Straight men have gay fantasies.

[rbkwp]

GAY homo and PROUD


Catchcry of a few, in the 60s ... ha
cant say i was one of them
too shit scared and unconfident
penis or not in front of me ..
Fck the talk of a large penis
a penis is a penis,as long as it is functioning is all OK!

 

[B_verilux]

Good point. I mean, men post pictures of themselves on bodybuilding.com. But ... I don't know. That's the weird thing about men. Women can compare and discuss their bodies with one another openly all the time, with no threat to their sexuality. Men aren't the same. Male sexuality -- or at least heterosexuality -- is far more regimented.

To answer your question: yes, I do think many people think that if a guy so much as sees or shows his penis to another man that means he's gay. This is why there are endless "shower" discussions on this forum, about how the younger guys don't want to get naked in the locker room. Nudity these days means "gay."

How is it gay for a man to show off his big dick on the internet, and consequently, compare, as is the case on LPSG? So any "disclosure" thereof makes you gay? Are we men supposed to just act like are penises exist on our bodies, but never expose, particularly where are males can see it? If you catch a peak, or dare to compare, or have a sense of pride over your big man meant .... you might be a homo!:biggrin1: Come on!

 

[D_Ida_Ho]

Same sex fantasies common among straight men - National Sexual Health | Examiner.com

discuss? are the straight guys surprised by this?

Not surprised at all. Studies are done all the time that can prove just about anything for anyone at any given moment.

I don't exactly know how many but sure straight men have same sex fantasies. There are also straight men who have different species fantasies, inanimate object fantasies, extraterrestrial fantasies and defecation fantasies. Shit happens.

What i am surprised about, is the sheer and unequivocal fear that some have with being/ "labeled" bi-sexual or god forbid homosexual. The gay, lesbian and bi-sexual community have fought for respect that some run away from.

 

[BIGBULL29]

Good point. I mean, men post pictures of themselves on bodybuilding.com. But ... I don't know. That's the weird thing about men. Women can compare and discuss their bodies with one another openly all the time, with no threat to their sexuality. Men aren't the same. Male sexuality -- or at least heterosexuality -- is far more regimented.

To answer your question: yes, I do think many people think that if a guy so much as sees or shows his penis to another man that means he's gay. This is why there are endless "shower" discussions on this forum, about how the younger guys don't want to get naked in the locker room. Nudity these days means "gay."

But they can watch all big dick porn they want without being labeled such (as long as there is pussy and titty in the picture).:biggrin1:

(PS: Don't look at your dick when you jack off as you might turn gay- imagine it's a pussy.)

 

[BIGBULL29]

But even male bodybuilders and male strippers easily get accused of being gay, even though "muscles" are a very masculine trait and seducing women is encouraged among males. The reality is, though, is that when men are sexually objectified or beautified (male modeling, porn studs, bodybuilders, etc), it is considered weakness as that's what women are to be: sexually objectified and weak. And in our culture, we've come to equate male sexual objectification as weakness, and therefore "gay".

That said, it's still very admirable among men to have a big phallus as well muscles (all those big dicks in porn!), but don't "objectify" yourself with these physical traits too much in every day life- stay in moderation; otherwise, you look "gay". Ironically, though, if you're a straight porn stud (even those who have made gay/bi/trans porn) who is popular for being "hung", it is fine and dandy to be known just for that (big dicked stud fuckin' pussy). You can walk commando with your big hose hanging down to your knees, and all the dudes will high-5 you. They could care less about your overall looks, or at least they are not supposed to. However, male strippers, male models and male bodybuilders can forget being high-fived by everyday straight men (bodybuilding competitions: the exception).

Go and tell someone you're looking at big penises on the internet to compare, etc, and many people will quickly call you gay without realizing how silly they sound (Duh....it's quite natural... I have a penis myself...nothing that strange...I see them in straight porn galore anyways). You can watch a straight big-dick black gangbang with your buddies (all oohing and awing over the size of the cocks) without no such accusation as the presence of the pussy in the scene validates the movie for viewing among straight men. Go figure!

I am just saying out loud what others already know deep down, provided that they just stop and think a second.

 

[Amaethon]

Ever since coming to LPSG, I've learned that a lot of hetero guys like to have some sexual experience with guys, but I highly doubt you can say it's all of them. I'm homosexual and have never had a true fantasy about a woman.

 

[Smaccoms]

Personally, I believe the majority of the human population is pansexual, and that the gay/straight binary is mostly just an illusion. The social construction of it is by no means solid, or even effective. It has so many holes, rips, and other such problems I'm surprised society continues to use it as a "fundamental truth".

 

[rbkwp]

No
argument with me on that Smaccoms .. ha

 

[Smaccoms]

But even male bodybuilders and male strippers easily get accused of being gay, even though "muscles" are a very masculine trait and seducing women is encouraged among males. The reality is, though, is that when men are sexually objectified or beautified (male modeling, porn studs, bodybuilders, etc), it is considered weakness as that's what women are to be: sexually objectified and weak. And in our culture, we've come to equate male sexual objectification as weakness, and therefore "gay".

That said, it's still very admirable among men to have a big phallus as well muscles (all those big dicks in porn!), but don't "objectify" yourself with these physical traits too much in every day life- stay in moderation; otherwise, you look "gay". Ironically, though, if you're a straight porn stud (even those who have made gay/bi/trans porn) who is popular for being "hung", it is fine and dandy to be known just for that (big dicked stud fuckin' pussy). You can walk commando with your big hose hanging down to your knees, and all the dudes will high-5 you. They could care less about your overall looks, or at least they are not supposed to. However, male strippers, male models and male bodybuilders can forget being high-fived by everyday straight men (bodybuilding competitions: the exception).

Go and tell someone you're looking at big penises on the internet to compare, etc, and many people will quickly call you gay without realizing how silly they sound (Duh....it's quite natural... I have a penis myself...nothing that strange...I see them in straight porn galore anyways). You can watch a straight big-dick black gangbang with your buddies (all oohing and awing over the size of the cocks) without no such accusation as the presence of the pussy in the scene validates the movie for viewing among straight men. Go figure!

I am just saying out loud what others already know deep down, provided that they just stop and think a second.

A lot of what you say is further reinforced by the "style" that is encouraged for "muscular men" to wear. Baggy, large, and generally something that does not expose their physique. It is somehow expected that men put all this effort to create this look while at the same time trying to hide it as much as possible.

Go figure...

 

[Smaccoms]

No
argument with me on that Smaccoms .. ha

+ 1

Thanks!

 

[Amaethon]

Personally, I believe the majority of the human population is pansexual, and that the gay/straight binary is mostly just an illusion. The social construction of it is by no means solid, or even effective. It has so many holes, rips, and other such problems I'm surprised society continues to use it as a "fundamental truth".

What you may want to believe is not what is actually true. Making broad statements like this really immature.

I cannot see myself in a romantic relationship with a woman (or anything else, according to your "pansexualism") or anything else. When I hadn't accepted myself as a homosexual man, I tried to force myself into heterosexual thought patterns, etc. They did not work out. I was becoming depressed and hated myself for liking guys when I could not like girls.

Now how is everyone pansexual again?

 

[BIGBULL29]

A lot of what you say is further reinforced by the "style" that is encouraged for "muscular men" to wear. Baggy, large, and generally something that does not expose their physique. It is somehow expected that men put all this effort to create this look while at the same time trying to hide it as much as possible.

Go figure...

Gotcha!

tight = gay
baggy = straight
tight + baggy = bi

Ron Jeremy gets a lot of "stud" respect from straight men because he's physically gross with a big cock. He can parade his big fucker off around other men without any fear of backlash; in fact, he probably gets high-fived all the time, even at the urinal. This may be true for most "straight" porn studs, but even a bit more so if they're ugly.

 

[Smaccoms]

What you may want to believe is not what is actually true. Making broad statements like this really immature.

I cannot see myself in a romantic relationship with a woman (or anything else, according to your "pansexualism") or anything else. When I hadn't accepted myself as a homosexual man, I tried to force myself into heterosexual thought patterns, etc. They did not work out. I was becoming depressed and hated myself for liking guys when I could not like girls.

Now how is everyone pansexual again?

Did you seriously just try to disprove pansexuality without even referencing it? This is what I just heard:

When I was in the closet, I tried being straight! It didn't work out though because I am gay!
Foolish question displaying my naivete for thinking I just disproved the existence of one particular non-monosexual form.

If your happy identifying as gay and pretending that people like me don't really exist, that's great. Seriously, I don't really care and I hope you find whatever it is you want out of life. :biggrin1:

I'm insulted when you attack me for not thinking and acting like you.

...speaking of immaturity.

Again, I hope you find your own happiness (whatever that means to you).

Mr. Smaccoms

 

[Smaccoms]

Gotcha!

tight = gay
baggy = straight
tight + baggy = bi

ROFLMFAO

Ron Jeremy gets a lot of "stud" respect from straight men because he's physically gross with a big cock. He can parade his big fucker off around other men without any fear of backlash; in fact, he probably gets high-fived all the time, even at the urinal. This may be true for most "straight" porn studs, but even a bit more so if they're ugly.

I have never actually heard this argument before. I am quite intrigued, and how it fits into my thinking of hegemonic masculinity. Does this simply mean that penis size can be added to that list of things that defines the "ideal" found above the entire vertical system? I'm surprised that hadn't actually occurred to me before now...

If I described something incorrectly here about the concepts I specify, please let me know. It was unintentional, as I responded her quite quickly.

 

[rbkwp]

Ron Jeremy gets a lot of "stud" respect from straight men because he's physically gross-- and possibly NO competition to the Straights, in the looks dept.



I agree with THAT!



Does that mean they also like my hunky butch favs, Ernest Borgnine & Danny De Vito, mmmmm competition?? ha





Personally, I believe the majority of the human population is pansexual,


That covers your mention me thinks Smaccs

 

[B_verilux]

I kid you not. I've actually heard that argument: that for a man to masturbate is even gay, because he is, after all, touching a man! LOL :biggrin1: Okay, it was Howard Stern who said it, and he was joking.... but, in a way, the framework of thinking is there. We could get all deep and philosophical about it. I think it's about the Puritan founding of the USA; their thinking was that the body and sexuality is dirty. Real men "transcend" the sexual/sensual/physical world. Women (in the Puritanical way of thinking) are of course inferior to men, and therefore cannot overcome the sensual/sexual nature. In this (strange) way of thinking, gay men are likely in the same category.

About the big dicks in straight porn: I think you got it; as long as those big dicks are fucking women, it's okay. I guess the rationale is that the straight guys watching it are imagining that the big dick is their own. Still, there is more than just a hint of homo-eroticism in this, obviously. My thought has always been that the only truly heterosexual porn for heterosexual men would be all-female pornography; pornography where women have sex with other women. If a man is involved, then that means that in some way a man is enjoying seeing another man perform sexually.

But, I mean.... I don't really care about this stuff anyway. LOL

But they can watch all big dick porn they want without being labeled such (as long as there is pussy and titty in the picture).:biggrin1:

(PS: Don't look at your dick when you jack off as you might turn gay- imagine it's a pussy.)

 

[Amaethon]

Did you seriously just try to disprove pansexuality without even referencing it? This is what I just heard:

When I was in the closet, I tried being straight! It didn't work out though because I am gay!
Foolish question displaying my naivete for thinking I just disproved the existence of one particular non-monosexual form.

If your happy identifying as gay and pretending that people like me don't really exist, that's great. Seriously, I don't really care and I hope you find whatever it is you want out of life. :biggrin1:

I'm insulted when you attack me for not thinking and acting like you.

...speaking of immaturity.

Again, I hope you find your own happiness (whatever that means to you).

Mr. Smaccoms

Did I say you weren't? No. That would be putting words in my mouth. You also avoided everything that I actually and perceived it as an attack on you.

 

[houtx48]

I have straight fantasies sometimes so that revelation is not too odd.

 

[hung9mike]

I think sexuality is much more complicated than what only two labels ("straight" and "gay") suggest, so it doesn't particularly surprise me that this could be the case. But I also think that many of us have idle fantasies that we have no intention of realizing.

 

[deleted837872]

I also think sexuality isnt confined to gay or straight but also think if a straight man fantasizes something sexually with another man, realized or not, doesn't make him straight but in denial.
Im sure there are a lot of naysayers to this, but my opinion, Im entitled to voice it so dont hop all over me for it.