Teach Me How to Deep Throat

[petite]

Okay, this thread is for people who learned how to do it and can offer practical advice. I have no problem if you can make it hot and sexy, but I'd prefer useful advice please, not just Penthouse Forum Letters! This is not a poll about whether you enjoy it, like receiving it, or what you think about getting deep throated. I need to know about the difficult parts of learning to do it:

1. Overcoming the gag reflex
2. Getting past that spot in the back of the throat
3. Learning how to get a really huge wide head down
4. Any other issues you can imagine

Boyfriend has a ridiculously huge mushroom head. Shaft is much larger than my wrist, the head of his cock is ridiculous. Help! I'd really like to master this skill and do this for him.

So far I can get it into the back of my throat and gagging hasn't been a huge deal, but I can't actually seem to force it down my throat. Does anyone who has actually done this have any practical advice to offer?

I'm not offering to deep throat anyone here, so please don't PM me. I already have a big boy to practice on! :smile:

 

[Mickactual]

Okay, this thread is for people who learned how to do it ...I need to know about the difficult parts of learning to do it:

Personally, I find it quite easy. I don't really think it can be taught or learned. It's more a matter of desire + practice makes perfect.
:wink:

 

[tat2dqt78]

I used a double ended dildo. I just worked on taking it deeper each time I practiced. I did about 10 mins a day everyday. It eased the gag reflex, and gave me practice taking it into my throat. I didn't want to throw-up on anyone so I practiced at home alone. It took me about 6 weeks to take it all in.

 

[tat2dqt78]

Also if you can trust him not to go into "porn mode" try laying on the bed, with your head hanging over the edge. It opens the throat and makes for a more straight path.

 

[petite]

Personally, I find it quite easy. I don't really think it can be taught or learned. It's more a matter of desire + practice makes perfect.
:wink:

LOL, well I have both desire and a willingness to practice, and maybe you're one of the lucky 33% who don't have a gag reflex, but I do!

I'll go ahead and share one piece of advice I read in an article online from a doctor. He said to learn to overcome the gag reflex (for the other 66% of us who have one) you should use your fingers and slide them down your throat. He said that if you do this 12 times per day (!!!) then you'll eventually overcome your gag reflex entirely.

That still doesn't help with, how do I get that ridiculously wide head down there?

 

[petite]

I used a double ended dildo. I just worked on taking it deeper each time I practiced. I did about 10 mins a day everyday. It eased the gag reflex, and gave me practice taking it into my throat. I didn't want to throw-up on anyone so I practiced at home alone. It took me about 6 weeks to take it all in.

Yeah, I am a little paranoid about that! I was listening to Dan Savage give etiquette advice to a young enthusiastic gay man who accidentally threw up while deep throating! It would sort of ruin the moment, at least for me.

 

[petite]

Also if you can trust him not to go into "porn mode" try laying on the bed, with your head hanging over the edge. It opens the throat and makes for a more straight path.

I do trust him, but I think I'd rather practice with the double ended dildo first. Would it help if I started with a thinner one first before I attempt one as wide as him? It seems like it would be easier.

 

[B_talltpaguy]

Advice from watching the only girl who could throat me to the balls... Get on your hands and knees and do it while he sits on the edge of the bed or kneels... whatever gets him at the same height as you... It's kinda of like the laying your head off the edge of the bed thing, but without being upside down and getting disoriented.

I would also suggest getting getting a cyberskin/UR3 dildo that is very large in girth and practicing on that... There are several models out there, and they are very realistic to suck on, compared to the typical rubber/jellie dildos.

 

[tat2dqt78]

I used a "regular" sized double ended dildo. Once I got past the gag reflex and the mental block of doing it size no longer matters for deepthroating.

 

[Mickactual]

LOL, well I have both desire and a willingness to practice

Good girl. I'm already proud of You!

and maybe you're one of the lucky 33% who don't have a gag reflex, but I do!

I do, but as I said - practice makes perfect.

Would it help if I started with a thinner one first before I attempt one as wide as him? It seems like it would be easier.

Definitely work Your way up in size gradually. Patience and relaxation are equally as important as desire.
Now You go girl!

 

[D_Flesshewer Timbergirth]

if you get a good lip lock on his shaft, blow air from your lungs as if you are going to blow out of your mouth. with a good lip lock, the air is forced into your throat and it will expand it. takes some practice, of course, but it's the only way to take down really huge ones.

 

[petite]

if you get a good lip lock on his shaft, blow air from your lungs as if you are going to blow out of your mouth. with a good lip lock, the air is forced into your throat and it will expand it. takes some practice, of course, but it's the only way to take down really huge ones.

Really? I've never heard that before! Are you gay?

 

[petite]

Good girl. I'm already proud of You!
I do, but as I said - practice makes perfect.
Definitely work Your way up in size gradually. Patience and relaxation are equally as important as desire.
Now You go girl!

I'm trying!

 

[Viking_UK]

Get your angles right. If he's got an upward curve, it will probably be easier for to take him in a 69 position. If it's a downward curve, take it from below.
Take it slow, don't push too hard and give yourself time to get used to it.

 

[fantasychick]

Try sex mints or oral mouth-spray
they numb the back of your throat and help with the gag reflex.... I have been practising with these and can now get about 5.5 inches "down" ( before I could only get about 2 or 3 of a 5.5 inch girth cock lol....

 

[likeitlg]

I find getting it nice and wet with flavoured lube helps it slip down also get it as far as you can then swallow, the swallowing action will open your throat up. And yea if he has a curve watch your angle of approach.

 

[hud01]

I agree with the dildos. Start small and work your way up. If you have the money move to the porn star ones after you have mastered the generic.

For me and the wide ones. I bought a really thick generic model. I couldn't get it past the back of my throat. One day I put it on a chair and pushed my head down. Felt a pop and the entire thing slide down my throat.

When you start you might want to practice in the bathroom. At some point you will do too much and have the possibility of something coming up. If that doesn't freak you out, then you have a good chance.

Lastly, yes it can be learned. You might not be a star like Belladonna, but you can learn to Deep Throat a good sized one.

 

[hud01]

Personally, I find it quite easy. I don't really think it can be taught or learned. It's more a matter of desire + practice makes perfect.
:wink:

You do realize that desire + practice = learned

 

[petite]

Thank you everyone for the practical tips, keep 'em coming if you can think of anything else!

For me and the wide ones. I bought a really thick generic model. I couldn't get it past the back of my throat. One day I put it on a chair and pushed my head down. Felt a pop and the entire thing slide down my throat.

I am terrified of the "pop." Could I break something? Do I really just need to have courage and just push it?

When you start you might want to practice in the bathroom. At some point you will do too much and have the possibility of something coming up. If that doesn't freak you out, then you have a good chance.

Good grief, that's a practical idea!

Lastly, yes it can be learned. You might not be a star like Belladonna, but you can learn to Deep Throat a good sized one.

Ooo, now I've gotta look up Belladonna! Inspiration!

I find getting it nice and wet with flavoured lube helps it slip down also get it as far as you can then swallow, the swallowing action will open your throat up. And yea if he has a curve watch your angle of approach.

I'll try that. Do you know of a really good flavor? I bought some once and I did not like it.

Boyfriend is completely straight.

Try sex mints or oral mouth-spray
they numb the back of your throat and help with the gag reflex.... I have been practising with these and can now get about 5.5 inches "down" ( before I could only get about 2 or 3 of a 5.5 inch girth cock lol....

Sex mints? It's so obvious now that you brought that up, but I didn't know that such a thing existed before!

Get your angles right. If he's got an upward curve, it will probably be easier for to take him in a 69 position. If it's a downward curve, take it from below.
Take it slow, don't push too hard and give yourself time to get used to it.

Dan Savage said the exact same thing! Boyfriend is uncurved, though, he's very straight.

 

[hud01]

I am terrified of the "pop." Could I break something? Do I really just need to have courage and just push it?

If you move up slowly in size you should see expansion.

With the one I did swallow there was not pain, just pressure. I have one which is 2.5 across and 7.5 around and I can't get close to pushing it and when I try there is pain, so I tried a couple of times and gave up.

The interesting side note. After widening my throat, I felt like I was getting more air to my lungs, since the opening had been stretched.

Have to ask the important question, how big around is his shaft?

Edit: Forgot to add that when I use the bathroom many times I gargle with a large amount of Listerine. The alcohol in it slightly de-sensitizes (SP) the throat and then I spit it out on the dildo to help lube it.