Sadly, gorgeous kiddo, I'm in the former state of Carrie Underwood (she had the good sense to get out and never look back - so far, anyway; if anyone had ever told me I'd lv. the Bay Area for Cowtown, U.S.A., I'm afraid I'd have laughe myself into a hernia!)...Job layoff/ ailing relatives beckoned, however, and now I'm enmeshed (for the time being, not forever...).
I'll get back to my old "stamping grounds" - Baker Beach, Nob Hill, the Fillmore, North Beach, Chinatown, SoMa, Noe Valley - eventually...At the very least, I'll visit w'in the next year...Maybe we could meet up, have a drink and a laugh at the very least. Compare escapades, maybe a hot massage. I, too, am a "top" (haven't been "flipped" in 24 yrs! - and, you, angel, would split these hot bear buns right in two!)...but, as Hamlet said:"There are more things in heaven and earth than are dreamed of in your philosophy, Horatio"...Applies, I think , to the rich tapestry that is sex...