Squeezing/Clenching down on something while cumming

[B_subgirrl]

Check. Good to get verification. I'm still fixated on your completely motionless bit there.

I'M still bloody fixated on the completely motionless bit :biggrin1:. I hadn't realised quite how important it was until a FB (not THE FB) didn't do it earlier this year. Since then I can't stop thinking about how much I love it and how incomplete I feel without it.

I guess it's not completely motionless. I mean, he needs to be motionless, but I still have a lot of muscles working :biggrin1:. I just don't have any major body parts moving.

MrsR loves taking me as deep as possible and squeezing and milking when she cums. Sort of similar to when I cum ... I just stay deep and push and push and push.

Deep, deep, deep I love. Must focus! *subgirrl tries very hard to bring her brain back to earth again*

If she's on top grinding, then I can get lost in the moment, but if I'm driving, I need to be aware of my surroundings.

This is why I am not a fan of being on top. I have trouble keeping myself out of the floaty place and I end up being pretty useless - too busy floating and orgasming to be terribly active. The FB found a way around that one though.

We're both the "exit only" kind of people so yeah, we're both unsure.

To be honest, before I was with the FB who got me into it, I was an exit only person too. And if I think about it too much the idea still gives me the heebies. But it feels so damn good I can't resist it!

I have also learned to control the nail action! My man has a much lower pain threshold than I. So for me, his nails raked across my back? MMMmmMMMmmMmm! It's not even a hurts so good. It just is GOOD. Period.

That brings on an instant orgasm in me! Nails on my back is *shivery*. I love it!

If you like nails, you may find these interesting (RawDog, you've already seen them):

Clothing Accessories - Vampire Gloves | eXtreme Restraints

I have some, but haven't been able to try them out yet.

He is learning when to stay motionless (he on the other hand, loves when I am bucking uncontrollably on his cock, and thank goodness cuz I have no way of reducing that!)

ROFL :biggrin1:. This sounds like me!

well, he just better be glad that keep my nails supper short and filed when I am with him, cuz sometimes I forget about the no scratching him thing!

Fucking people who needed to go home intact (for various reasons) quickly trained me out of this one. But my hands still curl into weird claw shapes when I cum. I just make sure that's ALL I do!

 

[RawDog]

I have to squeeze or I cannot cum!

Recently, my new lover has asked me very politely not to squeeze while he is coming because it hurts when the semen is stopped midway during his climax.

Like Over-reaching, I also find it more pleasurable to have her squeezing as I'm cumming. I may need to look over some medical sources to verify this, but it almost feels like flexing my PC muscle (or whatever other muscles are involved with ejaculation) widens my urethra to let semen pass through more easily. <-- Any guys here "feel" that too?

I suppose the hose can still be kinked shut if, as Nico said, the crests and troughs aren't in synch (great description).

(your detailed description here is actually quite stimulating to read... I find myself doing some squeezing now as I write!)

Thank you! Another website I visit from time to time has a saying I like using on myself as wel (with respect to writing). I try my best to "Educate, amuse and enrich".

Ok Mr. RawDog. I am going to try and get through as much of my explanation as possible, though I may have to break it up over a few days.

You weren't kidding! Excellent job with your observation, description and explanation. I totally appreciate your response!!

Hey, change the word "pussy" to "asshole" and I couldn't have described it better! I agree that my dick thickens as it spurts. I can see this when masturbating. It gains about a 1/2 in or so in thickness (sometimes more, really should measure) just before each volley.

Ok, actually measuring the variation in girth is something I hadn't thought of. Interesting if you can find a way to do that.

I think I already stated, when I am masturbating to orgasm, the hands free, nothing around my cock type is just not as enjoyable. There is something to be said for when I am edging. In those cases, the feeling of getting to the brink, over and over again, then unintentionally falling of the edge can me a real mindfuck, in the best possible way. It's like my body has taken total control from my mind, and so, while physically less thrilling, taken by itself, it can be overall awesome once the mental awe is factored in.

Well put.Defnitely said it better than me.

Where I differ form you RD is that I prefer he initial spurt (the first few) to be just in that ultra tight are found in the involuntary sphincter.

Since the orifice being ejaculated into is completely different (I'm assuming here, we're not anal fans), I suppose the impulsive behaviour changes over time.

I compare it to...remember in school when they were talking about amplitude and wave functions, and all that? And how if two different waves meet at the right time, to were the crest and troughs are in synch, then the new combined waves amplitude can skyrocket, but if a crest overlaps a trough they cancel? Yeah. Same principle applies to a partner’s movements and /or spasms in the top or bottom role. At the right time, OMFG!!!! Fireworks of insane proportions! Wrong time (wave and trough)? pfffftt. Back to the beginning...

Being an engineer geek, I really loved that analogy. I get it. Maybe it's that my wife and I know each other's body on an instinctive level, but when we have our simultaneous orgasms, out flexing seems to naturally synch.

So yeah, I understand what you're saying, but happily never experienced it

I'M still bloody fixated on the completely motionless bit :biggrin1:. I hadn't realised quite how important it was until a FB (not THE FB) didn't do it earlier this year. Since then I can't stop thinking about how much I love it and how incomplete I feel without it.

Incomplete? Interesting choice of words. I wouldn't have saidy it was part of what completes me, but staying completely still when my cock is balls deep gives me a chance to close my eyes and *feel* all the lovely details of what's going on inside her. The warmth, the texture, the spasms, and how she milks me and the evident slickness around my cock.

I guess it's not completely motionless. I mean, he needs to be motionless, but I still have a lot of muscles working :biggrin1:. I just don't have any major body parts moving.

Yes! I cheated a bit with my response above by agreeing with you before quoting you, but that's the difference between the cock moving into the vagina and the vagina moving around the cock. I can grind my hips and angle my cock in all sorts of different directions, but it still goes in the direction my shaft's pointed to. She can buck her hips and flex a muscle in a different direction, and that changes the vessel itself.

Being completely motionless gives me an appreciation for how the vessel undulates around me.

Deep, deep, deep I love. Must focus! *subgirrl tries very hard to bring her brain back to earth again*

This is going to make me sound superficial (I hope not), but this is what my life is all about. I'm nothing if I can't experience this.

This is why I am not a fan of being on top. I have trouble keeping myself out of the floaty place and I end up being pretty useless - too busy floating and orgasming to be terribly active. The FB found a way around that one though.

And...? You're not allowed to say that and not give me your FB's workaround!

To be honest, before I was with the FB who got me into it, I was an exit only person too. And if I think about it too much the idea still gives me the heebies. But it feels so damn good I can't resist it!

I'll take your (and Nico's) word for it.

 

[B_Nicodemous]

Hey there Mr. RawDog, Well I am glad you liked my response. It was torture for me to have to keep details and my thought process straight! LOL! Ah, well. I have more to post in regards to the mechanics of what an ass feels like (the clamping and undulations that are not centered at the sphincters) but I will do so later. Between the post here and my opus on another thread that ran forever it seemed; I got to bed rather later than I should have. In fact another LPSG member told me to go to bed when he found out how little sleep I have been getting. Lol I get more verbose, it seems, as sleep deprivation sets in.:tongue:

Glad you liked the analogy on wave mechanics. I new if anyone would get that it'd be an engineer!:biggrin1:

Will keep you all posted on any other remembered details. I should be able to squeeze in my BF this weekend (hmmm...perhaps I should have worded that differently...:wink

 

[B_subgirrl]

Incomplete? Interesting choice of words. I wouldn't have saidy it was part of what completes me, but staying completely still when my cock is balls deep gives me a chance to close my eyes and *feel* all the lovely details of what's going on inside her. The warmth, the texture, the spasms, and how she milks me and the evident slickness around my cock.

Definitely incomplete. It feels like I haven't ticked all the boxes; like there was something I was meant to do, but didn't. I think I just like it too much to miss out.

Yes! I cheated a bit with my response above by agreeing with you before quoting you, but that's the difference between the cock moving into the vagina and the vagina moving around the cock. I can grind my hips and angle my cock in all sorts of different directions, but it still goes in the direction my shaft's pointed to. She can buck her hips and flex a muscle in a different direction, and that changes the vessel itself.

Being completely motionless gives me an appreciation for how the vessel undulates around me.

Wow! I love the way you described that. I didn't realise quite how much pleasure he could get out of it.

This is going to make me sound superficial (I hope not), but this is what my life is all about. I'm nothing if I can't experience this.

Going deep is the meaning of life :biggrin1:?

And...? You're not allowed to say that and not give me your FB's workaround!

I suspected you'd make me talk :redface:. We were doing reverse cowgirl. I was convinced I wouldn't last long and indeed, a few minutes later (well it FELT like minutes - was probably seconds) I was completely losing focus. Seriously, I find it hard to stay upright, let alone DO anything when I get lost in the floaty place. So he put his hands on my back and told me to lie back against them. Problem solved. He was entirely in control and I was free to go floating.

I'll take your (and Nico's) word for it.

I guess that'll have to do for now :smile:

 

[RawDog]

(I thought I replied to this one, apologies for the delay)

Wow! I love the way you described that. I didn't realise quite how much pleasure he could get out of it.

Now that was my experience though, not sure how unique my mind is when relishing something. The way you've described your FB thus far leads me to believe this *may* be his experience as well.

Going deep is the meaning of life :biggrin1:?

Mmm. Can't argue there.

I suspected you'd make me talk :redface:. We were doing reverse cowgirl. I was convinced I wouldn't last long and indeed, a few minutes later (well it FELT like minutes - was probably seconds) I was completely losing focus. Seriously, I find it hard to stay upright, let alone DO anything when I get lost in the floaty place. So he put his hands on my back and told me to lie back against them. Problem solved. He was entirely in control and I was free to go floating.

Your description sounds like what I've seen in porn which I thought was best done by folks in tip-top shape. I may need to revisit this one.

 

[B_subgirrl]

Now that was my experience though, not sure how unique my mind is when relishing something. The way you've described your FB thus far leads me to believe this *may* be his experience as well.

I'm gonna ask him now. Well, if I can get the balls to do it :redface:. I'm not so good at getting specific :redface:.

Your description sounds like what I've seen in porn which I thought was best done by folks in tip-top shape. I may need to revisit this one.

We are definitely not in tip top shape. Well I'm not. He has arm muscles (mmmm, sorry - distracted :tongue, but not huge ones. I think his ability to balance me on his arms was as important as muscle strength.

Revisit and report :biggrin1:

 

[RawDog]

I'm gonna ask him now. Well, if I can get the balls to do it :redface:. I'm not so good at getting specific :redface:.

Just show him what I wrote and see if he agrees?

We are definitely not in tip top shape. Well I'm not. He has arm muscles (mmmm, sorry - distracted :tongue, but not huge ones. I think his ability to balance me on his arms was as important as muscle strength.

Check. Duely noted.

Revisit and report :biggrin1:

Absolutely!

 

[B_subgirrl]

Just show him what I wrote and see if he agrees?

I'll do that if I have trouble putting it into words.

I spoke to him today but we didn't get around to actually having a conversation. Apparently it was just a call to make me cum . . .

 

[RawDog]

I'll do that if I have trouble putting it into words.

Does he know you're a member in a group that talks about large members?

I spoke to him today but we didn't get around to actually having a conversation. Apparently it was just a call to make me cum . . .

The selfish bastard! :biggrin1:

 

[B_subgirrl]

Does he know you're a member in a group that talks about large members?

I might have mentioned it a few times . . . :tongue:

The selfish bastard! :biggrin1:

It was selfish! If it was for me, he would have helped me with a few more orgasms! It was all about him :biggrin1:.

 

[B_subgirrl]

Incomplete? Interesting choice of words. I wouldn't have saidy it was part of what completes me, but staying completely still when my cock is balls deep gives me a chance to close my eyes and *feel* all the lovely details of what's going on inside her. The warmth, the texture, the spasms, and how she milks me and the evident slickness around my cock.

Yes! I cheated a bit with my response above by agreeing with you before quoting you, but that's the difference between the cock moving into the vagina and the vagina moving around the cock. I can grind my hips and angle my cock in all sorts of different directions, but it still goes in the direction my shaft's pointed to. She can buck her hips and flex a muscle in a different direction, and that changes the vessel itself.

Being completely motionless gives me an appreciation for how the vessel undulates around me.

I finally asked him about it! He said (deep breath) the way my pussy clenches around his cock feels amazing . . . then he said more . . . but I don't remember what because I was lost by then :redface:. I think there was something about grabbing my hips so he could get even deeper . . . but that's it.

Sorry it's a bit lacking in detail :redface:

 

[RawDog]

I finally asked him about it! He said (deep breath) the way my pussy clenches around his cock feels amazing . . . then he said more . . . but I don't remember what because I was lost by then :redface:. I think there was something about grabbing my hips so he could get even deeper . . . but that's it.

Sorry it's a bit lacking in detail :redface:

You fucking bitch!

Do .. not ... tease ... me ... like ... that.

If you weren't so far away I would be slapping you silly by now. Since I can't do that, you'd have to settle for me asking nicely...

Please fucking remember what else he said?

 

[B_subgirrl]

You fucking bitch!

Do .. not ... tease ... me ... like ... that.

If you weren't so far away I would be slapping you silly by now. Since I can't do that, you'd have to settle for me asking nicely...

Please fucking remember what else he said?

Apologies . . . but how am I supposed to remember what he said when I'm in the throes of orgasm?!? Getting a chance to ask before he started me cumming was hard enough!



Could I still have the slap please?