straight guys (friends?) seduced by a large penis (honest discussion please)

[Hellboy0]

Yeah, well. I was str8 until I saw Hellboy's dick. That's all I know for sure.

Nick, I thought it was my amazing ass that turned you, though I do recall looking down at you on your knees and you did seem to be smiling alot.:tongue:

Lurv you!

 

[upone]

Hmmm...might wish that were true, but unless the interest was there in the first place, it ain't gonna happen.

Back me up, Bi/Straight members...

I think the same.

 

[D_Ireonsyd_Colonrinse]

Why is it when straight guys decide they "want to play with a monster cock", they don't like to refer to this as "gay behaviour", only satisfying their "curiosity"?

Ok. FINE! I have decided by the rules of this forum that I am no longer gay in an any way shape or form. I'm merely satisfying my cock curiosity (again and again and again...)

 

[Rocky14441]

Penis envy isn't only for women. I don't know a single guy who doesn't check out other guys in the locker room. the fact is, there are very few 100% straight guys. This is a Bell curve, guys. In a society that consistantly condemns us for even acting gay, let alone sucking dick, there are very few guys out there who really understand their sexual identity.
When you combine the attraction of seeing an anomaly that they may be jealous over or admiring of, the hankering back to those innocent days of jacking off with your buddy, and the latent homosexuality that most straight identified men have some percentage of, yes, your big dick can "convert" the "straight" guys.
And a couple of shots of Jack Daniels never hurts. Be a nice guy, give them an excuse.

 

[B_Nick8]

Nick, I thought it was my amazing ass that turned you...

Hells, the question wasn't 'What turned you into an insatiable Top?' :tongue:

 

[BiItalianBro]

I think the same.

Triple backed... if the predisposition is not there, its not there. Plain and simple. Now figuring out the degree of predisposition is a whole other topic...

 

[surferboy]

i'd imagine an attraction to cocks in general would turn a "straight" guy "bi/gay"

if he has feelings, they've always been there. a guy doesn't all of a sudden "become gay" at the sight of a huge cock.

 

[D_Harry_Crax]

i'd imagine an attraction to cocks in general would turn a "straight" guy "bi/gay" if he has feelings, they've always been there. a guy doesn't all of a sudden "become gay" at the sight of a huge cock.

Smart surfer, once again!

 

[Stephenmass]

I agree with a very few of the others that back it up and I am gay. If they are straight guys, they are straight, period. The mere thought of playing with "dick" vs "jane" disgusts a straight man. If he is having those thoughts of wanting to play with "dick" but mostly "jane" I'd still consider him a bisexual. All a truly straight guy wants is "jane". All a truly gay guy wants is "dick".

The only difference is our choice of bed partners, that's about it.

 

[Primal_Savage]

Yeah, well. I was str8 until I saw Hellboy's dick. That's all I know for sure.

For me, it was seeing Hellboy's tatts, ass and then his cock (in that order).Hellboy, an insatiable top? Better not. That's my role. Otherwise I've been wasting my time trying to get him to SOBE.

 

[CUBE]

Can a guy with a big dick be the one thing that can make a straight guy do gay things ?

Yes, all the time

 

[Hellboy0]

Hells, the question wasn't 'What turned you into an insatiable Top?' :tongue:

I don't even question that, Nick...but what makes you think I am a 'top'??:biggrin1: Yeah, yeah...labels...blah de blah de blah. If the dick fits, wear it, I say.

I so don't care if a guy wants to identify as Straight, Bi, Gay... if he wants to play and we all respect each other then I don't give a shit what 'percentage' he posts inside his shirt collar! Know what you're getting into and just let it be what it is. As for seduction, I don't believe you can seduce ANYone to do ANYthing they don't wanna do in the first place. Alcohol just makes for a convenient lowering of the inhibitions but not the inclination (that was there to begin with).

I'm shutting up now, if Nick will get back to seducing me!

 

[driftingvoid]

Can a guy with a big dick be the one thing that can make a straight guy do gay things ?

Yes, for me. I don't consider myself bi, because I have no emotional connection to men... but, in all honesty, I have no interest in doing anything with anyone who's not big. I was 100% straight a couple years ago, but then I found XTube. I stayed away from all the gay/guy-only stuff for awhile, but then I began to get curious. I wanted to know where I stood-- was I as average as I believed, or were the girls (who unilaterally agreed I was big) actually telling me the truth? So I indulged in the jerk-off/my cock pics on XTube. I really didn't like it, but curiosity got the better of me-- I surfed page after page of pictures, keeping statistics in my head of how I compared to people. Eventually I found out that I wasn't even opening pictures if their thumbnails didn't reveal any sort of large size. More to the point, I realized I actually liked looking at the pics I did open -- at least, when the thumbnails weren't misleading.
To be honest, it was a bit of a "shit. am I gay??" scene for awhile, but I've taken the time to think about it and the truth is: my interest doesn't extend beyond cock. I don't have any emotional interest in guys... I actually don't really even have any interest in anything with guys outside of giving a handjob and maybe a blowjob. For the record, I have nothing against homosexuality-- the "shit. am i gay??" moment was more out of a possible change of lifestyle, and the fact that I had a girlfriend and was madly in love with her.

But, to date, the only thing that even makes me think about trying anything is a large one..

 

[rocketred]

Straight guys can be fascinated by my dick and enjoy watching it with women - or even solo - but it's never been enough on its own to persuade them to play.

It can be a factor though if they've had any thoughts or are submissive for their wife etc

 

[B_Nick8]

I don't even question that, Nick...but what makes you think I am a 'top'??:biggrin1: Yeah, yeah...labels...blah de blah de blah. If the dick fits, wear it, I say.

I so don't care if a guy wants to identify as Straight, Bi, Gay... if he wants to play and we all respect each other then I don't give a shit what 'percentage' he posts inside his shirt collar! Know what you're getting into and just let it be what it is. As for seduction, I don't believe you can seduce ANYone to do ANYthing they don't wanna do in the first place. Alcohol just makes for a convenient lowering of the inhibitions but not the inclination (that was there to begin with).

I'm shutting up now, if Nick will get back to seducing me!

Wait, you wrote that 4 weeks ago?? God, I'm good. God, I'm good at taking my own very sweet time. :biggrin1:

 

[Hellboy0]

Wait, you wrote that 4 weeks ago?? God, I'm good. God, I'm good at taking my own very sweet time. :biggrin1:

I do love a guy who take his time when he's with me....:wink:

 

[deleted296010]

When I was in high school, the father of one of my friends offered me $25 to feel my cock and balls. I needed the cash, what can I say ...

I know that straight guys -- men who never would think about having sex with another male -- check me out. I think some of them wonder what it would be like to have my endowment. I think a lot of those guys lack the guts to ask like my friend's father did...

 

[buddy629]

are all the woman who see and envy another womans body gay? how come a straight guy can't see another guy and think know that he an attractive person without being gay. i think thats homophobic. but honestly all these gay men need to leave the straight men alone if they have interest in another man its not up to you to show them the way unless they come to you looking for a guide.

I'm with you on this one. When I learn that a guy is straight, I am just not interested anymore. I mean, I may still look, and may even lust after him a little...but that is just human nature and testosterone talking. But, I'm otherwise disinterested in him sexually. It's important to recognize that there are gay men out here that respect boundaries between straight and gay men.

And I agree that it's homophobic where straight men are labeled 'gay' just because they admire or look at another mans body or penis. Girls do it all the time, and they don't get that kind of harrassment. All straight men listen...it's ok to look and admire other guys cocks and bodies....doesn't necessarily mean your gay....just means you like to look...and it's ok. That's what LPSG is all about....looking at and chatting about dicks.

 

[BIGBULL29]

Why do so many straight men like to see big dicks in porn? The fact that it's often important tells me that many men are attracted to big dicks. That doesn't mean, however, that that they want to a romantic relationship with him, or even do anything sexual with him. He's just turned on by the big dick.

Labels don't work because human sexuality is too complex (we all have unique sexualities, despite our similarities with other people's)

 

[B_Hung Jon]

Why do so many straight men like to see big dicks in porn? The fact that it's often important tells me that many men are attracted to big dicks. That doesn't mean, however, that that they want to a romantic relationship with him, or even do anything sexual with him. He's just turned on by the big dick.

Labels don't work because human sexuality is too complex (we all have unique sexualities, despite our similarities with other people's)

This topic seems to come up fairly often on this site. I definitely like bigbull's take on this discussion so far. I feel that sexuality is extremely complex but at the same time people have this desire to know who they are or where they fit into some arbitrary scale of value. I think that big dicks are erotic to men because we're attracted or interested in whatever is bigger in many different ways. Maybe it's our need to possess power or strength, and a big dick symbolically represents those things. When I was in Italy, I went to the ancient ruins in Pompei, where there's this one place that has erotic images painted on the walls. One of the images is of this guy with a huge dick that is getting weighed on a scale. It reminded me of how even back thousands of years, people thought of bigger as better, whether it is or not.