Super growers vs. above-average showers

[B_crackoff]

Shower or grower, with the first kiss I'll find out how big he is either way.

That would have to be some kiss! You'll find that it takes a lot more than that for any very experienced guy, & it'll take more effort as they get older!

Re flaccid size: That varies tremendously with hormonal fluctuations, temperature, health, & in my case - humidity! My old fellah only likes women hot & sticky.

 

[petite]

Yeah but thats not the point, the question is do you like it better to look at a penis that is very big flaccid or do you like it better to see or feel it growing assuming that both are the same in erect size.

I have no preference there.

 

[Enid]

Yeah but thats not the point, the question is do you like it better to look at a penis that is very big flaccid or do you like it better to see or feel it growing assuming that both are the same in erect size.

actually, i thought that the question was whether you'd rather a man who looked unimpressive flaccid but whose penis when erect was your ideal size for sex, or if you'd rather a man who looks very impressive flaccid but whose erect size was not that perfect for you sex-wise.

i love cocks, soft or rigid and anywhere in between, but given kevbo's choices i would definitely pick the one who has the erect size i like best for penetrative sex.

this question to me seems like it's designed to find out how important flaccid size is to women. i've seen it asked in various forms here.

Would you rather have a man whose unerect size is very unimpressive, but whose erect size is "perfect" (at the upper bound of the size range you prefer)

OR

Would you rather have a man whose unerect size is impressive, but whose erect size is not quite as big as the first choice?

 

[thetramp]

actually, i thought that the question was whether you'd rather a man who looked unimpressive flaccid but whose penis when erect was your ideal size for sex, or if you'd rather a man who looks very impressive flaccid but whose erect size was not that perfect for you sex-wise.

i love cocks, soft or rigid and anywhere in between, but given kevbo's choices i would definitely pick the one who has the erect size i like best for penetrative sex.

this question to me seems like it's designed to find out how important flaccid size is to women. i've seen it asked in various forms here.

Yes the OPs question from two years ago, my point was rather my own question, and if its really designed to find out the importance of flaccid design why let a difference in erect design overshadow the answer?
I just assume that every girl would prefer the better erected size fitting her needs whether that is bigger or not. Plus it is asked in a way that every girl that might have a fable for big flaccid penis would sound shallow by saying she prefers that look. That it is why i phrased it different.

 

[mako shark]

Man if that ain't the understatement of the year!!!

Most men seem to care more about their size than women do.

 

[B_subgirrl]

That would have to be some kiss! You'll find that it takes a lot more than that for any very experienced guy, & it'll take more effort as they get older!

Every guy I've ever kissed has got hard immediately (not counting ones in my early teenage years - wasn't checking with them). This includes very experienced ones. Although the oldest was only 38. I'd always assumed this was normal. Is it not usually the case that guys will get hard through kissing?

 

[dolfette]

Is it not usually the case that guys will get hard through kissing?

yes. in my experience at least.

 

[B_subgirrl]

Glad I'm not the only one

 

[petite]

I asked TheBoyfriend if his penis is ever completely flaccid and he said, "Yeah, when you aren't looking at it. It's Schrodinger's penis."

 

[B_subgirrl]

Roflmao

 

[kc2007]

I'm occasionally 100% soft around my gf. Maybe when skinny dipping while camping or getting dressed in the morning. However, I also get hard super fast when anything sexual starts taking place, at least for the first round. I don't think any girl has ever started sucking me or giving me a hand job while still flaccid if it wasn't for round 2. I wish I could be like that like I see in porno sometime, maybe I'll try thinking about dead kittens or something next time. Another thing is, my faccid size is never the same it seems. It Totally depends on the temperature, comfort level, etc. I can look really small with a skinny 3 inches to rather impressive with a girthy 6 inches. And both of those are totally unaroused. My big balls always give me a bulge though :smile:

 

[petite]

I have seen other men flaccid before, TheBF is just a really horny guy, I guess. :redface:

 

[Jillang]

Is anyone really going to "show" their bf off......lol......I'm so sure. I don't think he'd be your bf for too long.

 

[dolfette]

there's a lot of sizes of soft too.
temperature, emotional state & recent physical exertion...

 

[pcghabsy]

Temperature and humidity does play a big part. The difference between a sub-zero, dry place and a humid, hot tropical summer can be about 2". Probably even more for some guys.

 

[jake7.5]

iv'e always been a grower and when i was first married my now exwife use to just always be amazed of how small I was flaccid and how big i got when erect. It never got old, she was just always impressed of how big I got when it was just so small. were talking going from like 2 1/2" up to a full blown 7 1/2". :biggrin1:

 

[bendigoboi]

I'd prefer a penis that isn't too big and isn't too small, regardless of how it looks when soft.

I do like how it looks when it's soft if it's bigger. I'm one of those weird women who likes looking at penises, though.

...

near the bottom of the list, just above "knees,"

If it's "just above knees" then it's a real shower!

 

[EllieP]

I don't spend a lot of time looking at men's fronts as much as their backsides, so I don't really notice anything. Yes, I was surprised, kind of a mixture of pleasure and terrified, if that makes sense. My husband doesn't change much in size just in stiffness. But he's very self-conscious about showing anything, and I'm fine with that. I don't care for him advertising anything.

 

[petite]

Okay, this is really silly, but I keep trying to catch TheBF totally soft. I woke up earlier than him this morning and one of the first things I thought was, "I wonder if he's totally soft." So I reached for it and, nope, it's floppy but big. It's like a game now. :tongue:

 

[Embrace69]

Okay, this is really silly, but I keep trying to catch TheBF totally soft. I woke up earlier than him this morning and one of the first things I thought was, "I wonder if he's totally soft." So I reached for it and, nope, it's floppy but big. It's like a game now. :tongue:

Haha that's awesome Petite. I'm gonna have to do that with my bf... It really sounds like a fun game. :biggrin1: