So, my gf and I have been having sex for a while now, and periodically after sex, her labia will be sore and quite swollen. It may sound a bit odd, but it has happened enough times now to warrant some attention. She has chalked it up to my size, but I wondered if anyone on here had experienced this in the past. I've never heard of it before. Now, we've been having sex long enough to know that taking it slow, being patient, using lube, and having fun with foreplay can alleviate most of the problems that people bring up in these threads. All of that is duly noted. The strange thing is that this swelling and soreness doesn't seem to happen every time or even correlate to when we rush things or use less lube. Can anyone relate to this? Thanks for the feedback.