Straight Men and Their Assholes

[CBS1]

Honey , your friend is bisexual...straight men do not let men suck their cocks.


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Honey

I am new here as you see i dont post much in foruns:redface: but wildhoney you are completly wrong.:biggrin1: :biggrin1:

 

[Gillette]

Okay, back the truck up. Nobody wants true and independent thought, otherwise we would have to redefine ourselves as all human. I mean we all know that straight people are one kind of human and gay people are another kind of human. They are completely different in physiology as well as philosophy, so there is no way there could possibly be straight guys who enjoy ass play--that automatically makes you gay. Which would mean that if there are any of you gay men out there who don't like ass play, there is no question you are only fooling yourselves no matter how many men you sleep with!
I mean the point to this is obviously to define who is pure and who is not based on sexual activity. Experimental and curious actions or passions do not play a role in self-definition. So its simple, if you fool around with others outside of your designated socio-sexual definition or in ways others would not, you are obviously not pure. Now that we have reached such a grand conclusion I am sure the Natzis would be very proud. Crank up the ovens!

I'm hoping this was tongue in cheek.

 

[Matthew]

I'm hoping this was tongue in cheek.

I think the rainbow peace sign gives it away. :tongue:

 

[Mattness]

Well, a guilty pleasure of mine that turns me on BIG time is in straight porn when the guy is fucking the girl and it's a shot from behind and you can see his ass and hole. I guess since it's kinda "taboo" (see above) it kinda turns me on that I'm seeing it and that he can't see me doing so.

 

[chavous]

I Told A Straight Girlfriend About Eating Ass. Her Boyfriend Wrote Me A Thankyou Note. He Loves It!

 

[Gillette]

I think the rainbow peace sign gives it away. :tongue:

D'oh!:redface:

I hardly look at the avatars anymore. Whoopsie!

 

[lostmymind]

I'm hoping this was tongue in cheek.

I was thinking it's tongue between cheeks.

 

[WildHoney]

...Too bad everyone can't just get over the whole gay/strathingand enjoy whatever happens to feel pleasurable to their bodies

Mathew I agree with you 100 %. I'd love everyone to be sexually open and expeimental.

Having said that, just because someone is open and experimental does not mean that he/she will enjoy playing with people of the same sex and is uptight homophobic.

lables such as bi/gay/straight are just defintions of a preferences, not signs and signals of homophobia.

If you allow someone to be gay, you must also allow someone to be straight . Completely straight men do exsist, and they are not sexually attracted nor do they want blow job or rimming from other men.

We define ourselfs in here and in life by labels, it is a quick and easy way of explaining who we are, Of course there is always much more to it than the surface " i am a tall white hertosexualexual woman" but it gets the point across quickly, as does, i am gay, bi, straight.

My entire point was that straight men in definition, do not regualry let men give them head or lick their arses. If they do I would consider them bisexual. I couldnot care less what your sexual preference is, but there are definitions that seperate our preferences.

x Honey

 

[lostmymind]

I don't presume homosexuality doesn't exist, but I dont engage in it in any way.

In my opinion, there is NOTHING sexual about a butt. Shit comes out of it. That's my final answer Regis. Some say it's a erogenous, to which I repeat, shit comes out of it. lol

I have however heard of some straight men, who are one hundred percent straight, not "straight" with quotation marks, who say that they like some anal play. HOWEVER, these straight men generally keep that to themselves and their partner. They don't go around telling their friends, because if one straight man goes to a group of straight men talking about he likes to get his ass hole played with, he'd probably get a response anywhere from the guys laughing at him, to the guy seriously thinking he was gay and avoiding him. I've been in groups with lots of straight men, and I have yet to, in all the various buddy groups and crews I've hung with, experience a guy desribe liking his ass played with. Generally a straight man who likes that would keep it to himself.

Now personally, I have a spot right about my right ass cheek, where if you touch it, it's almost like you're touching some magic nerve, it's makes me tense up and feel pleasure and all that. But that doesnt' count as my butthole or anywhere around there. It's just above the cheek, so I guess that counts as half-lower back, half-right ass-cheek lol. But as far as my actual ass/anus is concerned, absolutely not. Even if it was erogenous for me, which it wasn't, I would be completely disgusted by anyone touching it. I myself don't even touch it except when washing. It's just uncanny and unnerving to have someone touch it and most straight men, not "straight" probably would agree. The straight men who do find it erogenous, probably wouldn't tell you unless they're the extremely sexually liberated kind....which may mean that they might be "straight". lol

As I said, I know of straight men who find assholes erogenous, but they don't blab about it, and usually they keep it to themselves and their partner. Most straight men however just based on the principals of straight-cademia simply wouldn't allow it.

HaagenDazs, I think you're suffering from brain-freeze.

Okay, so if I like my wife to tongue my ass that means I'm homosexual? Damn! Would it be okay if I'm homosexual but not attracted to men in any way? That might work for me.

 

[WildHoney]

I was surprised to read this, actually. I think I assumed that since you were so open about who you had sex with, you'd also be the same way about particular acts

:smile: Snozdan, I am very open sexually as you can probably tell from my posts, but that does not mean i have no brakes, morals or sexual preferences when it comes to sex.

I have things I like and dont like, and also things that i have tried and will never do again, it is just a individual preference. I am a pretty giving lover in all other aspects of sex, i just dont enjoy rimming men.

I think if my hubby loved it and actually asked for it and wanted it, i would make more of an effort to do it for him, but he has no desire for it ( perhaps he would if I loved it...who knows...he just doesnt ask) ..and the men we play with, well no one has ever asked me to do it....so I can avoid it witout seeming selfish :biggrin1:

:tongue:

Honey

 

[WildHoney]

By the way, i am not insinuating in ANY way that arsehole play is an exclusively gay thing. If it was, why do I love it so much?


I was refering to a previous post about a friend licking another friends arse and giving him blow jobs because his girfriend wouldn;'t do it....and I stated that man was probably bisexual...and this thread was asking straight men their thoughts on their arseholes

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Honey

 

[SpoiledPrincess]

I don't care what anyone says or how they justify it, if a guy is performing sexual acts with another guy he isn't entirely straight.

I don't know why there's some sort of automatic assumption that if a guy likes anal play of any sort he can't be 100% straight - I would imagine that the anuses of both straight and gay men have exactly the same nerve endings and the exact same prostate. GUYS IF IT'S A WOMAN DOING IT TO YOU IT'S A HETEROSEXUAL ACT.

I think that because of this assumption many people make that only gay guys like bum love many straight guys who do like their arse licking/fingering/dildoeing are a little reluctant to admit it but trust me there are a hell of a lot of straight men who do but won't openly admit it. I think that women who will rim/play with their men's arse aren't in the majority so perhaps some men take this into account and think most women don't like it and are therefore reluctant to ask for it or admit it freely. It can be sen as a fairly taboo act so perhaps that cuts both ways and some women can be a little reluctant to do it in case her guy says 'ick you dirty bitch.' I'd say that most women don't like it but some do. I love it.

Some people will say 'but it's not clean poo comes out of there' - piss and blood comes out of a pussy, body parts are washable so what's the biggy. If someone says it's dirty I'd reply 'why are you with someone with questionable hygiene?'

 

[rawbone8]

I get pleasure from ass play but it is within a context of comfort and heiny preparedness. I don't usually expect it and have been surprised (shocked) by the venture, initially. If I knew ahead of time that we were going there, I'd want to step back in time to "clean house" to be fully prepared. So there is a sudden fear that it might be really embarassing simply because of hygiene. I haven't ever washed out my ass, (beyond normally showering thoroughly) for any lover, expecting it to become a playground. Thus it isn't a comfortable situation to be rimmed or penetrated without confidence in my body's readiness. That can make me feel too self conscious and distract from my pleasure.

I love the sensation when a partner knows what she's doing with my ass, but I can also live without it. The perineum area is quite adequate to stimulate to get me groaning with pleasure.

 

[D_Aston Asstonne]

mine is used for shitting and farting.NOTHING MORE!

 

[earllogjam]

mine is used for shitting and farting.NOTHING MORE!

Don't some people talk thru their asses too? I think people stick their heads in there once in a while. :biggrin1:

 

[Theresallkindofvioces]

I am straight and my straight friends and I are not afraid to admit that they are down if a girl is trying to rim their asshole, Ive even told my friends and been told by my friends that they would let their girlfriend fuck them with a strap on if they wanted to.

 

[danbala]

The Anus is not a sex organ and there is no physiological pleasure assosiated with it. the only pleasure from an ass hole is psychological(imaginary), and is not worth the risk, the pain, or the filth. Rimming is very unsanitary and is a good way to spread HPV, Hep, and Ecoli. Besides don't you kiss that mounth?

 

[danerain]

The Anus is not a sex organ and there is no physiological pleasure assosiated with it. the only pleasure from an ass hole is psychological(imaginary), and is not worth the risk, the pain, or the filth. Rimming is very unsanitary and is a good way to spread HPV, Hep, and Ecoli. Besides don't you kiss that mounth?

Doesn't M2M also state that gay anal sex is homophobic?

 

[rob_just_rob]

Honey , your friend is bisexual...straight men do not let men suck their cocks.
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Honey

I tend to agree with this.

It's much more likely that "straight" men who let other men suck them are really, REALLY uncomfortable with the idea that they might even be a teensy bit gay. So they rationalize.

It's been my experience that this type of guy is most often found in the stereotypical macho cultures that express a vehement opposition to (or denial of) homosexuality.

 

[danbala]

Yes the act is very one sided and is more about domination and power than mutual pleasure. It suports the misguided belief that men who love men are some how less manly and when the guys start to belive that they stop beliving in their own masculinity. Anal "sex" is in conformity with the belive that sex must be penetrative and between a man and a woman, but in this case one of the guys pretends to be a woman. Check out the site in my signiture feild I'm not the greatest at paraphrasing.