No, it's not the same: some very gay men have an aversion to women's bodies, and thus will never really fantasize about women.
They do? And gay men have straight fantasies?
Tbh, I'd doubt this unless it's more of a theoretical mind-wander than a masturbatory fantasy - or they're bi.
"Mirror reflection" means "reflections of ourselves"; that is to say, our maleness reflected in others such as in the penis.
It's very obvious that men are attracted to penises - just look at straight porn where there abound without end. Men love to see big, strong and handsome penises - the ideal in physical masculinity. The sight of their own penis very much arouses then (exceptions), and so seeing others- particulary the "ideal" ones also evoke some level of arousal (men,in general, get aroused from the mere sight of penises). So this is more than mere aesthetic appreciation; it's a form of real sexual attraction. But, again, it says very little about the true sexual orientation of any man.
^^ Who is the source for this hypothesis, you seem so keen to promote and endorse?
It seems seems to be a bit of an idée fixe running through a number of your posts...
It's the way you claim to speak on behalf of all men that is really beginning to grate...
If you could just begin to speak in the first person, or else give us a source for these sweeping generalisations you insist on including in your posts.