Straight Men Who Look At Other Guys Dicks?

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  1. sammywoof

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    Hi, everyone. My first thread so bear with me!

    After reading the homophobic comments left by coldstoli about gay guys posting comments about his cock, and the filthy pictures and videos with sound (Gay/Bi Men) have posted. ((Yes he watched them!))

    It got me to thinking about all you 100% Straight Men who look at, and leave comments about other guys big cocks.

    As a 100% gay guy I don’t look at pictures of a woman’s pussy as it does nothing for me sexually, I'm simply not interested.

    Could you tell me what do you get from looking at other men? As it's not sexual why are you interested? I’m just curious:confused::confused::confused:!
     
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    If a genuinely straight guy looks at another man's penis, it's usually just a curiosity/comparison thing. There's no real arousal. There are however lots of straight guys who like the look of a big dick and would like to imagine the way it would appear on them, or else to envision it entering a woman and seeing her struggle to accommodate it, for example. So in that sense it can also be a kind of fantasy/admiration. Anything beyond that and I think a guy needs to adjust his orientation percentage a little.
     
  3. hung

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    Even though I drive a Dodge Truck, I have been known to look at Ford and Cheve Trucks. Nothing wrong with looking. It is always nice to see what others have etc.
     
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    For me I'd say comparison. And a big dick, is after all, a big dick, so offer commendation. For me, I've always had kind of an interest in the varying shapes and styles of foreskins so it's cool to see what everybody's got in that territory. Another factor is just that dicks, in general, look cool.

    Kind of like being a guy or a woman doesn't mean you're no good at judging how good looking a person of the same sex is - there's just no sexual attraction there.

    m2c
     
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    Thanks slant,
    but as most of the guys pictures on here are really BIG why would you need to look at or imagine something bigger? Your self for example you seem to be packin plenty. :redface:
    One of the things you said was ‘or else to envision it entering a woman and seeing her struggle to accommodate it, for example’
    I have read so many posts about guys who touch bottom on their wives/ female partners in (Vaginal sex) that to try and push so much meat in to such a limited space has the same result every time. It won’t all go in! How much do you need to try and push in for it to be a turn on?:confused:
    How big is enough?
    Maybe it’s because I am a bottom and always have the perspective of the accommodating a large penis. I’m no where near as big as the guys on here 7” or so and am happy with the size of my knob I don‘t suffer penis envy, so I look at big dicks for enjoyment maybe I just can‘t understand the straight mans take on it lol!:rolleyes: - Thanks!
     
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    I see your points hung & uncut1982
    It's probably that I just cant take the sexual nature of a mans penis away. You see it as a guide/comparison I see it as… well a cock something to have fun with!
    And Hung your completely right about being able to identify a good looking person of the same sex without sexual attraction coming into it.
     
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    100% straight guys are extremely rare....so not sure how many accurate answers you will get! They seem to be as rare as 100% gay guys....as all or most of us have some bisexual in us...maybe not enough to end up with the opposite sex...but enough to think about an encounter whether oral or a good ass pounding or intercourse.
     
  8. Jason

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    Lots of sense in comments above. Few guys are absolutely 100% straight. It is comparison or curiosity, without arousal. In the case of a big cock it is imagining we have that big cock (which is how straight porn often works, with the viewer imagining he is the guy getting sex).

    I suspect there is also something subconscious where guys instinctively respect guys who have a large cock. Guys want a big cock not for the benefit of their girls (after a certain size girls just aren't bothered, and a large cock may even cause problems) but to impress other guys. I think this is instinctive and subconscious, and transcends the gay/straight divide.
     
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    You can appreciate a big dick without finding it sexually attractive.
     
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    I believe that a man can be predominantly heterosexual and be obsessed with or turned on by another man's cock. As long as he is really not interested in playing with it, I wouldn't qualify him as "gay" or even "bi." A straight man can get "turned on" by another man's cock on grounds that he either envies it, wants to dominate it with his own, or simply admire it (yes, I can turned on by another man's cock simply out of admiration, minus both envy and desire to dominate).

    I get turned on by comparing my dick to other men, but I think that is has nothing to do with being either gay or straight. It's the competition that this turning me on. When I compare, I'm not in any way thinking about touching or being touched by another man in a sexual way; I'm getting off on thinking I'm bigger than him.

    In straight porn scenes featuring multiple males, this scenario is sometimes played out: The men will ask praise the man with the biggest dick and ask the woman how much she loves his big fucker. As porn scenarios represent real life fantasies, it is more than clear that some heterosexual males do get turned on by the size of another man's cock without necessarily being interested in sex with him.
     
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    Well said, as a younger person I saw the film Kinsey and did some research my gosh it's like they wiped him out before I was born trying to pretend that he never figured out the truth about sexuality for most people they are capable of being either to some degree. Yes, about 10% of population are born exclusively gay pretty much about another ten % maybe exclusively str8, all the rest lie somewhere in between, which doesn't mean they will or won't ever act on it, or even admit it or fully know it to themselves even sometimes. Currently in our society most people have NO problem understanding this about girls, girls can look at each other n play with each other in girls gone wild videos, kiss n play at spring break n sorority and fraternities parties, on Howard Stern show, etc, etc. etc. , all over girls can look at, kiss, play with other girls and as long as they still also date guys a lot n all, no one acts like they don't understand it or think all these girls are exclusively gay and in denial or any other bs. Guys r the same way biologically maybe even more so, but society represses it a lot in us currently, (unlike in ancient rome, greece, and at other times & places when this all was more clearly understood as just the way we all are born if we are not taught from an early age to deny it as our nature).
     
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    Some deep thoughts here
     
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    Totally agree! I especially agree with the 10% for both totally straight and gay...men and women.
     
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    I agree with that. But, I believe that a man can prefer sex overall with women, but still be turned on by men's dicks. Maybe a lot more men with experiment with other if the cultural taboo were lifted, but I still hold to the notion that I can get hard from another man's dick without necessarily wanting to play with it.

    Moreover, I think it's hard for a man to admire a big dick without aroused by it to some degree. He sees it or thinks of it and then gets an erection. But, the hard-on may not be because he wants to have sexual contact with that cock; it stems from what the "big cock" he admires respresents: masculinity he enjoys feeling. Perhaps, the big fucker reminds him of his own, which he so adores, or that he envies that cock or feels that he dominates it somehow. All those things, in themselves, can cause his manhood to fill up with blood.

    As I said in my post above,
     
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    My personal experiences as an adolescent, then as an adult make me agree with bigbull...very well expressed, btw, bigbull...clear evidence that your brain must be located in your big, thick, arrogant, and demanding penis! For many reasons I won't bore you with, many gay men just canNOT accept that there are other men who don't have the sexual attraction to other men that they do...hence all that recurring blather about sexuality being a continuum, etc. The more competitive hetero men out here, the more pics of hot cocks (and asses sometimes too:tongue::tongue:)...no complaints here:smile:
     
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    Above: revised and edited

    Thanks, Cklover, for you compliments.:wink: Yes, my brain is in my dick; I think with it all the time. :biggrin1: My dicker is a lot bigger than my brains, I think.
     
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