Well, first of all, it may not be so small since flaccid length of most men has little to do with their erect length. If it is over 4 inches in length erect then it is more than enough to please most women and besides all that women's pleasuring is in her mind and in her mood not in your penis. You can look at my Gallery and my posts- my flaccid penis is over 7.5 inches long, and my erect penis is nine inches long and 8 inches in girth. I joined this site not to boast about my size but because it was suppose to be a support group for men who have problems and issues due to their huge penis. And I have had problems all my life- currently at age 60 my menopausal wife gets enormous pain during sex now that she can't self lubricate and then her teeth marks on my cock take longer and longer to recover. No, whatever crap you have heard on this site, not all women want a man with a large penis anymore than they want a man who weighs 350 pounds sitting on them. I may not want to trade my penis for that so called "small one" but looking back at my life my large cock has not gotten me much of anywhere so I may consider trading my one-in-a-million cock for a million bucks. I could sure use the money.