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I remember back in junior high school and continuing through high school the guys who were very well endowed (black guys especially) somehow knew how we very small endowed guys (most of us jewish) stared in awe at their size. before long it was quite common and well known among the student body that the hung guys would enjoy allowing us small guys to jerk them off as well as perform oral.
 

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In high school, a friend and I always jerked off together to porn. I'll admit that it was exciting and a lot of fun. We never actually jerked each other off though. Another friend and I did jerk each other off one time, which resulted on intense orgasms and cum shots from both of us ;). Its these types of things that make my 30% gay...
 

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For instance, in videos there will be two 25 year old "straight guys" jerking each other off, and I just can't say that they are straight...
If you're doing that, you must be some percent gay.
(don't kill me)
True at 25, no way, necessarily, at 12, 13 - if you're suggesting that. I mutually jerked off from time to time, at that age, with my closest buddy. We were randy little buggars, too young to get the girls. At 16, like others here, it was - wahoo! - p*ssy all the way and has been ever since. :biggrin1:
 

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Straight women don't jill each other off or eat each other out do they? ;) Straight men don't have sex with, masturbate with or perform other sexual acts with other men and still get to consider themselves "straight". Those are my feelings. I'm not a bigot, and I'm all for people doing what they want. I just think it's denying who you are if you claim to be something you are not when you clearly act the opposite of what you claim.
 

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I agree with your last two sentences but not with your overall message.

Being gay has to do with sexual feelings, plain and simple. It has to do with a man's SEXUAL attraction to another man. I have emotional feelings towards my good guy friends but those aren't feelings of lust or desire. By the same token, you could take the meanest SOB who hates the world and everyone in it but if he wants to have sex with other men he's gay. Emotional feelings don't tell the whole story.

The difficulty, as you've noted, is that there is a wide range of orientations between being "straight" and "gay". If you have a penis and enjoy sucking or jerking off another guy's penis that's a gay activity. However. it's possible to enjoy that and enjoy women sexually as well.

The guys who think just because they like to get their dick sucked by a man every now and then and that doesn't make it gay are completely fooling themselves.

Nothing tickles me more than listening to a straight man pontificate on sexual orientation. Most straight men are so limited in their sexual experience and knowledge, they wouldn't know what "homosexual" was if it hit 'em upside the head.

There are all sorts of degrees of sexual orientation in humans, and they're not even static throughout one's life. Alfred Kinsey was the first Western scientist to study this in depth, and he created that famous (albeit outdated) "Kinsey Scale" to describe this. A perfect Kinsey 0 was 100% heterosexual in desire and deed. A perfect Kinsey 6 was 100% homosexual in desire and deed. Most men he studied fell somewhere in the middle.

However, a lot of the "I'm straight" or "I'm gay" stuff is about self-labeling and self-identification. If a man perceives himself as "straight," then it's not up to you and me to come along and tell him he's gay. A lot of men fall significantly on the heterosexual side of the scale, but also find themselves erotically interested in other men from time to time. Yet, these men live their lives as heterosexual men (having meaningful sexual relationships and/or marriages with women, fathering children, etc.), and identify as such.

If that's the case, then more power to them. As long as they're not hurting anyone (as they often are when they do the "down low" thing), no one should judge them.
 

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Straight guys don't jerk each other off. Maybe you people aren't bright enough to know what a homosexaul is. Having any type of sexual relationship with a man means you are gay. Get over it.

Spoken like a true American...someone who is taught to judge people's sexual orientation by simple things like whether they've ever had a sexual experience with a guy. It may surprise you to know, John Wayne, that many people in the world have a more liberal (e.g., logical) approach to human sexuality.
 

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Straight women don't jill each other off or eat each other out do they? ;) Straight men don't have sex with, masturbate with or perform other sexual acts with other men and still get to consider themselves "straight". Those are my feelings. I'm not a bigot, and I'm all for people doing what they want. I just think it's denying who you are if you claim to be something you are not when you clearly act the opposite of what you claim.
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But straight kids often do. It's a very common part of adolescence. If you don't think any of your friends were doing it at age 11 or 12 then you're naive. I've even had very hetero guys admit to me they messed around once or twice at that age.
 

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can change my lpsg profile, quite readily
for this deed'
its as easy as that
enz

one of the things i imagine happens more often than Human Nature allows folk to admit, forget about the str biz.
 

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not that it matters, but lets be realistic, if you are jerking another guy off, you arnt "straight' anymore... you are what is called Bisexual
 

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So many people lining up to appoint themselves the "Sexual Orientation Police."

To everyone who's so gung-ho to "set the record straight," get this "straight." If you've never had even one same-sex encounter, unlike the guys who've shared their stories in this thread, then you don't know what the hell you're talking about and are in no position to comment.

The prevalence of the "if you've jerked off another dude, then you're gay" mentality in this day and age astounds me. Doesn't it remind anybody of the old poll tax laws that decreed that if even one drop of your ancestral blood was black, that makes you black? You know who wrote those laws? Fucking racists!

The only reason to hold to these imbecilic notions that anything less than 100% heterosexual experiences relegates a persons sexual identity to "OMG!! YUR TOTES GAY!!!! STOP KIDDING YURSLF & ADMIT IT, HOMO!!! HAHALOLZZ!!!!111!1!!1!" is if you believe that homosexuality is a disease or some other form of blight that can taint someone's otherwise pure, superior heterosexuality. In other words, your homophobia is showing.

Stop and think about the implications of the things you say, before you go shoving people who never asked your opinion into tiny boxes so that the big, chaotic world can make more sense to your frightened, tiny little brains.

Also, pull your heads out. That might help, too.
 
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I agree with your last two sentences but not with your overall message.

Being gay has to do with sexual feelings, plain and simple. It has to do with a man's SEXUAL attraction to another man. I have emotional feelings towards my good guy friends but those aren't feelings of lust or desire. By the same token, you could take the meanest SOB who hates the world and everyone in it but if he wants to have sex with other men he's gay. Emotional feelings don't tell the whole story.

The difficulty, as you've noted, is that there is a wide range of orientations between being "straight" and "gay". If you have a penis and enjoy sucking or jerking off another guy's penis that's a gay activity. However. it's possible to enjoy that and enjoy women sexually as well.

The guys who think just because they like to get their dick sucked by a man every now and then and that doesn't make it gay are completely fooling themselves.