I have been with guys with an average size penis who have hurt me as hell. Hurting a woman during sexual intercourse is not about being big is about being a clueless lover. Punching her on the face would also work, would you also feel proud of that?
I've been with a guy who has a penis which measures real 11 inches, not your hopeful young boy cheating with his ruler '9' inches, and every time we had sex he made me feel in heaven. I am sure he has made many women feel that way because he is a skillfull lover. From the very first time we slept together he was able to take me fully. He was inside me partially for a while, engaged in giving me pleasure. He gave me an orgasm after only 20 minutes or so and after that, little by little, he introduced the rest of his penis. Suddenly all of it was inside me and I felt as full and stretched as never before. Now, that's something he could feel 'giggly and proud' about!