Straight but curious about bj with guy

[jonchernak]

I'm straight but for the past week or so I've been wondering what it would be like to go down on a guy and have him go down on me. I don't want to talk to him, look him in the eye, kiss him, or have any contact other than oral sex. I've always thought guys would be good at giving head because they have dicks themselves and bet I would be good at it. Plus I'd be able to better understand what women do to me.

No specific question here, just looking for some feedback I guess.

me too i have had these thoughts for a few years now. i am married and the chances of it ever happening are probably 10% or less but I have always wondered what it would be like to give a guy head and swallow

 

[onewatcher]

I appreciate the other guys saying they felt the same way or they tried it. Nice to know its not uncommon.

You odviously are a very mature young man. I have said it before here, "it's just sex" It doesn't make you one way or another.
What if you like it? Then do it again! What if you don't like it ? Don't do it
again!

At least try it if you have a curiosity. Make sure it's with someone that shares your same wishes, ie: no eye contact, no kissing. Although, looking into a guys eyes while giving or receiving a bj is so very intense.

The world would be a much better place if people were not so opposed to trying new things out. There would be far less prejudices.

 

[DevonTexas]

I'm mostly straight and only have relationships with females. But, once I got off with another hung friend, I wanted to do it again. It's fun and definitely different than being with a girl. I just want it more often now tho.

 

[D_Aurifice_Stupher]

me too i have had these thoughts for a few years now. i am married and the chances of it ever happening are probably 10% or less but I have always wondered what it would be like to give a guy head and swallow

I'm with you on that. Married since 94, and still would love to give head and swallow. Wow, I said it. Funny thing is, when I was younger, before I got married, the opportunity was there numerous times, and I turned them down.

Don't know what I was thinking?

 

[BigDallasDick8x6]

But, once I got off with another hung friend, I wanted to do it again.

Did we ever hear that story of how it happened? Male sexual energy is definitely much more intense, IMHO.

 

[B_Hung Jon]

Kittie,
I think you're right about the dehumanizing, but the objectification is necessary for me. I truly am not gay and do not want any kind of relationship with a guy. The thought of kissing a guy makes me very uncomfortable. I think the difference for me is that the blowjob is not about homosexuality as much as it is about a sex act I have never performed and am curious about. Maybe it's a touch about homosexuality, who knows.

A larger part though, is that I expect myself to be very uncomfortable, and would feel safer if the guy had a more passive role. Thus the no eye contact (during the act, I'm sure we'll have to talk before and after).

I want to try giving a blowjob more than getting one from a guy I think. I really do think I'd be good at this, I imagine most guys would be.

I'm a super masculine, very hetero guy. I'm surprised this is even crossing my mind. But it doesn't really bother me that I'm having these thoughts. I think thats good?

I have to say that this topic and your post above is hilarious. Are you for real?

BTW "I'm a super masculine, very hetero" cocksucker too.

 

[D_i65riuy]

I have wanted to go down on a big cock for a while now.

I'm not sure if I would want anything in return, but watching girls suck on a huge cock really turns me on.

If I met the right person and he was cool. I would do it in a heartbeat!

 

[geek4mjc]

I have similar feelings also.

My favourite part of xxx movies are the girls giving head, especially to make the guy come and to get a facial.

I often fantasize about this. Like the OP i dont particularly wish to do anything else with a guy but give head to lead to a facial.

The problem being that i am in a happy hetro relationship and i could never cheat. Seems
like i missed my window of opportunity.

 

[sevenplus]

I consider myself NOT homosexual but I have blown a few guys and absolutely LOVED it!
Like the other posters I have NO interest in a relationship (friendship maybe but no relationship) and have no interest in anal or kissing YUCK! Sucking dick though is something I think of almost daily...

 

[geek4mjc]

Glad to know i am not the only one then.

May be an oppotunity will present itself one day in the future.

 

[hungboy18]

Go for it, I kinda fantasize about making out with girls, I love their bodies, I think they are amazing creatures, I don't really get turned on by them but I wouldn't mind making out, dancing closely, feeling and maybe even have sex with one... and I consider myself completely gay but if it felt good and we were both enjoying ourselves, then I wouldn't feel unsure of what I was doing.

Forget the labels and then you'll see it's ok to go ahead and give head.

If you're curious there's something there worth exploring, maybe you'll hate it and even regret it, but every experience teaches you something about yourself.

Find someone you can trust and go for it, be straight (no pun intended) forward with the guy and have fun. dicks are great, dicks are fun.

 

[Frnkd213]

I too share this fantasy/desire. For me and this is my seeking talking, I want to see if I'm as good as those girls in porn. The fantasy than for me is can I get this guy off faster and be better than any woman he had.

Like wise for me to get a BJ, I want the guy to want it, and suck me like no other woman has. At least better than my wife, who to be honest isn't good at all, I don't tell her though. Hey want to get to home plate, if you know what I mean.

 

[Smaccoms]

I consider myself in a very similar situation. I wouldn't kiss another man or have sex with him (i.e. anal/penetration), but I'm interested in a blowjob and handjob with another guy.

This idea, though, completely contradicts my morals on sex. I believe it should be through love and not lust, but here I am saying that with another man I would want the experience to be simply lust and no love whatsoever.

I never know what to think of this, and I guess I'll just figure it out, eventually.

In my personal view, I think one simply cannot love (romantically speaking). It is something you must work up to. You'd never expect a newborn to go for a run, would you? One must start slowly, crawl at first.
Romantic love is a complicated thing. It cannot be explained. It is what it is. Sex certainly is a part of it, and is relatively easy to explore given a willing partner and safety pre-cautions.
We are social and sexual beings. It is nothing to be ashamed of--it is a part of life. Romantic love is also a part of life. Acceptance here is key.
I prefer men myself, always have. It took me years to accept the fact that I also find women sexually appealing to some degree. It is very limited. However, if I let myself explore that abstract idea firmly planted in my head, it would expand on itself. It is a perfectly natural phenomenon; one that terrify most men. There is a stigma to bisexuality, despite it's actual commonplace among humanity. It is quite disappointing at times. Bisexuality and human sexuality is a beautiful thing.

 

[rawrg]

I did this when I was 15, and since then I've wanted to but never had the right opportunity arise. I'm what I like to call bisexual and panromantic. I love cocks, but I don't want one in my ass and I don't want to be in someone elses. Also, I don't want to kiss, caress or hold another man like that. I do however love sucking cock, having cum on me, etc. I also love sex with women and think they are beautiful. I want to kiss / hold women, and overall be more intimate. With men, it's straight to business.

I loved giving head. We'd been fooling around for weeks, jerking off together, giving each other handjobs while watching porn, typical teenage stuff etc. Then one night, we both got drunk, and he said, "Have you ever wondered what a blowjob feels like?" and from there, we turned out the lights and did each other. I was more enthusiastic though, and when we warned me, "I'm about to blow..." and tried to pull me off, I took him as deep as I could and took his load into my mouth.

I freaked him out, because I was willing to admit that I liked it and wouldn't mind doing it again. That night was the end of our fun, but it was a good experience overall. If you want to do it, don't be afraid. It's pretty common these days, and it doesn't mean you're full on gay, just a little bi.

 

[geek4mjc]

I too share this fantasy/desire. For me and this is my seeking talking, I want to see if I'm as good as those girls in porn. The fantasy than for me is can I get this guy off faster and be better than any woman he had.

Like wise for me to get a BJ, I want the guy to want it, and suck me like no other woman has. At least better than my wife, who to be honest isn't good at all, I don't tell her though. Hey want to get to home plate, if you know what I mean.

I think my fantasies are fueled by straight porno movies. I noticed that some of thee dudes cocks look so good, Johnny Castle, Chris Strokes, Julian, Peter North to name a few. I love watchin my favourite girl porn stars blow them.

I even fantasize about doing a blow bang, me kneeling with 2, 3, 4 or more guys stood in front of me. The anticipation / fantasy of getting the guys to come on my face is a huge turn on.

My girlfriend gives amazing head and i feel like i wanna give that sensation to others.

 

[v32bone]

Maybe I missd your location but you might want to post your general vicinity. I'm sure you'd get lots of serious offers from this site. Good luck.

 

[CobraLover]

Johnny Castle does straight porn vids? I've only seen pics...dude is ripped.

 

[geek4mjc]

Johnny Castle does straight porn vids? I've only seen pics...dude is ripped.

Yeah, must of done hundreds. One scene i love is when the beautiful Roxy DeVille goes down on him. A classic case of whether i fantasize being him or her, lol.

 

[njfellow2002]

I've read over all the responses and agree with their thoughts, and their support of your exploring a new aspect of yourself. Like many, I consider myself 98% strt, but not cock phobic (done MFM's etc)-- and wondered what touching/jerking off another guys cock was like.

I decided to ease into it in a limited controlled setting...weird as it sounds, but a local adult book store has glory holes. I went in..dropped some coin int he slot and put on some porn I liked and soon enough a cock popped over the hole. I touched, examined, jerked....etc. Basicly--a way to experiement without having to look/touch/kiss/otherwise engage another guy. If you don't like the situation, you can simply leave your booth and slip away..

I never sucked a cock, but have JO'ed a few in the glory hole, and it is a nice feeling to make a cock cum. I can understand why woman enjoy it so much--there is a bit of power in the feeling..kinda the same when you bring a woman to orgasm.

OF course, BE SAFE- Follow common sense and safer sex rules.
Good luck and do let us know of your experiences.
To find a glory hole local, you might want to check out squirt dot org.

 

[KC4U]

Mate, I cane to the same position from the other side. I'd never even seen pussy till I was 21. Did a MMF 3 way with a couple to get him. He wanted me in her first so I thought what the heck??
It was a revelation mate...I fuckin loved it! I'm a gay man but I love pussy !!
My emotional connection is MM but to have kissed the MF phsicak for so long was a mistake. In short, don't deny yourself the chance...