Closet cases? What crap. I'm out and gay, but have, on occasion, hooked up with straight men. Sex is sex. Sexuality has a lot more to do with the feelings and attraction to the other person. Fucking a gay man...getting blown by a gay man doesn't make someone not straight. That's ridiculous.
I'll agree to the above statement to an extent.. however... sexuality has to do not only with feeling and attraction but also with desire and action. I'm prone to go along with the Kinsey theory... NO ONE is completely straight, or completely gay. We are all sexual beings. We have all been curious about the same or opposite sex at one point in our lives. and chances are we've all at least experimented.. and even if we haven't it's due to fear of the unknown.. and fear of enjoying oneself. I myself identify as 100% homosexual simply because I am perfectly incapable of forming romantic attachment to females... plus, in most cases, they don't do much for me sexually. However, I have, in the past messed around with females.. I got off... and I enjoyed it... because even though our mentality counts for more sexuality wise than anything else.. we are all also biological beings. If it feels good.. and it gets certain chemicals in your brain going... you are going to enjoy it whether or not you mentally identify with that gender in a sexual format. In essence, everyone is bisexual.. to some extent.
Have you, the gay man who accused these men of being closet cases, forgotten that many gay men fuck women before they have the strength or courage to come out? Does fucking these women make them not gay? Pshaw.
Sex is beautiful. Sometimes the partner doesn't matter nearly as much as the release the sex provides.
As for this above statement from you however.... you are literally contradicting yourself. Many gay men do fuck women before having the strength or courage to come out... but that's just it.... it's BEFORE they've come out. Yes, they're still gay even though they've fucked women if that's how they identify themselves for whatever reason.. but what you're implying is that these so called straight individuals simply are trying something out to figure themselves out... which really isn't what this discussion is about.. it's about desire... not confusion. We're talking about men who know they like the vag... identify as 100% straight.. but still would allow a guy to go down on them. Not men who have been told their whole lives that it's right for a guy to be with another guy.. are trying to fit into societal standards.. and thus do so for a while.. then realize they like women, and thus "come out" and thereafter are with women. You just can't compare it like that.
That's my opinions on the matter. Take them or leave them, but at least read them and try to understand. Perhaps then the light will click and we'll stop getting all these repeat posts about the same god forsaken thing. ::sigh::