Premature Ejaculation in 9"+ Cocks

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  1. D_Everette Hunglungfish

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    Hi Guys,

    Lately I've been seeing a guy who's about 9.5" - and loving it

    The trouble is, when it comes to fucking - he cums very quickly - within about 10 pumps

    I thought bigger guys lasted longer due to the distribution of nerves but that's not the case here

    Any advice on how I can make him last longer?

    Thanks
     
  2. Gay4Life

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    Hey. Do you know if this happens all the time? Maybe it was just that once? How old is he? I dont really know what it could be because I dnt know much about him and Im sure no one else will either. Does he have sex often? These questions are important and it will help in determining your answer for help : )
     
  3. D_Everette Hunglungfish

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    He's 27 and has a reasonable amount of sex - apparently this has always been a bit of an issue
     
  4. EnglishMan

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    If it's a casual relationship, there's very little you can do, 'cos if you bring it up it will probably make matters worse.

    If it is a relationship that you see continuing, then there are loads of things you can do.
    In fact the more you have sex, and the less he feels he has to prove anything to you, the longer he may last.

    If this does not happen then try the various exercises that can be found on line for premature ejaculation.

    It is all in his head and with practice can be cured.
     
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    He can do Kegels. It will increase his stamina.
     
  6. LittleCockJock

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    I've never heard of the idea that bigger guys cum more slowly; figure premature ejaculation is as common for hungs as it is for average or smalls.

    For making him last longer, maybe try a short break after the first few pumps, just let him be in you without any movement. Or vary positions (if you can with a guy that massive) since maybe the sensation will be different from different angles. I've always had much longer/delayed cumming from standing upright (not leaning or on all knees or being ridden). There are plenty of ways to deal with it, and hope you find some that work, and it's a hot time exploring ways to make it last longer!
     
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    He might be one of those guys that just has a very sensitive cock. Has he tried wearing a condom? If so, does it help?

    How often does he masterbate? If he masterbates before you guys fool around, can he go longer?

    Is your buddy uncircumcised? Some uncut guys can suffer from premature ejaculation. He could try keeping his foreskin retracted to "toughen" up the glans, given a bit of time. I know a couple of guys this has worked well for.
     
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    Also has to do with his mindset...is he overly aroused? Is he overthinking his performance/ejaculating/pleasure? it also contributes to premature ejaculating.
     
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    a dick's sensitivity shouldn't be affected by size.
     
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    Sensitive Cocks are HOT! Enjoy it. Get creative, too.
     
  11. D_Clarence Crabcatcher

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    Larger cocks sometimes do not last as long because of the increased friction of sex due to the larger girth. The only cure is practice, both mental and physical, when I was younger I was involved in the making of porn stills and videos, on the performance end of the business for a local pornographer. When having marathon sex sessions in a variety of positions I thought about anything other than the ususally hot woman I was with (mental). I always masturbated the morning of, and did kegel exercises. I ususally cummed on cue, I could cum in 5 minutes or two hours. However it took alot of practice and some humiliation before I could do it perfectly. The hardest for me was control during anal sex because of the increased friction.
     
  12. D_Aita_Fallis

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    go slower! kiss and touch to pass time
     
  13. molotovmuffin

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    This...

    I dated a guy that if he looked at his cock going in.. he came, just that fast.