Shaved guys in the locker room..

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  1. D_Nathan_Birmbaum

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    hey guys, just wondering if any of you have had the same experience as me... i was in the locker room at the local pool this morning in the shower and i kept getting strange looks from guys in there, mainly the ones with kids with them. and i think it may have been coz i shaved my cock and balls the other day.
    just wondering if any of you had something similar happen?:confused:
     
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    i always wonder if the other dudes think about mine too... oh well.. fuck em haha
     
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    I think they where just checking out your amazing tool!
     
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    old topic

    shave your cock and ass at home please, and if there were young kids in there you should be ashamed and banned from the facility.

    really, be a grown man and have some sense of responsibility.
     
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    :rolleyes: I think he meant it was already shaved, not that he was shaving in front of them.
     
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    maybe the guy just hadn't seen a guy who shaved before.. its their problem not yours.. as long as you were just showering doing nothing inappropriate in the shower then you have nothing to worry about.

    were the others naked? or were they showering in swimwear or other attire? If you were the only naked one then that could have been why they seemed to be giving you looks

    I agree shaving in a public location would definitely be inappropriate, especially if there were younger guys around.

    I think he was referring to shaving at home prior to going to the gym.
     
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    I've gotten looks when I'm in the US. I really don't give a shit what anyone thinks. It's what I prefer for myself. If it's what you like, go for it. Don't worry about them.

    And I hope those guys don't ever come to Prague. I'd say that well over 50% of the guys in the showers here will be shaved totally smooth or very trimmed. And almost all the guys here shave their pits. So it's not unusual to see it and no one gives a "look".
     
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    Here in southern California, the shaved pubes trend seems to have dininished over the last year quite dramatically. At my gym, I bet 40-50% of the guys under 30 were either shaved smooth or nearly smooth a year ago. Now, I'd estimate its one in 10.

    This weekend I was in Phoenix, and my observations were that 40-50% of young guys were shaved or closely trimmed. Sometimes social trends start on the coast and move across the country.

    As for getting stares or dirty looks, I personally never received any nor do I recall anyone giving or getting any for shaving-trimming.
     
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    It's possible if they are trying to get their kids use to the locker room and seeing naked guys as a normal thing that when they saw you shaved it may raise questions that they might not want to answer at this time.
     
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    nudity to kids is like ice cream. only adults make some nasty out of something natural [nudity] and put that into their kids minds. if a parent makes no big deal out of things then kids don't even pay attention.

    I've had several comments on being smooth in showers, ''like you do alot of shaving'', never negative comments. Anyway showering for pools should be done in the nude, once they've rinsed out their suits and he was the one who was staring at you.

    I visit nudist clubs and many have this no piercings below the belt thing. kids might ask why he/she has a ring on his/her thing and then all they want to do is play and eat ice cream and all is forgotten. Adults make a big thing out of nothing and think they can judge...Only one can judge and that is not us.

    Kids also when they start noticing things wonder why daddy has hair down there. If we shave our faces then we can shave elsewhere. Feel free to be smooth!!!
     
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    One of the guys at the pool is shaved, he looks good smooth as he sports a lot of ink. I changed into my Speedo and he was looking and noticed that I have a PA. That brought up an interesting conversation.
     
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    Being a nudist, it's hard to tell if they are looking at my absence of tan lines or my very closely trimmed pubes. Either way, doesn't bother me a bit.
     
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    I dont know...im all for trimming or shaving some parts of the bod..but I think a totally shaved area looks a little odd and for me at least a total turnoff...As far as the lockerrom...generally if its not the norm people will stare/look. No different than someone looking or a little shocked when a dude with a ton of tats is there...
     
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    First of all there is too much going on here; ok you shaved and then while in the shower at the gym kids were checking you out? Or their dads were???

    As for being clean-shaven; I have been for my entire adult life. From swimming to the marines and to present I initially did so as not to cause painful hair pulling in either swim suit or bike pants but it has also added to my sexual experiences greatly.

    Think about it no unwanted hair (as in the mouth etc.)…

    As to what other people think – Who the FUCK cares??? If they are looking at you it is them with the issues then right?
     
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    Hey leave kids out of this. It makes me sick to hear someone talk about being a naturalist in the context of children.

    1. Children are innocent, they do not have the hangups, for or against most things, which is to say they definitely do not have your hang up with being a naturalist, and yes it is a hangup when it involves other people in public places. Keep your naturalism to your home.

    2. Whether or how much of your body you want to groom is your business, but it needs to be done at home.

    3. While I blame the parents for exposing their children in this instance, you should have had the good sense to cover up when they were there, if you don't understand this, review point 1.

    At the gym I go to youngsters, even with a parent under the age of 16 are not allowed in the adult locker room. Even though this gym has individual shower stalls with curtains I would be uncomfortable with someone bringing their kids into this area.

    Maybe its the Marine in me, but the showers are just that, for showering, if your there more than 2 minutes you gotta too much time on your hands or your a freak.
     
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    You sound a little uptight. Maybe a long hot shower would help you relax.

    p.s. Nudity =/= Sex
     
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    Dude you are waaaayyyy too uptight. If I had my kids with me in a locker room, I would be watching what my kids were watching. I would use it as a teaching moment. Some people like to shave, and for different reasons. Tell them, then let them make up their own minds about it. Or if someone was pierced down below. Course I've already had that convo with my kids since I'm pierced and we practice casual nudity in the house. Its been explained, discussed, and it's a non issue now.

    Make a big deal out of it, and your kids will treat it as a big deal. Present it as simply a personal choice that a person can make, and the reasons they might want to make that choice, and let the kid make up their own opinion, and it's not a big deal anymore.
     
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    First, I think I read the OP was smooth as a result of shaving SOMEWHERE OTHER THAN THE GYM. I don't think he was shaving IN the shower at the time.

    Yes, Willhorse, you're wound too tight. Casual nudity including family nudity is practiced world wide and kids grow up well adjusted even after seeing adult bodies. Amazing how that happens. I've been in nudist groups where the ages ranged from babies to grandparents. There were adults with loads of tats, one or two piercings, and sagging skin. No one made comments not were eyebrows raised because of any of it. People swam, talked, picnicked etc. As long as people go into the situation innocently, they'll exit innocently.

    Pdick - your metal looks great. I can't wait to get up to larger sizes.
     
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    I've never seen one nudist ever exploit any sexuality in front of children. Children are curious and what's not explained or hidden in front of them they will look elsewhere for the answers. It's up to parents to guide them.

    Willhorse, i don't think your uptight but maybe you should visit a naturist club and i'm sure you will change your veiws. if you read about sex crimes,teen pregnancy,etc you'll find that children that have been raised as naturists are almost nil to get pregnant and comment sex crimes as those who are not.

    I am also an ex-marine and it took more than two minutes to shower and shave. I would rather see kids at naturist resorts than watching tv.
     
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    At my gym the lines are blurred. I’ve noticed a lot more straight guys with shaved pubes. I’m guessing just about everyone that is in the showers has done some form of manscaping and that’s cool but like everything else the art of cutting hair or grooming should be left to a professional. I see a lot of hairy guys with their pubes completely shaved; it looks a little strange. I guess maybe they watch a lot of porn or maybe someone told them it looked good but in all honesty it looks a little retarded. Maybe they think a shaved cock makes them look bigger; I don’t know. Just like the hair on your head, you got to find the right thing that works for you. Let’s face it, guys who still wear a mullet look a little dated and guys who screw up their hair down below sort of look like baby chickens without their feathers. As for me, I can’t eat no pussy or cock that has a fucked up shave job; I won’t be able to stop laughing.
    I see guys shave in the showers all the time and it’s no big deal. I shave my nuts in the shower all the time. How did “kids in the locker-room” become part of the conversation? And why would kids be in the shower with someone while their shaving?
    You got to use some common sense here. There’s a big difference between shaving your face and shaving your ass hole at the gym. And keep the kids out of the gym; that’s why they have playgrounds.