock. This really excited my female friend seeing this, though I was embarassed. I desparately wanted to insert my cock into her pussy and dump my load but we couldn't because we were on the beach and had no protection. So I was just stuck there with a huge erection and precum leaking out like crazy. When it came time to go I was lucky no one was really around because I had a 10" erection swaying back and forth and precum hanging off my cock until we got back to the car. Later we went back to my house and had sex for 3 hours. She then went home and I masturbated like crazy before going to bed
 

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I had about a similar situation but unfortunately without the happy ending for the both of us. I was going out with some friend when I met a girl whom I went to highschool with. She was sweet in a timid and had a tight and slim body. We started talking and I asked her if she liked to dance after which we went to the dance floor. As I said, she had a very nice body and I was very very attracted to her. I have no idea how large my penis is since I've never measured it but all I can say...I can't were boxer shorts, they reveal to much. That night, guess what, I wasn't only wearing those loose fit boxers but I was also wearing loose trouser. I was getting excited of her body and for some reason we had chemistry which made her very comfortable to get very close to me. My penis was half erect and swinging back and forth. She got closer, and closer and before I could back off my dick was swinging between her legs and touching her inner thighs. Tapping and stroking because of the rhythm. It made her crazy and me as well. The thing that forced me to stop was pre-cum dripping down my thigh! I was really getting a wet spot! Unfortunately she was with a girlfriend and I was kept at a distance the rest of the evening. Maybe a good thing because her boyfriend was kind of a heavy. Not a happy ending, in fact somewhat frustrating because I really liked her. That's life sometimes.
 

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Except for the porn and the bad (or good) foreplay, anyone of you have any stories to share?
OK, not exactly what this thread is for but here you go.

Some time ago I had the occasion to talk again from the phone to someone I knew from school time. We had parted for, what, around 20 years. The emotions were really high from both sides. And I think this did the trick. When the (really long) conversation came to an end, I noticed that I had leaked. No erection, nothing, just the magic transparent liquid.

Not only that, but even thinking about the conversation later on had the same effect. Leakage without erection. At my age...

This was very interesting. I cannot say I really liked that girl, but we had a special relation back then. Now I am married but my wife is the only woman I knew in my life (please don't laugh), which probably explains the absence of erections (let's say something like Subconscious Police :biggrin1:). On the other hand this too may have played some role in getting me wet. Of course I was very perplexed and somewhat sad about this. Occasionally leaking pre-cum lasted for a couple of days, probably more. Feeling it was very sweet and arousing, I think it has to do with some excitement of the prostate. Overall it was a very weird mix of emotions that I had never felt before.

That's all folks. Sorry if I disappointed you.
 

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It can be embarassing how wet I get, especially when I am in public

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Problem solved?

One of my ex's would get incredibly wet when she was aroused. I don't recall her ever running into problems where it actually would be noticable in public.
 

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So it never happens unannounced?

Being the eccentric medical person that i am with a lot of knowledge in Ob/Gyn I'll explain some things that might make a little more sense.

The penis obviously doesnt have normal discharge that comes out almost daily as a part of its "self cleansing" design. The vagina has all sorts of fluids that vary depending on the hormone levels. As a woman approaches the fertile time of her cycle the fluid becomes more like snot and can resemble the type of wetness you see when she is aroused. This slimey "eggwhite" type stuff is produced by the cervix to be chemically ideal for sperm to survive. When this stuff comes out it is "unnaounced" so to speak. Some women dont get this at all as a part of the cycle and may only get clear, yellowish watery or creamy discharge and this wouldnt be the same stuff she gets while aroused. The cyclic discharge is not something she can control or know when its going to start coming out at random. So she could be sweeping the kitchen and all of a sudden feel like someone cracked an egg in her panties, this is not a psychosexual response.

The arousal fluid is from the Bartholins glands about 1/2 inch into the vagina. This is a gland that is triggered by the brain to secrete the fluids when things turn her on. So there has to be something that starts to get the gland to respond and it slowly produces the mucous so you arent going to get a gush of fluid when a hot guy walks by.

Sorry to be so medical but i wanted to explain how the brain and the "wetness" works so you can see how it might take us longer to show we are aroused by this fluid. I can be crazy turned on and feel like i could have sex but when i feel down there i might not be wet yet but if i give it a few more minutes of sexual stimulation (whether physical, mental or visual) i will start to feel a little wetness and then more and more.

Everything about a womens pyschosexual response is designed to incorporate more of our conscious and deliberate thought rather than primitive. This is also proven on MRI scans of a womans brain prior and during orgasm.

Class dismissed!
 

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I tend to be a pretty wet girl myself. Last night I got wet out of nowhere. I was talking to a guy friend on the phone. He started stretching his back during our conversation. I found this sexy as hell! The tone of his voice... the little moans he was making as he stretched. I was wet instantly. Totally reminded me of how he sounds when he cums. I told him if he needs to stretch again to let me know :biggrin1:

Another time he totally got me wet was last week when he was on pain killers. He had called me after he got off of work, he had surgery recently and was still in some pain. His voice sounded lower, more relaxed. Like he had just woken up. It was fucking hot! Downside was he had to cut the conversation short to pass out. After we hung up, I masturbated thinking of his voice and how I REALLY wanted to be laying next to him at that moment. By the way, I haven't told him about these incidents. I will soon enough.

I've been at work and just standing in an elevator near a guy makes me wet sometimes. But, I go into heat a week or so before my period. During that time, I have to change my undies several times a day. Being wet all the time has its drawbacks... It doesn't always happen, but I just want to have sex to take care of it once and for all :wink: