Straight guys- have you ever sucked cock
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D_Gunther Snotpole
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roger_dodger
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Not to bust your balls here, pun intended, but wouldn't a better name for this thread be 'Did you ever consider yourself straight but then sucked cock'?
D_Claude_Crowsfoot
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yes i've sucked cock, yes i've bottomed, no i am not gay
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I like to think of it this way, If I can fix a blocked drain or change a tap does that make me a plumber?
if I have played cricket does that make me a cricketer?
Just cause I can or have done these things doesnt mean it is who I am.
so yes I think if a straight guy has sucked dick, fucked a guy or been fucked he is still straight untill that something goes click inside his head and he then identifies as gay
HA! Great analogies!!! I always loved the saying "If I walk into a hamburger shop, am I a hamburger?". I was young when i heard it said about going to a Christian school, and i thought it was cute and charming (as was the guy who said it!).
roger_dodger
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Kind of like if you murdered someone once, does that make you a murderer?
Or if you are into raping for a while but then you stop does that make you a rapist?
Any guy that takes a cock into any orifice of his body is gay. He can still like and prefer woman and could say he would never be with a guy again, but hes still gay. GAY GAY GAY
Phil Ayesho
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me thinks this lady doth protest too much.
Here is how I would break it down...
If you're a man, and you want to french kiss men, cuddle with them, hold hands, fall in love, have relationships with them... then you are gay.
If you have zero interest in men romantically... no interest in kissing or falling in love with one... yet you still like sucking cock... then you are probably just a normal straight man who's very horny and not fucked up in the head like Roger, here.
As I have said before... just about any normal male human CAN have sex with other men, just to get their rocks off... and, under the right circumstances, WILL. Been true thru all of human history.
Men can separate pure lustful pleasure from romantic love.
When a cheating guy tells his wife, "it didn't mean anything" he's telling the truth...
Men without access to release will fuck goats and sheep, if you leave them alone long enough.
Its NORMAL. Ask anyone in prison.
Gay and straight really are not strictly about sex.
Its what gender you are drawn to emotionally.
And Roger? If your "theory" of gay were true... then jerking yourself off makes you gay... you're touching a dick, stroking it, getting it to cum, and enjoying every minute of it.
That is sooo gay.
Here is how I would break it down...
If you're a man, and you want to french kiss men, cuddle with them, hold hands, fall in love, have relationships with them... then you are gay.
If you have zero interest in men romantically... no interest in kissing or falling in love with one... yet you still like sucking cock... then you are probably just a normal straight man who's very horny and not fucked up in the head like Roger, here.
As I have said before... just about any normal male human CAN have sex with other men, just to get their rocks off... and, under the right circumstances, WILL. Been true thru all of human history.
Men can separate pure lustful pleasure from romantic love.
When a cheating guy tells his wife, "it didn't mean anything" he's telling the truth...
Men without access to release will fuck goats and sheep, if you leave them alone long enough.
Its NORMAL. Ask anyone in prison.
Gay and straight really are not strictly about sex.
Its what gender you are drawn to emotionally.
And Roger? If your "theory" of gay were true... then jerking yourself off makes you gay... you're touching a dick, stroking it, getting it to cum, and enjoying every minute of it.
That is sooo gay.
roger_dodger
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No thats bullshit. I have no problem with gay people so I hope your not acting like I'm judging anybody...BUT I don't see how any male can get a guy off with their mouth but claim to be straight.
You make a good argument, but I cannot honestly take it seriously. If you chose to get head or give head to a guy and you are a guy then you are gay. How can you claim to not be gay if you are indulging in some kind of sexual act with a man?
You can tell me that men can still think they are straight and I'll agree with you. But, in my opinion, they are in denial. A truly straight person would have no need to use another of the same sex to get off.
Like I said before I have NO PROBLEM with gay people. I have a gay uncle and he's one of the coolest people I know. From what I can tell most of the gay/bi people on this site are awesome people. On a site as open and honest as this one, I don't think you have to worry about offending someone. I bet most of the truly straight guys that have replied to this agree with me. Even if they say they don't.
I might be totally wrong but its just my opinion. I've been wrong before but this just seems like a no-brainer.
You make a good argument, but I cannot honestly take it seriously. If you chose to get head or give head to a guy and you are a guy then you are gay. How can you claim to not be gay if you are indulging in some kind of sexual act with a man?
You can tell me that men can still think they are straight and I'll agree with you. But, in my opinion, they are in denial. A truly straight person would have no need to use another of the same sex to get off.
Like I said before I have NO PROBLEM with gay people. I have a gay uncle and he's one of the coolest people I know. From what I can tell most of the gay/bi people on this site are awesome people. On a site as open and honest as this one, I don't think you have to worry about offending someone. I bet most of the truly straight guys that have replied to this agree with me. Even if they say they don't.
I might be totally wrong but its just my opinion. I've been wrong before but this just seems like a no-brainer.
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I like a lot of the posts here, and I particularly agree with scottbud and Phil Ayesho. I've seen this issue come up numerous times before, and I feel that there is a sexuality spectrum and the terms gay, straight, and bi are simply points on the line. There is so many spaces in between these points, and there isn't always an absolute.
I, for one, can't imagine myself having a romantic relationship with a guy, and I'm absolutely disgusted by the thought of having full on sex with one. However, I do have times where I feel like jerking off with a guy, and to try sucking cock. I consider myself straight preference.
I, for one, can't imagine myself having a romantic relationship with a guy, and I'm absolutely disgusted by the thought of having full on sex with one. However, I do have times where I feel like jerking off with a guy, and to try sucking cock. I consider myself straight preference.
Couldnt agree with you more Phil Ayesho on this one.
Especially if you take into account what a guys hormones are doing when you are going through puberty - they are everywhere
Especially if you take into account what a guys hormones are doing when you are going through puberty - they are everywhere
About 25 years ago I walked into an adult video arcade for the first time in my life. I went into a booth and was jerking myself off when I noticed a tongue wagging at me through one of the glory holes. I fed him my cock. He sucked. I came. :redface:
I kept going back for more, but never reciprocated. I did however, begin fantasizing about sucking cock. So I got raging drunk, went to the video store and put my lips on the first cock that came through the hole. Been a glory hole fan ever since. And I don't have to get drunk anymore to do it. :biggrin1:
I kept going back for more, but never reciprocated. I did however, begin fantasizing about sucking cock. So I got raging drunk, went to the video store and put my lips on the first cock that came through the hole. Been a glory hole fan ever since. And I don't have to get drunk anymore to do it. :biggrin1:
This thread makes me feel like people are trying to know just how far straight guys can and will cross that sexuality line. I think it's similar to how some guys get off trying to get two girls to kiss, make out, and eat pussy and all that.
I think it's just a matter of inhibition at the end of the day. Your open-minded guys probably wouldn't care to jack off with a guy, just as he is equally comfortable talking about things on his mind or hugging his bud whenever he takes off somewhere. And I don't think contact like that has to be necessarily sexual. For example, if I haven't gotten off in a week or so and my buddy has porn playing -- yeah -- I'm probably going to jack off. And I'm not going to be looking at my buddy's cock and think, "Man, I want a piece of that." No. I'm watching the porn. You do what you're doing; I'll do what I'm doing. Sneak a few glances back and forth; that's fine.
You know, I had a few years to try to figure myself out like most people do in their 20s. I think I was a lot more curious about guys back in college, and I hung out with a group of friends that made it acceptable, so I didn't carry any undue shame about what I was into at the time. A few years go by. I've grown up; my attitudes have changed.
While I live by the idea of "Never say never," I don't feel like I have an attraction to guys. I don't crave the romantic attention. And whatever attraction I do have (probably the same way that I'd admire someone in really good shape or appreciate another guy with a big hang), it's relatively small and well-contained.
Hell, sometimes I don't crave attention around women either, but that's just because I like being single and dating and I don't have plans to change that anytime soon. I like to flirt, meet, and have a good time. If it's a fling, it's okay. If it's dating, that's fine. I can flirt, date, and fuck women. I don't do all that with guys -- hell, I don't do any of that with guys.
I also believe that guys like cock. Not all of them like it so much that they want to cram it in their mouths or asses or ears or whatever, but you know, the dick can be a pretty cool thing to look at. I think men of all persuasions respond to a bigger dick. Because I'm honest about it, I give myself the 10% gay. Not because 1 in 10 partners is a dude. Not because I'm dampening anything. Just because someone has a response doesn't necessarily entail wanting to be sexual with it, and the dude, and all the consequences that carries either.
Besides, there's a hell of a lot of meat around here. Whatever contingency of that is real, it's pretty damn cool to look at...
I think it's just a matter of inhibition at the end of the day. Your open-minded guys probably wouldn't care to jack off with a guy, just as he is equally comfortable talking about things on his mind or hugging his bud whenever he takes off somewhere. And I don't think contact like that has to be necessarily sexual. For example, if I haven't gotten off in a week or so and my buddy has porn playing -- yeah -- I'm probably going to jack off. And I'm not going to be looking at my buddy's cock and think, "Man, I want a piece of that." No. I'm watching the porn. You do what you're doing; I'll do what I'm doing. Sneak a few glances back and forth; that's fine.
You know, I had a few years to try to figure myself out like most people do in their 20s. I think I was a lot more curious about guys back in college, and I hung out with a group of friends that made it acceptable, so I didn't carry any undue shame about what I was into at the time. A few years go by. I've grown up; my attitudes have changed.
While I live by the idea of "Never say never," I don't feel like I have an attraction to guys. I don't crave the romantic attention. And whatever attraction I do have (probably the same way that I'd admire someone in really good shape or appreciate another guy with a big hang), it's relatively small and well-contained.
Hell, sometimes I don't crave attention around women either, but that's just because I like being single and dating and I don't have plans to change that anytime soon. I like to flirt, meet, and have a good time. If it's a fling, it's okay. If it's dating, that's fine. I can flirt, date, and fuck women. I don't do all that with guys -- hell, I don't do any of that with guys.
I also believe that guys like cock. Not all of them like it so much that they want to cram it in their mouths or asses or ears or whatever, but you know, the dick can be a pretty cool thing to look at. I think men of all persuasions respond to a bigger dick. Because I'm honest about it, I give myself the 10% gay. Not because 1 in 10 partners is a dude. Not because I'm dampening anything. Just because someone has a response doesn't necessarily entail wanting to be sexual with it, and the dude, and all the consequences that carries either.
Besides, there's a hell of a lot of meat around here. Whatever contingency of that is real, it's pretty damn cool to look at...
Let people call themselves whatever they want. If you don't agree with them just accept that they use the word differently than you do and let it go. Gay, straight, bisexual, pansexual, whatever. Just bang whoever you think is hot and let everybody else do the same.
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