Problems with big flaccid cocks and boxers

Discussion in 'Underwear, Clothing, and Appearance Issues' started by Imported, Feb 20, 2004.

  1. Imported

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    bowler20024life: Lately I have been having problems with my boxers and my cock slipping out of the fly of them.  My flaccid cock is only about 5x3.5 but as I move around school during the day my cock ends up slipping out and rubbing against my pants which is really annoying.  My boxers dont have a button on the fly and when I wear briefs it is too tight of a fit for my cock.  Have any other guys have had this problem with boxers and if so how have you fixed it?  Are there other underware that would hold my stuff in.  I am a 34 inch waist so the briefs give way too little room for my package.  Any help would be appreciated.  Thanks for all your help.
     
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    I honestly don't know what to tell you, bro, other than try your best not to worry so much about it. I'm a little longer and thicker than you flaccid and I'm a 28 waist, and my dick usually just hangs down. I'm usually too busy running around doing stuff to pay it too much mind.

    If you think new underwear's necessary, try some boxer briefs. I have some Joe Boxer brand ones and they're pretty snug without feeling too confining. To paraphrase from the Ronco commercials, I just set my dick in 'em and forget it.
     
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    KissMeImHung: Try safety pinning or sewing up the front slit in the boxers.....
     
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    A small square of Velcro will make a good closure on the boxers opening. Look for the kind you can iron on and you should be able to take care of several pairs in just a few minutes.

    Pecker

    The nuclear scientist with the broken zipper was suffering from fall out.
     
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    rangersean: Pecker that's an EXCELLENT suggestion. I've never thought of it, and the open fly "thing" is one reason I don't like boxers. Golly, the stuff I learn here.

    :)
     
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    The velcro idea might just work!
    Excellent idea, Pecker. ;)

    You know, of all the "challenges" we come up with in tolerating (?) a larger flaccid size, I nonetheless think about all the other guys reading here who might only wish for that kind of situation themselves!

    --I suppose it all boils down to how we interpret our given situations and how we choose to deal with them.

    A curse? Or, -- a blessing? :-/

    I'm sure many members of the forum must wonder sometimes--what's all the fuss about in being large?

    We each look at things so differently, sometimes.
     
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    Yes, it is funny the things we can learn here.

    As a freeballer I've only owned one pair of boxers in my lifetime, a pair I bought when I was away at college.  I'd never worn any and wondered about them.  

    I found that they complicated a simple farm boy's life and gave them to my roommate.

    Anyhow, I'd suggest that the smaller the velcro you add, the less likelyhood of discomfort in that sensitive area of the body.

    Pecker

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  8. Imported

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    Duo187: I dont wear any underwear...found its the best thing to do.
     
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    Since my earlier post (yesterday) I've been thinking about how some guys have problems with the fly area of boxer shorts...as in their member poking through unexpectedly.  I recall months ago now a discussion about how men have "different distances" from their penis up to their navel...how some guys even with the same given dimensions when erect can touch their navel or even go beyond.

    My point in this strange(!) notion is I'm wondering if the "poking through dilemma" is affected by how high up men wear their boxers?  And, with that, the distance of coverage required by the boxers between the penis and the navel to where it affects the positioning of the fly area to the level of the penis. Seems the "level" that the penis comes near the TOTAL fly area itself might influence (or determine) the chances of it coming through the fly opening more readily.  Depending upon "how" the boxers are worn (how high up that is) would relate to this situation of unexpectedly (and most inconviently!) "popping" through.

    Here's a thought too, about "styles" of boxer shorts.
    (I learned this through trial and error of course--no one ever told me nor did I even know this was the case!)
    "Full-length" (full-cut) boxer shorts have a bit more to them--longer in coverage area and longer legs.
    "Tapered" boxer shorts are shorter in coverage area and leg length---(TAPERED would easily cause better chances to reveal through the fly if there's a longer flaccid size to contend with.) If I wore tapered boxers, I would show via the leg opening every time, no doubt! Heck, I'm doing so now (in certain situations) even with full-cut boxers, come to think of it.

    I'm tall and lean. I wear my (full-length) boxers to where the waistband falls at or just below the navel. In doing so, still my flaccid size apparently trails considerably below the lower portion of the opening of the fly itself (down the left leg), thus typically avoiding the instances other men have described here. Rarely do I  "poke through". Hence, my own personal concern with boxers then, is not so much coming through the opening, but instead showing the bulge and the flopping movement when walking in certain slacks-- especially suit and dress pants.

    So, this whole issue of boxers being a nuisance by having the penis play "peek-a-boo" through the fly could relate to not only the flaccid length itself but the " "style" of the boxers (full-cut vs. tapered) and how high boxer shorts are typically worn by the man.

    Does this make any sense at all?    ???

    Funny.....now I suppose I'll have many of us here stopping to think about how far up we should wear our underwear!    ;D
     
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    jimbo67: Never had a problem with my cock poking through the fly of boxer shorts, but hanging out the leg opening is sometimes a problem.
     
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    this reminds me of what a friend and i came to lovingly call, (and cursedly also), "bungee-jumping" ... if you are wearing boxers with no button or formal closure, and your cock jumps or slips out the front, that is called"bungee-jumping" ...
     
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    [quote author=vkngsxgd8 link=board=clothing;num=1077256301;start=0#10 date=02/21/04 at 20:55:40]this reminds me of what a friend and i came to lovingly call, (and cursedly also), "bungee-jumping" ... if you are wearing boxers with no button or formal closure, and your cock jumps or slips out the front, that is called"bungee-jumping" ...[/quote]

    ROFL....great...love that. had it happen enough times to know to avoid boxers...its hella funny when it happens to a friend though and he doesn't notice
     
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    i wear jocks and briefs....i am a "big" and require the support for my manly assets.
     
  14. Imported

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    bigballal2003: Twist the waistband of the boxers a few inches to the side so the fly doesn't line up with your dick any more.

    I had that problem at first and, when someone explained that to me, it seemed so obvious, but it hadn't occured to me.

    BTW: velcro = ouch. safety pin = REALLY ouch!
     
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    p2grow: When I need to "cup" the toys instead of hang in boxers, I now wear Ketoco briefs. They make a great brief with an honest to goodness oversized pouch suitable for some of us to pack in. I like the freedom and comfort of boxers but sometimes feel a need to be a bit more discreet in business situations. The toy and sac hang in the pouch but not totally free. I don't have to "adjust" like I used to when trying to wear other brands.
     
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    I don't understand how anyone with a large penis could "slip" through the opening in a pair of boxers. When worn properly the opening is at the base of the penis where the penis meets the body. Now if you are truely endowed then there is no way you are going to "slip" out through the opening. Even if I get aroused during the day I don't "slip" out the opening, I snake farther down my left leg. You don't flip your penis up against your body when you wear boxers, that's just asking for trouble. Besides some of us would extend over the waistband if we did flip it up and it would have a tendency of laying over to one side or the other. I've worn boxers for 40 years and I thought the whole concept of them were to hang loose and free while remaining properly dressed.

    Could some one please explain this to me????
     
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    va210: Like Guber, I wore boxer shorts for 40 years and cannot understand how a guy with a long cock can possibly fall out the fly. Hang out the leg opening, yes; but not out the fly.
     
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    a friend and i actually coined the phrase "bungee-jumping" to describe the phenomena of one's cock jumping thru the fly-opening of boxers ... we were both working at a retail store at the time, which had its stock-room and warehouse downstairs, and with no elevator, there was tons of up-and-down-the-stairs climbing, usually at high-speeds, jumping steps, and the above-mentioned occurences were inevitable then, if one was wearing boxers ... he and i just got to chatting about guy-stuff privately one day, and he mentioned that to me, and i was like "holy shit, that happens to you too" ?!!! it may not sound like much, but again it was one of those indescribable male-bonding moments when you just "know" what the other guys feeling/going thru ... needless to say, it was cool ...
     
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    hung: Although I am a dedicated "freeballer" I just checked out the Ketoco site listed above and must testify that if I did wear U/W I would order from this firm. There product line looks great.
     
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    You might have intended this as a gag. But after years of cosy briefs I turned to boxers. It felt alien to me yo have sll my stuff jiggling about but when the cold weather came, just a draught hit the end of my cock and I automatically kept checking to see it wasn't somehow hanging out of my pants . Disconcerting