Squeezing/Clenching down on something while cumming

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  1. RawDog

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    This is an all inclusive question for both men and women, straight and gay.

    For the women, when you cum, how different is it to squeeze down on something inside your vagina as opposed to not having anything inside at all? Likewise for the guys, how different is it when you cum without that squeeze clenching around your cock vs. having a loose grasp (or even hands free)?

    Usually, especially when I masturbate, at the moment I orgasm, I squeeze from my base to the head, loosen and readjust my grip, squeeze from the base to the head, and repeat until I'm done ejaculating. Sort of like squeezing an almost empty tube of toothpaste.

    Obviously, this is to aid the PC muscles in ejecting the semen from the cock. When ejaculating into a vagina, unless she's cumming simultaneously, the squeeze/release/squeeze/release cycle is more from the engorgement spasms coupled with the tight ring around the entroitus. Probably why guys try reaching so deep inside at the moment of discharge. In an evolutionary sense, not only to try getting the semen as deep as possible, but re-create the stroking sensation when masturbating.

    Let me try elaborating that last sentence. When I ejaculate, the first spurt is instinctively when I shove it in as deep as possible and flex my PC muscle. This is when my cock is the most rigid, the most engorged. As soon as the first "rope" is out, my cock reverts back to its normal rigid state, I relax the kegel and I slightly withdraw. Her introitus acting as a tight ring around my base slides up my shaft, creating that tube of toothpaste/pulling the semen out squeeze from base to head I was describing earlier. That point when I'm shallowest, I kegel and shove it back in as deep as possible, discharging more semen.

    There are other times when I kegel/relax/kegel/relax when I'm fully extended inside her, but the clenching sensation is still there from the engorgement within her vaginal walls.

    The only time I've ever not squeezed my cock when I ejaculated was when I was experimenting with male multiple orgasms. I rubbed myself until that point where I'd do the "squeeze the toothpaste out" motion, but instead of clenching my fist around my cock, I let go and simply let my dick take care of the rest. It was less fulfilling. A lot less. So much so that I did maintain a slight erection and I could get back into a full blown erection in a few minutes (as opposed to my usual hour or two refractory period).

    So, you're turn.
     
  2. irox19

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    i squeeze for dear life when i cum whether there is something/someone in me or not. it makes it so much more intense.
     
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    I'm usually not all that aware of my surroundings or what I'm doing when I cum. I could be reciting the New York State Code of Tariffs in the voice of Mercedes McCambridge, for all I know.

    Afterwards, though, The Demon Has Passed
     
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    ROTHFMAO!!!!! Thanks a heap Empathizer, your comment caught me off guard and resulted in Orange Juice being spurted out of my nose! :lmao: Sadly i am in the same boat! LoL I sure as hell haven't broken it down as well as the OP (and really, kudos to that! I sure as hell am useless in answering this thread! lol)
     
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    Sorry if all of it was information overload. Sex is my drug of choice and I love breaking it down to specific details. That way, I can improve it ever so slightly the next time.

    That's what you get when you mix an over achieving sex maniac with an engineer and a martial artist who wants to be a writer I guess.
     
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    Oh no! Don't get me wrong, I love the info! :biggthumpup2:I wish i could analyze cumming like that! I can during, but then i cum and everything gets fuzzy and bugger me if I can remeber diddly squat after! lol I seem to remember during the next time. Just have to try harder i guess! Though i can do that with the behaviors and body language of my partner for each encounter, but see, I'm a studing to become a board certified Behaviorist, so I can't turn that part off:tongue:. Too second nature!:biggrin1:
     
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    When you say, "it makes it so much more intense", that's only the squeezing part and the intensity is regardless of whether something's inside you? I've heard it's more intense if there's something inside up to a certain point. If the guy's got "too much" girth it can actually be more distracting and clenching down isn't as easy.

    More than anything, I'm trying to grasp the way in which our sensations are analogous, and the ways in which we're different.

    Now that's funny! So, I take it you'll need several hundred orgasms before you can even start paying attention to how your body's reacting when your cumin?
     
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    Yes, definitely the sensation of my cock being squeezed when I come adds to the pleasure – quite a lot. Partly this is because it feels so good anyway, to be squeezed or gripped, I mean, and partly it's because it makes me very aware of the spurts of jism going up my shaft because I can feel them (I guess because with each spurt my cock gets momentarily a tiny bit thicker, making the squeezing sensation feel even tighter – this tightening of course happening at an instant of maximum pleasure anyway.

    Although I can reproduce the feeling with my hands to an extent, nothing matches coming in a nice tight pussy. :smile:

    ETA: RawDog, you describe very well one of the reason why a pussy feels so good, two which I'dd add that feeling of being almost drawn in as well as squeezed.
     
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    Yes, please!:wink:
     
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    Stop describing yourself! It makes my panties uncomfortably damp.
     
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    No worries. I just get so obsessed on a question in my head and by the time the internal dialogue comes out, it can get very graphic and very detailed. Sort of like an ejaculation of thought, if you will. I'm a little proud of this habit.

    By the way, this doesn't let you off the hook. I want a detailed description eventually. Every time you get fuzzy and can't remember diddly squat, you just have to re-double your efforts next time.

    Hmm, now if I can find that speed-bake cloning machine I had the other day...

    And what would it take to make it comfortably soppong wet?
     
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    just to have your cock completly enveloped at the time of orgasm just feels great!! My wife usually cums before I do and love the feeling of her contactions on my cock, I plunge deep when she is cumming seems to get her off better!
     
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    I loved your description in the OP. It really turned me on. TheBF does what you do when he orgasms and it always feels incredible. I can feel every throb and pulse of his cock as he ejaculates and it's simply the most delicious feeling ever. The sensation makes me almost involuntarily move my muscles in response. If we have a quickie and I haven't cum, it's still worth it just to feel that feeling of him ejaculating inside of me.

    I always clench or clamp down on his cock when I orgasm and when I'm masturbating, even though I'm usually being lazy and just using my hand or a bullet or the Wahl, it does feel much better when there is something inside my vagina to clamp down on.
     
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    One time I was deep inside my wife and just at the exact moment of me having a climax, she involuntary coughed. Her virginia clamped down on my dick like nothing I have ever felt. Needless to say, my orgasm was just unreal due to her clamping down on me.
     
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    I know!

    His wife is the Luckiest Woman On Earth.

    We'll have to seduce both of them. She must be Perfectly Flawless, and just watching them would be First-Class Burlesque/Experimental Theatre.

    ++++SIGH!!!!++++
     
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    LOL it's like we're long lost twin brothers... that were miraculous born 20 years apart...
     
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    if i dont orgasm with something in me i still feel horny after i orgasm...so i guess i prefer squeezing someone/thing lol
     
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    I squeeze during sex and while cumming. The feeling is amazing (and I almost think it's involuntary). Even if I'm receiving oral, my man knows I like for him to place at least 1 finger (even if it's only to the top knuckle) inside me so I can squeeze it. Hell, who am I kidding: I squeeze all day long, lol.
     
  20. RawDog

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    Ok, my dick twitched twice with those descriptions you gave of you and your boyfriend. Definitely well said.

    Aww, thanks! Oftentimes, I feel like I'm the luckiest guy on earth.

    That's the same thing I mentioned when I don't have anything squeezing my cock when I cum too. So, satiation and squeezing are somehow related.

    When my wife orgasms with my finger inside her, her squeezes feel like she's strong enough to break my finger. With my cock in her, and I assume she bears down with the same strength when she cums, it just feels amazing. Almost as if the same amount of bone crushing force a finger can feel translates to "Oh my fucking god, that feels good" - to a cock.

    Now, thiinking conversely, can you induce an orgasm by squeezing?